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anarch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:56 AM
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my cat died
His name was Jeffrey. He was an awesome cat.

It's so weird...he seemed completely fine when I left for work yesterday, and hadn't seemed sick at all, in fact. My girlfriend called around 1:30, hysterical, saying he was dead. She came out of the back room, and there he was just laying on the floor, no sign of what might have happened, but very dead. It took me a couple times hearing it to even believe it--I mean, out of everyone in the household, he was the last I expected to go. I figured he would outlive me, even. He was only about six years old.

R.I.P. Jeffrey.

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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:58 AM
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1. I am so sorry!!!
:hug:
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Beausoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:18 PM
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22. What a terrible shock.
I am so very sorry. He looked like a great cat!

Can you take any comfort in the fact that he did not suffer? I know that's very hard right now.

RIP to that fella.
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:58 AM
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2. I'm sorry, anarch.
:hug:
blessings to Jeffrey the cat.... O8)
I'm sure he gave you a lot of Love.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:59 AM
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3. anarch...I'm so sorry.
For Jeffrey :hug: A beautiful cat.
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:59 AM
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4. Safe passage, Jeffrey, free from suffering.
And comfort to you and your girlfriend, anarch.

My first cat died like this (although he was a bit older), just on the patio once.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:59 AM
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5. So sorry
:hug:

only 6??? That is very young for a cat. My first cat died at age 7. But he was hit by a car.

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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:59 AM
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6. Am sorry, anarch!
:hug: So sorry about you losing your pet. :hug:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:59 AM
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7. What sad news.
I am sorry for your loss.

RIP-Jeffrey! :( :hug:
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anarch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 11:46 AM
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8. hey, just a thanks to all for the sympathy...and a kick for Jeffrey
I'm busy as hell at work today, so I don't know how much I can come back here...but thank you all for your kind words. I really miss the little guy.
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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:00 PM
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11. Is there any way to find out what happened?
I feel so bad because it came as such a shock. :cry: RIP Jeffrey.
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anarch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:04 PM
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13. yeah, we actually took him for a necropsy
It really is mysterious...no warning whatsoever. Hopefully the vet will be able to tell us something next week. It doesn't make it any easier one way or the other, but we also have a dog in the house, so if there was something he got into we need to find out about it.
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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:13 PM
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18. Again, I am so sorry.
I lost a kitty due to illness three years ago and it was difficult enough knowing ahead of time that he was going to pass. I can't imagine what you must be going through. :hug: My best energy to you.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 11:51 AM
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9. I'm so very sorry ~ anarch.
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LiberalEsto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 11:58 AM
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10. Poor kitty. I'm so sorry.
I hope he's in kitty heaven, wearing little angel wings.
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El Fuego Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:04 PM
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12. I am so sorry!
:hug:

I know that was a terrible shock you never expected. :hug:
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:06 PM
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14. anarch, I am so very sorry for you.
:hug: Bet he's up there chasing my ol' dog, Buddy, off of the Rainbow Bridge.

:hug: so sorry.
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:07 PM
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15. From a pet lover
:hug:
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schmuls Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:09 PM
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16. Oh, I am so sorry! I know how this hurts. It's hard to lose our
little friends. Rest in peace, dear Jeffrey.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:10 PM
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17. Aaaw.. How sad.. He was such a pretty boy
:hug:
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madmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:15 PM
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19. I am so sorry for your loss... it sounds like it could be poisoning
house plants, anti freeze anything like that a possibility?
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:16 PM
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20. sorry to hear 'bout your kitty
peace and low stress to you and yours...
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RandomKoolzip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:18 PM
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21. Oh god, I'm so sorry!
He looks just like my cat Steve...:cry:
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:19 PM
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23. The sympathies of the Bowden family
To all the members of yours.
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:21 PM
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24. oh anarch -- that's heartbreaking.
i'm so sorry -- there's just nothing i can say -- i know -- but please let us know what happened.

everyone will want to know.

all the best, anarch -- that is so tough.
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MrsMatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:21 PM
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25. very sorry about your loss
It is very difficult to lose beloved friend and family member.

I had a neighbor whose cat suddenly died at a young age (about 3 years old). They determined that she had cardiomyopathy - she'd had a massive heart attack and died instantly. It was just a genetic defect she was born with and there was nothing that could have been done to prevent it.
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:24 PM
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26. Safe passage to the Rainbow Bridge, Jeffrey,
and love, guidance and protection to you, anarch, and all who have loved and are loved by Jeffrey. :hug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:26 PM
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27. anarch, I do not believe we have met. I just want to offer my
condolences on the loss of your friend. What wonderful eyes...
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crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:27 PM
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28. Aw...
((( HUG ))) it's always hard to lose a furchild -- and that was very young to go. :hug:
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samplegirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:27 PM
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29. so very sorry
I cant imagine the shock. Your beloved Jeffrey
looks very sweet.
Again I am so sorry, take care.
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:28 PM
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30. oh, no.
I am so very sorry. Jeffrey looks like he was a most excellent cat, and I'm sure you must be grieving terribly. It's so hard to lose the little furry ones that we love so much. :hug:
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AnarchoFreeThinker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:28 PM
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31. anarch, that sucks. good thoughts coming at ya.
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China_cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:33 PM
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32. We had that happen once.
Turned out that it was urinary blockage which can be symptomless and kill quickly. My husband was getting dressed to take the cat to the vet for his regular checkup. When he came out of the bedroom...just a few minutes from the time he had been petting the cat and talking to him...Al was laying on the floor dead.

I'm so sorry it happened to you. Bad enough when you know it's going to come, or when there's a vehicle involved, but no obvious reason tends to have you beating yourself up. Please don't. If it happened that fast, there's probably nothing anyone (including a vet) could have done.

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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:35 PM
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33. I'm so sorry
He was a beautiful cat.
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Mz Pip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:36 PM
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34. So sorry.
It's so hard when it's sudden and there is no chance to prepare yourself. Hope you find out what happened.

:hug:

Mz Pip
:dem:
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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:55 PM
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35. I'm so sorry to hear.
He looks like he was a very pretty cat. I'm sorry to hear you lost him.

Our pets gift us with laughter and love and they are here for far too short of a time. I've wondered sometimes if maybe those little bodies are just not strong enough to hold up under such a big job as that.

Hugs to you all, I'm sure you are hurting right now.



Laura
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Flaxbee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:11 PM
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36. Awww, RIP Jeffrey. What a wonderful kitty face!
One of our beloved kitties died rather suddenly - no symptoms that I could tell, but he apparently had a fast-growing intestinal tumor that burst one day while I was at school, and he was dying when I got home. It was horrible, but the vet said there was really no way to detect the tumor since it grew so fast (though if I'd been home when it happened, maybe I could have gotten him to the vet's in time).

I'm sorry Jeffrey died. But he knew he was loved, I have no doubt, and he loved you.
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pointblank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:14 PM
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37. Sorry to hear that
:-(

I dont know what I would do if I lost one of my dogs suddenly like that. I feel for you.
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NaturalHigh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:22 PM
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38. Sorry to hear about Jeffrey.
It makes me sad whenever anyone loses a loved one.
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:28 PM
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39. RIP Jeffrey.
:( My condolences on your loss.
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sshaw1980 Donating Member (110 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:29 PM
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40. i'm so sorry for your loss
:hug:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:30 PM
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41. Hate when I hear about these kitty deaths.
So sorry.
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Strong Atheist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:36 PM
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42. That is so sad, and terrible. I am sorry about that.
:cry: :cry: :cry: :hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 03:14 PM
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43. Sorry. It hurts.
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fiddlestix Donating Member (112 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 03:17 PM
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44. God rest his soul...
Sorry for your loss...

I have a dog, I love him the most (don't tell my kids, shhhhhhh)

Hugs to you!

Love, Nina
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liberalitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 03:21 PM
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45. I live in horror of that happening....
One of my fellas is a mystery to us.....
he picked us and we have no idea how old he is..... the vet said he appeared to be perfectly healthy and at least 5 years old when she first met him about 4 years ago.
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Bzzzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 08:51 PM
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46. I'm so sorry, anarch...
I know how devastating it can be to lose a pet.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 08:51 PM
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47. Oh, I'm sorry.
A :hug: for Jeffrey.
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 08:54 PM
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48. I'm sorry anarch

It is never easy losing a pet, may your memories bring you comfort. :hug:

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Lavender Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 08:56 PM
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49. I'm so sorry.
He was beautiful. :hug:
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 09:01 PM
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50. Oh no... that's horrible.
:hug:
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 09:03 PM
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51. that's very sad news...
:cry: peace to Jeffery :hug:
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benny05 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 09:08 PM
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52. Weird things happen to our kids--our amimals
What a beautiful boy. Sorry about his passing. I wish you a lot strength as you and your partner try to get through your loss of Jeffrey.
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benny05 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 09:10 PM
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53. oops--animals
No disrespect for Jeffrey...typist is not a good one..

Our felines, Benson and Elmo, are sad about Jeffrey...as am I.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:06 PM
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54. So sorry!
:hug: It's so tough to lose a good cat..
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Olney Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:09 PM
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55. I'm sorry, anarch.
:hug:
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:51 PM
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56. Jeffrey looks like a great cat.
I am sorry that he is gone.

Take care.
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Ariana Celeste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 11:19 PM
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57. I'm so sorry
:hug:

I don't even know what to say. It's so sad to lose a beloved pet, they are like children, their own people. I don't know what I'd do if my baby died. :( :hug:
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Presidentcokedupfratboy Donating Member (994 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 11:21 PM
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58. I'm so sorry
He looked like such a gentle creature.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 11:24 PM
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59. I'm so sorry, anarch
:hug:

What a beautiful face Jeffrey had. He looked very contented and loved.
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borlis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-04-06 12:11 AM
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60. I am so sorry you lost your furry little friend.
This picture of him is just beautiful. Sometimes you just never know why things happen like this. My sister's 5 year old cat died during the night last Tuesday without any warning at all. The vet thinks he may have had a heart attack. Life is really unfair sometimes. May your wonderful memories carry you through these hard times.
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imperial jedi Donating Member (192 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-04-06 03:44 AM
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61. RIP Jeffrey.
he looks like a sweetheart.:hug:
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-04-06 04:01 AM
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62. So sorry
what a beautiful guy. I hope you can figure out what happened. That is just shocking.
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Hissyspit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-04-06 04:57 AM
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63. You are not alone in your sadness, anarch. Sincerest sympathies.
Remember to go out and give another kitty a home as soone as you can.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-04-06 04:59 AM
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64. Oh, damn. I'm so sorry anarch....
...I'm so very sorry...:hug:
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strangemedicine Donating Member (83 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-04-06 08:33 AM
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65. So sorry!
Jeffrey looks like a sweetie cat. Always hard to lose a friend.
Hugs and peaceful reflection to you this morning, as little Jeffrey walks across the Rainbow bridge. :hug:
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legally blonde Donating Member (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-04-06 11:08 AM
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66. God, I am so sorry, anarch
:cry:
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-08-06 06:38 PM
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67. aww
R.I.P. Jeffrey!
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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-08-06 06:41 PM
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68. So Sorry
:hug:
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-08-06 06:41 PM
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69. I'm so sorry.
For it to be so unexpected, that had to be a shock. :hug:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-08-06 06:55 PM
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70. I am so sorry
Grieve not,
nor think of me with tears
But laugh
and talk to me as if I were beside you.
I loved you so . . .
'Twas Heaven here with you


-- Isla Paschal Richardson
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-08-06 06:56 PM
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71. Oh no!
I'm so sorry. He looked like a real sweetie. :hug:
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Liberalynn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-08-06 07:54 PM
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72. Anarch
I am so sorry for you and your girlfriend over the loss of Jeffery. He was a beautiful guy.:hug:
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