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Thu Feb-09-06 07:27 PM
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| research..? Name early signs of your mate cheating or bailing on you |
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Curious of what other dyers are or have experienced
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| liontamer
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Thu Feb-09-06 07:40 PM
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| 1. you start thinking they're cheating on you |
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unless you have a history of irrational jealousy, you're probably right. or he/she is planning a surprise party for you.
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Thu Feb-09-06 07:42 PM
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| 3. until late september i was never ever jealous |
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but funny how things change
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Thu Feb-09-06 11:45 PM
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| 11. yeah there's your answer |
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you wouldn't feel jealous if they were still as firmly in the relationship as before.
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Thu Feb-09-06 07:41 PM
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| Deja Q
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Thu Feb-09-06 07:45 PM
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| 4. I'm so thick regarding peoples' mannerisms, I wouldn't tell. |
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If anything, I'd be more wanting to join in...
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Thu Feb-09-06 07:45 PM
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| 5. Funny you should mention 'dyers' |
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that's exactly what mine did...dye his hair. To cover the (three) grey strands.
Then started to get obsessive about his appearance.
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| Guava Jelly
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Thu Feb-09-06 07:47 PM
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| 6. crap typo I meant duers.. |
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Thu Feb-09-06 07:54 PM
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| 7. accusing me of cheating... I knew it was projection. nt |
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Thu Feb-09-06 08:51 PM
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| 8. picking fights with you about issues they ignored before |
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Almost as if they're trying to convince themselves that you are the one who is "driving them away", and that what they are doing is therefore okay. (Believe it or not, my ex suddenly began to accuse me of not checking up on him ... "I could have been having a fling when I was on that business trip, for all you knew -- don't you care enough to call me and see if I'm in my room?")
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Thu Feb-09-06 10:17 PM
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| 9. Lose interest in sex with you |
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Change their habits concerning hygeine and their appearance.
Suddenly has to work late/on weekends when they didn't have to before.
Keeps a cell phone and won't let you look at the bill/calls.
Those are just off the top of my head... I'm sure there are lots more.
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Thu Feb-09-06 10:21 PM
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| 10. "Checking up" is interpreted as "spying" |
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"Hey, how's it going."
"Why are you calling?!?"
"What time for dinner?"
"Are you spying on me?!?"
etc. etc. :eyes:
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