Should I stay or should I go?

[bigwillq]

Ok, here's the deal.

I am at my man's house. We have a condo together but I don't always live there. I spend the rest of my time living at my parents.

Ok, tonight I am up at my man's. We had planned to go to my very good friends birthday bash at this club, which is 40 minutes from the condo.

At 8 p.m., my man went up to take a nap and he told me to wake him at 10 p.m.

So at 10, I woke him up and he doesn't want to go.
This is a very good friend of mine and I said I would be there.

Should I go to the club or stay at the man's?

Pros
Having fun with friends.
Getting my drink on and dancing.
If I go, I will stay at my parents, which is 10 minutes from the club.

Cons
Leaving my man for the night (but he's already sleeping)
Saving about $70 on drinks, cover charges, parking fees.
Saving the gas to go the 40 minutes.


So what is it Lounge???
I usually don't post all this personal stuff but I am tore at what to do and I need some friendly advice.

[Ariana Celeste]

1. Definitely go!!

The plans were already made, you told your friend you'd be there, and you'll have a great time!!
Maybe you and the man can make plans for a night together very soon to make up for it, and you could always call and check in with him right?

Go have fun babe!! :D :hug:

[bigwillq]

2. I have about 15 minutes to decide.

I really want to go. :pout:

[Ariana Celeste]

3. Get dressed!

:D

And then go go go! Have a great time and tell me about it next time we chat! :D

[bigwillq]

5. I've been dressed for hours.

And I look cute too, damnit! :P

[Ariana Celeste]

8. Well you can't look cute

to a sleeping man! :D

[bigwillq]

11. That is very true!

:)

[Ariana Celeste]

12. have fun :)

:hug: I must cook now! good night!

[bigwillq]

15. Good night!

:hi: :hug:

[JohnKleeb]

4. I'd go but a request first

Be my assisant in the herk army so I can have someone buy me booze. Go and have a blast.

[bigwillq]

7. You got it Kleeb!

But if you get caught, don't tell them I was the supplier! :P

[JohnKleeb]

10. Eh they wont catch me

I think I look older right now than I ever have.

[bigwillq]

14. Aww...you're maturing!

:P

[JohnKleeb]

17. hahahha yeah

I mean I would go buy booze myself but I am so paranoid about being cardded and such.

[bigwillq]

20. It's not worth it.

Just get someone else to do it for you.
That way there's a chance of getting caught too but not as much.

[JohnKleeb]

22. This is why I wish had an older sibling

Only 28 months to go :bounce:

[bigwillq]

23. The last year is the hardest

It's like you're so close but NOT!

[JohnKleeb]

24. Yeah but by then I'll be out of Virginia

and in a four year college. I can't stress how great that will be.

[bigwillq]

26. It'll be so easy to get alcohol

at the college! :toast:

[JohnKleeb]

29. Yep

[La Lioness Priyanka]

6. go!

[bigwillq]

9. Well if you say so...

:hi:

[Droopy]

13. If you stay will there be trouble?

And if you go will it be double?

[bigwillq]

16. At this point

I am hoping for double! :evilgrin:

[ghostsofgiants]

18. Drat, you beat me to it.

[Droopy]

25. Haha!

Na-na na-na naaaa-na

[mdmc]

19. take a nap or go?

Is the party happenin? Maybe give them a call...

[bigwillq]

21. The party is on.

I know they're there.
I am not napping. I am wide awake.
The man is sleeping.

[mdmc]

32. give em a call

from the bedroom...tell them your on your way...go...your man might join you...

[Shine]

27. Get your ass out there and have some FUN, dammit!

I hope you don't see this til tomorrow. Saturday. :hug:

[bigwillq]

28. I am still here.

But I think I am going. :hi:

[Shine]

30. You're funny. Isn't it late where you are?

you're three hours ahead of us....dang.

I must be getting old.

:hi:

[bigwillq]

31. It's like 10:40 p.m. here

I need to decide soon.

[Shine]

34. I want a Full Report in the morning.

:D

Have fun, WHATEVER you do. :hug:

[Mz Pip]

33. Go

How tired does he have to be to not take you to a party that you really want to go to.

Be independent. Go and enjoy yourself. This doesn't have to be about him.

Mz Pip
:dem:

[RagingInMiami]

35. I hope you're not still here