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Edited on Thu Dec-04-03 12:50 PM by JulieRB
Hi everyone,
DH and I are wondering if the good folk of DU have some additional suggestions on what we might do about this problem, besides selling our house and moving.
Our next-door neighbors are driving us nuts. They also lived in our former development. They bought next door to us because we stupidly stood up for them in a dispute with some other neighbors over their Boxer puppy. (This poor dog is a status item. In other words, he's rarely played with, left alone for long stretches of time, but they can say that they own a Boxer.) They evidently believe that we are nothing more than doormats.
It is congenitally impossible for them to pursue a noiseless (or non-polluting,) hobby. So far, we've endured round-the-clock "band practice" (he plays the drums,) his new dirt bike (endless revving and trips around the neighborhood, even though it's illegal to ride on the street,) the incessant barking of TWO Boxers, (they bought another as a "friend" for the first one, then ignored them both,) and his favorite and very special hobby, Cuban cigars. (When houses are close together, one gets a houseful of cigar smoke, whether or not one enjoys that kind of thing.)
We enjoy having people over; we most likely have guests a couple of times per month. We try to be considerate. There is a large turnaround in front of these homes; those visiting are allowed to park in the turnaround. We don't impede their driveway or cause any other problems. We haven't received one complaint from the two neighbors on either side of this couple. We're not loud. We don't have people over at hours that would be problematic for other adults. At the same time, it seems to be quite upsetting to the couple next door that anyone chooses to come to our home, judging by the number of complaints we receive from them whenever we have guests. Guests can't park on the curb in front of their home. Guests can't park on the curb in front of OUR home. There isn't enough room for the dirt bike trailer. On and on and on and on. They, on the other hand, pull both their vehicles into the turnaround every Saturday, effectively blocking the entire drive-through for every neighbor living here, for the entire day.
Last night, their truck alarm went off at 2:00 AM. We live in a very low-crime rural area; their bedroom is in the back of the house. Ours is in the front. We were treated to an alarm set to "shatter" for the better part of half an hour till the male of the household awoke, determined that there was no crime being committed, and turned off his alarm.
We're moving to our back bedroom today; thank God we have one.
If you were in our shoes, what would you do? Discussions and reasoning don't work with either of these people. His father is an attorney, so bear in mind that the usual stuff will most likely buy us some sort of lawsuit.
We're mystified.
Julie edited after Oscar lay down on the keyboard...
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