bertha katzenengel
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Tue Feb-07-06 10:59 AM
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How do you get a depressed 15-yr-old boy to EAT?! Help, please? |
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AAAAAHHHHHHHHH!
It's a terrible cycle. He gets down, doesn't feel like eating, and the lack of energy makes it worse.
Help?! Thank you very much.
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:05 AM
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But only if his favorite comfort foods go untouched. Eating disorders suck.
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:06 AM
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2. Maybe he needs some counseling to get at the root of what's going on |
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internally. Someone objective... It's sad that he's dealing with depression at such a young age.
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:10 AM
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:( There is no money for that. FUCK this bass-ackwards country sometimes. :grr:
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:12 AM
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5. Depending on where he lives, he could |
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get a free mental health assessment and meds.
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Good Luck, B.
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:15 AM
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6. I wouldn't give up yet. Because he's a minor, there might be some |
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lo-income or free counseling alternatives for him. Start by checking in with his school counselor about potential resources.
If this has been going on for a long time, I'd definitely be concerned.
I'm sorry this is happening.
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Tue Feb-07-06 07:29 PM
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28. Is there a NAMI in your area? |
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Look in the yellow pages. They will hook you up with therapists who do pro bono work. One of my college professors was the child psych director of NAMI here in Oklahoma, but it's national. I'd look around, see if they have an office there. Duckie
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:08 AM
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3. Has a doctor checked him out lately? |
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Perhaps he needs couseling about the depression.
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bertha katzenengel
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Tue Feb-07-06 03:38 PM
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11. He has an appointment on the 24th -- |
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:17 AM
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7. I agree with the others |
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about getting a doctor. For immediate help, try cheese. :-) That always worked for me at that age. And...well...nowadays too.
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:36 AM
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It's thought of as mainly an herb for women, but it works really well for eating disorders. It also helps with anxiety - and sleep.
Check it out on the web, you can buy it by it self in caps or tincture (liquid tastes like poison and he won't take it) - There's combos you can get with other herbs for eating disorders.
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Tue Feb-07-06 11:38 AM
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It's really a cure-all for adolescent misbehavior. It's how I was raised (not really) and you could set your watch by my nutritional proclivities (in that I usually eat around the same time). :patriot:
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bertha katzenengel
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Tue Feb-07-06 03:39 PM
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What's five across the eyes? Are you talking about being hit?
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Tue Feb-07-06 03:58 PM
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13. Yes, but he's not serious. |
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Tue Feb-07-06 04:09 PM
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Didn't expect that outta jpgray. I need to tune up my sarcasm meter.
Thanks, SO.
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Tue Feb-07-06 12:49 PM
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10. Mrs. Field's cookies and milk. |
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Tue Feb-07-06 04:14 PM
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15. Pizza. That usually works. |
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He'll snap out of it sooner or later. 15 year olds get moody.
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Tue Feb-07-06 04:17 PM
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16. Alice B Toklas brownies |
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If he eats one he won't stop.
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Tue Feb-07-06 04:30 PM
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or high-calorie mini-foods like granola bars or protein shakes.
My mother had this problem with my sister. The key is to trick them into eating small things that pack in the calories. Also, insist on vitamin pills.
Of course, it's only a quick fix of the symptoms. There are probably deeper issues to resolve. If it's just that he's not interesting in eating, making food quick and effective is important. If he's so depressed that he can't eat - he needs more help than a pop tart can provide.
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Tue Feb-07-06 04:34 PM
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Start with a couple old Playboys and work your way up if needed.
That's what I'd do anyway.
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Tue Feb-07-06 05:03 PM
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21. OH shit -- that would work, but I seriously doubt my sister wants |
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to go there.
The boy already pervs on Victoria's Secret, like a normal adolescent. Full blown (no pun intended) porn is a bit much yet. He is a tender soul.
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Tue Feb-07-06 05:07 PM
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Like I said, old Playboys, before they started showing the naughty bits in detail and soft-focus lenses were all the rage :D
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bertha katzenengel
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Tue Feb-07-06 05:11 PM
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There's a whole box of those in my basement! :rofl: I was gonna sell 'em on eBay....
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Tue Feb-07-06 05:14 PM
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People collect them, if they're in good condition, you could probably get over the marked price for each copy.
Especially the celebrity ones like Vanessa White, Dana Plato, Samantha Fox, Susanne Summers (1980), Patti Davis, Nancy Sinatra
sigh, I know way too much about this :yoiks:
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Tue Feb-07-06 04:41 PM
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19. Put food in front of him and tell him he's not aloud to eat. |
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There is no surer way to get a teenager to do something than to tell them they aren't allowed to do it :evilgrin:
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Tue Feb-07-06 05:11 PM
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Tue Feb-07-06 04:42 PM
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20. Is it genetic? Is it a CHANGE in behavior? |
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I was emaciated as a kid - people later told me they thought I was anorexic. I guess the key thing is that it was consistant behavior - I didn't eat whether I was at home or at camp or at college or anywhere.
My poor parents tried everything they could to try to make me eat - put weight on me -- bananas, malt shakes, cookies, candy, Big Macs (my dad was so cute - we always stopped at McDonalds on the way home from college for a Big Mac, fries and a chocolate shake as if he could put some weight on me before we got home and frightened my mother). When I was a senior, I saw a picture in a sorority scrapbook, and thought "look at that scrawny anorexic - typical sorority girl", and then was horrified to realize that it was me. Bones sticking out everywhere - not a good look. I met my birthmother, and saw pictures of her as a kid and teen, and she was just as painfully thin. Neither of us put any meat on our bones until well into our 20's. If we had all known this was genetic, I think we all would have been a little less worried about it.
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Tue Feb-07-06 06:03 PM
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26. If there is any food or circumstance that he will eat |
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Go for that. If he will drink, have available nutritious but high calorie drinks. I don't know what is going through his mind, but encouraging people to eat is a fine balance between letting them know that you care enough that you want them to eat and avoiding making them feel under too much pressure to eat. I hope the doctor has some ideas. I also hope that he is eating something between now and then.
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Tue Feb-07-06 06:19 PM
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27. Have a 15-year old girl bring him a sandwich. |
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Tue Feb-07-06 09:49 PM
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that'll work for sure.
wow not wanting to eat, I can't even imagine that though. Wow... not wanting to eat, I just can't... argh that defies everything I know! Hell I workout simply so I can eat more so I pack on muscle upping my minimal daily cal requirements.
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Tue Feb-07-06 09:58 PM
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30. Poor thing. I hope he feels better soon. |
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Definitely have a doctor check him out. Depression is not something to ignore. Good luck!
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