|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 07:50 PM Original message |
What if your spouse/significant other/partner watched or read porn? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
1. Why would I care? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
2. I don't *think* I'd care, so long as he wasn't doing it all the time, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
3. No problem at all |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:53 AM Response to Reply #3 |
60. Yes yes yes on the sharing. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:02 PM Response to Original message |
4. We both do, at times |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
freestyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 09:11 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. I second that e.....tion |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
5. She does, on occasion. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:56 AM Response to Reply #5 |
63. You know, somebody is going to trip on this thread and throw a hissy fit. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:22 PM Response to Original message |
6. Not a big deal far as I'm concerned |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
7. I think it's fine. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:21 PM Response to Reply #7 |
24. Yeah, reading porn to your SO is a lot of fun |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 09:42 AM Response to Reply #24 |
49. I enjoy having it read to me. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
8. Yes |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
9. Wouldn't bother me |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YankeyMCC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
10. Seems like a normal thing to me |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
11. zero problems |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:57 PM Original message |
Watching porn with your mate |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
12. I read steamy romance novels while taking bubble baths... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 09:36 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Isn't that just the best! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:37 PM Response to Reply #12 |
27. Is it hot in here or is it just your reply? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ZombieNixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
13. You mean there are people who don't look at porn?!!!!! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:28 AM Response to Reply #13 |
56. I don't look at porn |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
15. I don't think I'd care, unless it was an obsession. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
16. I'd generally want to watch with him ;) |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
18. He and I both do... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
19. Whether or not it makes you odd or not really depends on your SO. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:09 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. I'm not sure if I agree with that... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:42 PM Response to Reply #21 |
38. Yeah, I was talking about obsession. -NT |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
20. Why should I care? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
22. My spouse usually picks the titles. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
23. You're not odd. I'm like that too. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
25. Wouldn't bother me in the least. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
26. I'm alllll about it. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GalleryGod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
28. Donna Moss says, "Oh, Josh ???" |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
29. I guess I'm a product of my background |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:34 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. What you are talking about is coersion, and I am in agreement |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:24 AM Response to Reply #32 |
43. How can you tell the difference? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:27 AM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Good question |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:32 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Yup, and I know that. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 09:43 AM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Well, it's understandable, given your work/personal experience |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:18 PM Response to Reply #44 |
69. I supspect that riderinthestorn's story |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:10 PM Response to Reply #43 |
67. Hmmm... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 06:06 PM Response to Reply #67 |
90. Oh yeah, more than 20 years ago |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:45 PM Response to Reply #29 |
39. The idea of watching porn together seems bizarre to me. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:28 AM Response to Reply #39 |
45. You're not a prude. You just have your preferences. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:51 AM Response to Reply #45 |
58. It just seems kind of insulting somehow. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:58 AM Response to Reply #58 |
64. "Supposed to be the one and only source of lust?" |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:52 PM Response to Reply #64 |
78. Call me an idealist prude then. :P -nt |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:59 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. No no no ... not prude... just... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:48 PM Response to Reply #29 |
40. Are you in Chatsworth, CA? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:29 AM Response to Reply #40 |
46. Chicago |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:25 PM Response to Reply #46 |
71. Ok |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 06:10 PM Response to Reply #71 |
91. I agree. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 07:55 PM Response to Reply #91 |
93. Sorry if I was gruff with you |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:36 PM Response to Reply #93 |
96. Yeah, dammit, and you made me aware of my age, again!!! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:42 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. Oh crap! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 11:40 PM Response to Reply #97 |
99. Ouch! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
30. Fine. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:33 PM Response to Original message |
31. I wish he would! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
33. Is it the same kind of porn I like? If so, he'd better share!! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
34. Not at all. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
35. Couldn't give a shit. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 08:03 PM Response to Reply #35 |
94. You wouldn't have the problem if you hadn't eaten the bar exam. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
36. Most mainstream porn is so blah. I wish the women would stop |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:27 PM Response to Reply #36 |
72. I have to agree with you here |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
tiddlywinks (210 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-23-06 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
37. It's a moot point, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
tiddlywinks (210 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:00 AM Response to Reply #37 |
41. lol, I didn't mean to post that here! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 03:50 PM Response to Reply #41 |
85. welcome to DU! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
42. nah...my partners and i often watch porn together |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:47 AM Response to Original message |
48. As long as she shared it with me I'd be ok with it. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
51. Wouldn't bother me at all. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
52. As long as it's limited to watching and reading |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
53. We both do. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:14 AM Response to Original message |
54. unless it was a solo thing |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 11:08 AM Response to Reply #54 |
66. It's so not a guy thing. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:29 PM Response to Reply #66 |
73. You don't watch porn |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:39 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. hahahaha |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 03:45 PM Response to Reply #66 |
84. that's why i put MIGHT in caps. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 05:54 PM Response to Reply #84 |
87. Gay porn is the best... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
55. It's not at all my cup of tea, so I would |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 11:33 PM Response to Reply #55 |
98. Most porn especially Playboy stuff is so fake. Again, I wish they |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
57. I would fall over from shock |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:56 AM Response to Reply #57 |
62. Boy, I know THAT tune! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
59. When I was a teen I was jealous of it. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
61. What do you mean, "what if?" |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
65. No, you definitely shouldn't care. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
68. You can get some really good ideas from porn |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Crazy Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
70. Me and Mrs. DTW make our own movies |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:32 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. Homegrown video will pay you for them |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Crazy Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:43 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Oh No!!! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Trigger Hippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
77. If my SO did that, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Debbi801 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
80. I'd wanna go help pick out the titles so that I'd enjoy watching, too..... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WoodrowFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
81. can make a good soundtrack |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
82. I would wonder if he DIDN'T, frankly. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Guy (875 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
83. I prefer we read it together |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
plcdude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
86. well |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
88. I don't think I've ever known a guy who didn't |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
dback (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
89. PORN or EROTICA? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 08:24 PM Response to Reply #89 |
95. I think your terminolgy is lacking |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-24-06 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
92. it wouldn't bother me if done occasionally |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-25-06 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
100. ummm.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Fri Apr 26th 2024, 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC