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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-15-06 07:15 PM
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Boundries - Is it OK to flirt at work?
http://www.cnn.com/2006/US/Careers/02/15/cb.flirt.at.work/index.html

But, much like paparazzi-plagued celebrities, you have to keep insisting that you're "just friends" to everyone around you, including yourselves. Still, you wonder, "What's the big deal, anyway? A little flirtation never hurt anyone."

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Pay attention to body language. If the object of your flirtation is not reciprocating, that person may be uncomfortable (arms crossed in front of the chest is usually a signal) or simply uninterested (take a lack of eye contact or unenthusiastic, one-word answers as major hints).

Be aware of the message your own body language is sending as well. Maintaining eye contact or lightly touching a person's hand when telling a story is fine; behavior that is sexual in nature, such as shoulder- or back-rubbing, is not only inappropriate, it's nauseating for others to watch.


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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-15-06 07:46 PM
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1. Hmmm. Any kind of physical contact from co-workers that wasn't
accidental would upset me, even "lightly touching (my) hand"
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