Do you "sleep" with every person with whom you fall in love?

[wildhorses]

oh wait a minute...
:evilgrin:

[rbnyc]

1. Pretty much. (Before I met my husband.)

I know you're joking, but yeah, only 2 people I was ever in love with didn't want to have a sexual relationship with me, back before I met my husband.

I still fall in love with people, but not to the detriment of my marriage. It's natural to have crushes, and even to have "in love" feelings for other people, even if you're married. I just choose not to pursue inappropriate relationships. I look at it as a chance to celebrate whatever qualities are so inspiring in that person in a more general way, and a chance to do some healthy flirting, and a chance to bring some residual energy home to my darling sweetheart.

[wildhorses]

2. I wish I could fall in love...

maybe then I could have some sex...
:sigh:

[ScreamingMeemie]

3. Hey you! How is your job going?

It feels like forever since I have seen you! :hug:

[rbnyc]

5. I know. I came in at 5:30 this morning. So now I'm taking a little break

I love my new job, but I'm very busy. And if I don't leave the office, I have a working lunch, so no more lunchtime lounging.

But often, I go have lunch with my son in the park, so that's awesome.

Usually, I have long mornings at home with my son as well, but I'm in a serious crunch today, so I left the house before he woke up.

My coworkers are great. I feel confident about my performance so far, and my superiors are happy with me. In fact, I'm being treated like gold for the most part, and my observations are taken very seriously.

They really felt that things weren't working before, so I have loads of freedom to structure things in a way that makes sense to me. It's a lot of work right now, because I'm building all the Development and Communications systems from scratch essentially (within some parameters) but once I have everything in place, it will just be a matter of maintenance.

This is really an awesome organization. I feel really privileged to be here, actually. Everyday I learn more about the programs and services we provide and I just think how lucky I am that I can contribute to that just by coming to work and doing my best.

Thanks so much for asking.

[ScreamingMeemie]

7. I'm so happy for you.

It is great when the workplace "clicks" with where you want to be. The pain of your last position really came through in your posts about it and it is good to hear you sounding so happy. How's your son doing? I bet he's getting big!

[rbnyc]

23. Thanks so much.

He is huge! He's 19 mo. and towers over most 2-year-olds. He's saying new words every day. I hope he'll be ready for daycare when he turns 2. He'll need to be potty-trained and expressive and sufficiently social. Otherwise he'll have to wait a year to enroll. But he has to go at his own pace.

:loveya:

[calico1]

18. Well, I'm in love with George Clooney so I guess

that's a "no." :P

[In_The_Wind]

4. If it feels right:

:evilgrin:

[wildhorses]

10. smile

:hug:




you are a peach, there is no denying

[In_The_Wind]

34. Is Spring in the air everywhere?

I can't remember the last time there were so many lusty threads going on. www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=105&topic_id=5085476&mesg_id=5086763

[wildhorses]

39. I think we can safely say that spring has sprung...

a leak:silly:

[In_The_Wind]

40. ahem

if it has a leak :scared: walk away






:evilfrown: if you catch my drift

[billyskank]

6. Pah

:(

[ScreamingMeemie]

8. ...

:hug: Someday your princess will come! I know it!

[billyskank]

13. Hey MrsG

:hi:

:loveya:

[ScreamingMeemie]

14. How are you today?

:hug: I overslept so I missed the early morning hilarity. ;)

[billyskank]

16. I missed you

:hug:

Apart from that I am okay. The lunch at work yesterday had waaay too much chilli powder in it, which upset my stomach again, but I think I am alright again now.

:loveya:

[ScreamingMeemie]

19. I put too much red pepper in a Jambalaya dish I made last night

and my tummy was not happy about it. :(

Plus, it's cold here again...I'm a bit unproductive so far this morning. :hgu: :loveya:

[wildhorses]

9. hey you...

from one celibate to another....




are we "weird" or what?



I would like to hear a "man's" view...

[billyskank]

12. I cannot claim the credit for that

"celibate" implies intent. I abstain from sex simply because it takes two to tango, and I am only one... ;)

[wildhorses]

15. well it is my intention to NOT have sex until I meet

someone who knows HOW to tango:P

[billyskank]

17. I don't know how to tango either

;)

[AirmensMom]

21. I do, I do!

:hi: But I only tango with harleydad. :shrug:

Now, if I were a young single lady ...

:loveya: :hug:

[LaurenG]

28. I know, we are not single

and we are not play arounders either. Youth, we'll we could still- you know. :rofl: :hi:

[billyskank]

29. ...

;)

:hug:

[kwassa]

11. Only if we are both very tired.

otherwise, we do the nasty.

[LaurenG]

20. No

Some of them are cyber people and I can't and I really wouldn't because I am in a committed relationship and they are too young but if things were different yes I'd tap that...:evilgrin:

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

25. Hoo baby!!!

:spank: :evilgrin: :rofl:

[LaurenG]

26. I was wondering if anyone ever really read the comments

that are posted. I guess you do Vash, lol;-) :evilgrin:

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

27. I'm just trying to get me some cyber-lovin'.

:evilgrin: ;-)

Naw, I'm in a fantastic long-term relationship too, so I'm only messing around, but you still rule. :yourock:

[Mutley]

22. I've only been in love once, so...

Yes. :7

[AirmensMom]

24. Yep!

But I've only ever been in love with harleydad. :loveya:

[Iniquitous Bunny]

30. I guess not.

There's probably only one person I felt something for that I never did anything physical with. It kind of messed me up too. I'm a person who needs to be able to expres myself in that regard. I want it all.

[LeftyMom]

31. Not yet damn it.

:cry:

[benburch]

32. Who needs to be in love?

Sometimes I've not even known the name of people I've "slept" with.

Sex and love are not the same!

And I've been in love with people I never slept with. And never would want to sleep with.

[ThomCat]

33. I wish.

Some of those guys were straight. :(

[dr.strangelove]

35. Love the one you're with!

[JVS]

36. That would be nice

[taterguy]

37. now that you mention it

First person I was ever in love with told me a few months after college graduation that she had feelings for me. By then she was 1,000 miles away and there were other reasons we never got together. She did visit that summer. I wasn't sure what the sleeping arrangements would be since we had never done anything together.

She came into the condo I shared and immediately put her bags in my bedroom.

We slept together that night but all we did was sleep, and hold each other. Nothing else ever happened between us. I still have fond but frustrating memories of that night 20 years ago

[swimboy]

38. Time to do some research . . .

[Xipe Totec]

41. Honey, there's not enough time. n/t