Whould I call 'im back?

[Deja Q]

Been 2 weeks since I saw this guy. Upfront he said he was not interested in a relationship. At the time, I did not care.

He called back 2 days ago, asking why I've not called him back yet.

We've nothing in common. The dates have been as empty as I am.

[wildhorses]

1. he may not be Mr. Right but, at least he's Mr. Right Now...

which is better than a poke in the eye with a sharp stick...

[Orsino]

2. Just common courtesy to call him back.

Sounds as though he waited a while, and has only called once. As long as he's not weird or stalkery, a final phone call could settle it politely.

Courtesy should rule, IMO, unless you have concerns for your safety.

[Deja Q]

4. Do unto others what others have never done unto me.

It is the right thing to do. Even if it is a dying breed, the courteous.

[aclog]

3. See this is what I was talking about last night

there is no way this is unintentional humor right? So, that means you DO have a sense of humor

Now you just need to focus it on something that isn't so dark that even Batman finds it too bleak and dour to brood over all day :)

Neurotic can be funny, trust or at least I know girls who think my neurosiseses are amusing anyway ;)

[Deja Q]

5. x

[Deja Q]

6. I called him back...

He was glad I had.

He was concerned.

I told him the truth. This did not scare him off, oddly.

We will be seeing each other again next Friday.

I am looking forward to it.

Now if only I can find a single woman who has as much attraction for me as I do to her just so I can know for real which gender I prefer and get on with what's left of my life... (On an emotional scale, I am infinitely more comfortable around women. But I must be honest with myself completely or there is no point.)

[swimboy]

7. My advice? Be here now.

Now you have a date. Don't worry about having another one to compare it to! Just see if you enjoy the one you have. :hug:

[Deja Q]

8. Something to live for, anyway.

Another week to squidge by...

Still, I'd rather resolve my curiosity. If my death is near, I do not want any mysteries to go out on. (I'm hoping to prolong the worst; exercise to date has helped... but I've got a long ways to go, I cannot go slow due to my deconditioned state, and there is such as thing as "too little too late".)