divorce?

[Niccolo_Macchiavelli]

i've come to the conclusion i have nothing to give to her

she has nothing to give me

allthough we want much of the same, we just don't fit togheter

i admit my thoughts and my soul are already almost gone somewhere else, since i feel alien and dispensable in this relationship.

i'm unsure to terminate the relationship because i don't know if there will ever be another, better none than a unwanted one?

but it will be till death separates you...alas




























terra and i just don't belong togheter

well life has light side... it ends sooner or later


NM

[aclog]

1. I feel like I comment on this thread bc I'm going through alot of

the same shit although mines not divorce related :(

Your bit at the end shows you are finding some solace in gallow's humor. I told my mom if I ever saw Life on the street I was gonna punch in the face then kick him in the ass for all the shit hes put me through. She laughed and I took a little comfort in a lame ass joke. It helps sometimes

[wildhorses]

2. hey NM....I am sorry to hear this for you

Divorce is a tough thing ...I know, I have been through 2 of them...

I have been wondering how you are doing

I guess with this post I know

:hug:

[Niccolo_Macchiavelli]

3. divorce is meant as a metapher...

[wildhorses]

5. as opposed to a simile...?

anyway, like you said... LIFE does have a light side...

[MissHoneychurch]

4. If you don't feel comfy with her anymore

stop the relationship. There will come someone else along. To stay in a relationship just because to be in a relationship doesn't help either of you.

:hug:

[Niccolo_Macchiavelli]

6. ain't

"her" is my life (as opposed to a woman). Even if i feel strongly i could do without and the rest of my life (aka rest of planet) can do even better without me i'm a bit hesitant to "divorce" since it would literally be the last thing i do. If there's a another therafter is unknown. If i knew there was, i would be hanging from my ceiling by now.

[KitchenWitch]

7. Please find someone to talk to

Nothing is worth killing yourself over.

[MissHoneychurch]

8. Tschuldigung

didn't read it that way.
No you don't want to "divorce". You want to keep going. You don't want to give that grief to the people who love you

Den eigenen Tod den stirbt man nur, doch mit dem Tod der anderen muß man leben. Think about it.

[MissHoneychurch]

9. check your pm

[Giant Robot]

10. I don't want to give you glib advice

I have the feeling that what you are going through is overwhelming. And I can only guess that your options are pretty limited. But I would like you to try to get some help. It probably won't hurt the situation, maybe even help. Please consider this before you make any attempts at killing yourself.

[BigMcLargehuge]

11. I am locking this Niccolo_Macchiavelli

We are very worried about you. Please call a crisis hotline at 1-800-784-2433 and speak with a professional. DU members are not qualified to provide you with the help that you need.

Big McLargehuge
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