Men Do You Realize That When You Stare at My Chest At Work

[La Lioness Priyanka]

You are being unprofessional. I think you are stupid because only stupid people stare at boobs long enough to get caught. You are also sexist. Probably cheat on your wife. Have very little career potential.

I make these judgments of you merely because I can.

[Starbucks Anarchist]

1. Sorry, what were you saying?

:evilgrin:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

2. nothing that you would have understood anyway.

being far less bright than me!

:P

[Starbucks Anarchist]

4. Huh?

;)

[La Lioness Priyanka]

6. duh!

[bigwillq]

3. The trick is to be discreet about it!

:evilgrin:

Not that I do that but I'm just saying! :) :hi:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

5. hi honey

yes i agree if you must admire...do it without making someone unconfortable

[bigwillq]

7. Have you said anything to them????

:shrug:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

11. no i dont actually work with stupid sexist people

thank the gods for that

[bigwillq]

16. So this was just a general analysis

of proper workplace behavior!?! :shrug:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

20. not its a copy cat thread.

[bigwillq]

22. OH!

I will have to go find the original.

[Call Me Wesley]

8. I will not stare at your chest, I will not stare at your chest ...

Is it Teak?



Just kidding. I know what you mean. :hi:.

[matcom]

9. stop wearing tops so low that they are hanging out and i won't stare

:hide:

:popcorn:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

10. says the boys whose ass hangs out of his pants

:P

[matcom]

12. i don't mind if you stare

but if you wanna touch it will cost you $1

[La Lioness Priyanka]

13. lol!

how much will it cost me to get you to cover up?

:P

[matcom]

15. better quit your job

cause THAT ain't happening sister :bounce:

[Blue_Tires]

17. +1

maybe the lioness should post some more photos, and we can all stare in the privacy of behind closed doors?

[arwalden]

14. So What Does It Mean If I Stare At Men's Bulging Crotches At Work?

Am I also a cheater? Do I also have very little career potential?

How do you feel if a WOMAN stares at your chest while at work?

[matcom]

18. POUNCE Allen!

:popcorn:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

19. well i cant see why i cant make random judgements on men

when men feels its perfectly appropriate to rate my intelligence/class from clothing/

this is a copycat-ish thread. fyi.

[matcom]

21. you aren't very bright are you?

:D

:popcorn:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

23. not very bright. top 10% of people applying to grad school bright.

so very very bright i would say!

:P

[matcom]

24. don't you know our schools have failed us?

thanks to LIEBURALS!!

i wouldn't be TOO pleased with yourself if I were you :P

[La Lioness Priyanka]

26. i am not too pleased with myself

esp not with my brains since my entire self esteem revolves around my perfect breasts!

[matcom]

31. PERFECT?

honey, you should see my NIPPLES!

[Commie Pinko Dirtbag]

67. YEEEEE HAAAAWWWW! The Queer Duck™ is BACK!!!!11!11cos(0)11!!

OMG THIS IS HUGH!!1!!1!!

[Rabrrrrrr]

25. Women have heads?!

Since when?!

:-)

I'm with ya - it is awfully rude to speak to the breasts. And sadly, I know I've been guilty of it, and I knew better and shouldn't have done it.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

28. bad rabrrrrrr!

[ThomCat]

27. As a devout people watcher I have to say

that staring is really tacky. It doesn't matter who you stare at, or why.

Though, I am probaby guilty at times. Some people are just so fascinating or beautiful/handsome that I'm in awe.

Like when I saw this goth guy wearing a torn shirt on the subway yesterday. He had the most beautiful abs and chest...
:P

[La Lioness Priyanka]

30. hello!

did you think he was a classless slut though?

[ThomCat]

34. Not at all. Point taken.

n/t

[Robb]

29. It's my fault. I'm a slow reader!

:cry:






:D






p.s. Think nametags, if you're scratching your head.

[NewJeffCT]

32. now, what if you wore a very low cut top at work?

sometimes, it's hard not to look. But, I make it a point to not stare.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

35. if i wore a lot cut top to work and you looked i wouldnt really care

i would also not care if you made assumptions about me (stupid-classless-slut) but that would make you a sexist.

[NewJeffCT]

42. I rarely make assumptions about people

what does the amount of cleavage you show have to do with your IQ or class?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

49. ohh that wasnt directed at you per se

it was directed at assumptions made by people in general, sorry if it came out wrong.

take a look at the thread this is a copy cat of. you'll see what i mean.

[hfojvt]

33. fortunately nobody expects

the janitor to be either bright or professional, so I can look as long as I want :bounce:
who says this job doesn't have its fringe benefits?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

36. lol.

now that IS funny

[flvegan]

37. Where I work, women stare more at my chest, not vice versa.

I'm flattered.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

38. your self esteem clearly revolves around your gorgeous body,

blah blah blah!

[flvegan]

41. No, actually

I lack self esteem, but at work my confidence comes from knowing I have talent and know my stuff.

[ThomCat]

39. But Priyanka has a point.

They're probably not assuming you're a slut, or stupid, because you look hot.

(and by the way, if you do look hot, feel free to post photos.) :P

[LeftyMom]

40. *giggle*

Look what I started. :rofl: The poor man can't post anything withouy somebody bugging him for a pic.

Yeah, he's hot.

[flvegan]

45. !

Uh huh. Lukewarm at the very best.

[LeftyMom]

47. I beg to differ

:9

[flvegan]

44. You'd be amazed at

just how unintelligent folks think I am because I work out a lot.

I solved a problem yesterday that's been nagging this company for a year in regards to the transmission speed of the scanner they use. Took me around 5 minutes to find a solution. "I had no idea you were so smart." I've only been there 3 months...maybe that's it.

I would also never consider a female that looked hot to be stupid or a slut. Just hot.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

48. he is hot ...there are photos around!

[Left Is Write]

54. "IF" he looks hot? Oh, honey....

He's on fire!

[Rabrrrrrr]

43. You do have that kind of chest, flvegan!

The kind that women like and men would like to have (and some men, I suppose, who would like to have it still attached to you...) (not me - this is not me hitting on you, just to be clear that I'm not stalking you or hinting at anything inappropriate)

[ThomCat]

46. Hey, I'm just flirting.

There was a thread yesterday that said that's okay. :)

:bounce: :bounce:

[NewJeffCT]

50. I know

but, it can be a serious topic, too.

my ex-wife said one of the reasons she liked me at first was I was the first guy that didn't have a problem making eye contact with her, or something like that.

[Sequoia]

51. What if women do it?

Not lesbies, just envy. I have things I can't even wear, sniff..cause mother nature skipped me by. Even when I had a baby for crying out loud. People say, it doesn't matter, but it does. Don't lie to me, I know it's important.

[Left Is Write]

56. Here too.

Even when I was nursing, I still could barely fill out a B-cup.

[LeftyMom]

57. I'd kill to be a B cup

Anybody want to guess how hard it was to find an A cup nursing bra?

[Left Is Write]

58. I didn't use nursing bras.

I hated them. I just used all-cotton stretchie bras.

I stopped nursing two years ago. Back to the old A cups.

[xmas74]

72. Easier than finding a nursing bra

for a woman who was a DDD before pregnancy.
When I was nursing I used to wrap my chest w/ an ACE bandage. It was the only thing that fit.

[ET Awful]

52. My ex-girlfriend used to have two wonderful shirts

One was a t-shirt that said My ears are up there and had an arrow pointing up, and other simply said Why are you talking to them? They can't hear you.

I always got a good laugh out of them :P

[no name no slogan]

53. If they're half-naked and on display, what do you expect?

It's like waving a raw steak in front of a pitbull: don't be suprised if some wiseass has a peek.

[Cathyclysmic]

55. True, boobs are only for posting on public forums

So you can be unprofessional in the privacy of your own home.

[friesianrider]

59. Well, what does one expect?

If a woman wears extremely revealing clothing, men will have a peek - it isn't really appropriate to expect a different reaction. It's a pretty natural reaction.

[Skittles]

60. oh come on, fries

it does not take revealing clothing for a man to stare at a woman's chest - there are a lot of juvenile men out there

[no name no slogan]

61. No, but if you shove them under their faces

expect to get stared at.

[Skittles]

65. oh so now we are SHOVING them

whatever

[no name no slogan]

66. Um, no

but if you walk around in a halter top or in something that's deliberately revealing, don't be suprised if certain men stare at them. No, it's not right, but in this society it's certainly not unexpected.

[friesianrider]

79. Good point...

You're absolutely right...

[Nikia]

69. I have men staring at my chest almost no matter what I wear

I practically have to wear my husband's XXL shirts in order for my breasts not to be stared at. I am not anywhere close to being that big. I am still underweight and have big breasts anyway. Maybe, I should just wear a burka.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

71. you awful slut. how dare you look like a woman.

its unholy.

[friesianrider]

81. I guess what I'm trying to say is...

It's a perfectly natural thing for men to stare at large breasts, just like it's perfectly natural for them to look at a beautiful woman, or a woman to check out a handsome guy or one who has a really nice body. It may bother some women, but for those who wear skimpy, revealing outfits then get all bitchy when men notice are just really flakey to me. :shrug:

I don't have humungo breasts, but they aren't small (full C here), so maybe I just don't understand what it's like to have double D's...but I guess I wouldn't let it bother me all that much. I tend to take it as a compliment - if a man thinks I am physically attractive, or have a nice body, then that's a compliment. I spend a good deal of time staying in shape, so appreciate it when others notice. And, there's nothing wrong with being physically nice for the opposite sex to look at, and it's even better when you know you've got the brains too :)

[Commie Pinko Dirtbag]

62. I am a rapid processor of information.

I am able to aprehend the full beauty of a sufficiently vertiginous cleavage and resume eye contact before any perv-detecting procedures can even begin.

I guess that's what "being professional" is.

[Blue-Jay]

63. Coming from the most prolific cleavage-poster on DU,

I find your original post a bit odd.

When is it OK to look at boobs? Only if you want them looked at?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

70. this is a copy cat thread..its not the looking..its the assumptions made

after looking that i was talking about.

some how i dont expect you to get that

[jpgray]

73. You mean the assumptions you make about the looker?

Or the assumptions the looker makes about you?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

74. i dont really makes assumptions about lookers

as i keep saying this is a copy cat thread meant to show the ridiculousness of making quick assumptions.

[jpgray]

76. I always get to your Swiftian postings when the context is long dead

x(

[La Lioness Priyanka]

77. context isnt really dead

the other thread is still up. and i think the posts on it that "inspired" this thread...are also up

[jpgray]

78. Is it nini's thread?

People have different concepts of "appropriate"--especially across generational lines. Most tops my parents might consider "extreme" I wouldn't bat an eye at. So while a given style of top might have had one social-consensus meaning ten years ago, it might have a totally different meaning now. Sex is the one area right now that allows younger generations to maintain some rebellion against the older folks. Midriff baring is appalling to my mom, for example. :D I think that gets in the way a lot of the time when it comes to arguments about what revealing clothing "means."

[GalleryGod]

64. Oh, Real-ly.

[Prisoner_Number_Six]

68. I've seen your pcture posted here

I'm sorry- what was I saying?

:evilgrin:

[Catch22Dem]

83. I'll second that.

:D

[sendero]

75. I tend to agree...

... I enjoy looking at a nice pair, most men do. But there is a way to do it and a way not to.

A gentleman, or a man posing as a gentleman, will glance at the delicious sight, form a mental image, and glance back when the image needs refreshing. The only reason to stare or ogle is that 1) you havent' enough free brain cells to store the beautiful image or 2) you are starved like a hungry dog and don't care who knows.

In any event, pity the boob-mesmerized. He probably can't help it :)

[OPERATIONMINDCRIME]

80. With All Due Respect, Women Who Wear Outfits With The Express Intent

of showing their cleavage are also being unprofessional.

And no, I don't believe you are one of these, I'm just sayin in general.

And yes, men doing that are acting unprofessionally, but don't be overly hard on them, there is some serious genetic wiring and instinct at play that is hard for many to overcome. (though I do easily, breasts never distracted me. But exotic eyes, now for them I have a weakness)

[La Lioness Priyanka]

82. i agree with you

[leftofthedial]

84. sorry lionesspriyanka

I was only staring because, well, I'm a loser.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

85. you know just ti clarify matters

its not really the staring i am against

its the judgements

[leftofthedial]

88. I'm glad this isn't work!

:-)

[EstimatedProphet]

86. I don't recall staring at you at work.

[Ptah]

87. What helps me is how you hide those boobs,

If you don't want me to look at your boobs, then don't show them.