Are there any DU women who are Pigs? Or I suppose "sows"

[HEyHEY]

Seriously, there HAS to be women on this website that are like some of the guys here in regards to promiscuous activities. But, as we all know, it isn't cool for girls to admit they are not looking for anything more than a bunch of bed-ups with as many men as possible. Blame society's double standards and the bible for that.
So, women of DU who are this way, you may admit it here, and I shall support you and even give you the occasional hi-five.

So, which ones are ye?

[bumponalog]

1. and can you please also

post your phone numbers?

:evilgrin:

[Kerrytravelers]

2. (555)YOU-WISH

:evilgrin:

[HEyHEY]

4. Dude, you're cramping my style

I'm trying to play the united, feminist angle here... if you start in with the less-than-subtle, "what are your phone numbers" remarks, you're gonna scare all the talent away.

[bumponalog]

16. Damnit ALL!

I KNEW I should've asked for measurements first.

[YellowRubberDuckie]

13. Welcome to DU!

I just really hope you aren't a troll. We hate trolls. Hope your time here is long. :evilgrin:
Duckie

[hyphenate]

3. I don't qualify, I'm afraid

but up until recently, I'm sure my sister did. She is still an alcoholic, but evidently she's become less promiscuous.

[uppityperson]

5. I'm not promiscuous but can be a bitch. sorry.

[HEyHEY]

8. I sense an inner desire to be promiscous though

Most "bitches" are like that to scare away men so they don't give in to their desires

[uppityperson]

10. Mine currently stems from tooth abcess + perimenopause.

I desire someone to wait on my, rub my feet, bring me drinks, and clean the bathroom. Hmm, non-emotionally tieing sex? Could work, so long as all the other crap prior to this takes place also.

[HEyHEY]

12. That's good too

As long as your intentions are selfish it's all good.

[Nikia]

6. I only had a couple casual hooks up

And I don't know what the big deal is about having a large quantity of partners. I really don't get it at all. The longer you are with someone, if they care about you, the better they get about doing things that work best for you, if you know what I mean.
In general, I think that women have greater risks by hooking up with a lot of different men, especially strangers (possible pregnancy, easier transmission of venereal diseases which can be more devestating, partners more likely to be violent, social sanctions, ect.)

[tigereye]

7. you are just a glutton for punishment today, aren't ya?

:spank:

[HEyHEY]

9. I'm merely trying to sexually liberate the women of DU

[tigereye]

21. snort

feminist lecture coming in 10. 9. 8. 7. 6....

[MissMillie]

28. being truly liberated also means

that we're free to be discriminating about partners... or to even hold out.


It always seemed odd to me that sexual liberation meant that you were free to be promiscuous. I always thought that liberation, in the truest sense, meant that you were entitled to control your own destiny.

[HEyHEY]

36. Keep it down I'm trying to get laid here

[MissMillie]

37. try REVERSE psychology

:shrug:

[skygazer]

11. I had a reputation as a "slut" in my distant youth

Even then, I wasn't really sure what that meant. I grew up in the 70's which was a time when people were a lot more casual about a lot of things. For one thing, we didn't tend to have steady boyfriends as early as kids seem to now. Even when we did, it was a given that we were both dating other people - that was how you got to know members of the opposite sex and discovered what kind of guy (or girl) worked for you.

And yeah, I slept with a lot of them. I've never really felt that you had to be in love in order to have sex but I also never slept with people I didn't know or who I wasn't close to in some way - friends. We were all friends. And frankly, it was a pretty nice time. :shrug:

I can honestly say that within a committed relationship, I've NEVER cheated on my partner. So I don't think my youth indicates some severe morality problem - I think it indicates healthy curiosity.

[HEyHEY]

14. See, and you turned out fine

I don't get why it's so bad for a woman to enjoy sex.

[YellowRubberDuckie]

18. It's not....

It's just that some men are scared that if they start to enjoy it, they aren't going to want to do it with them because they know they are so bad at it. Oh, and have small junk. :evilgrin:
Duckie

[tigereye]

22. enjoying sex doesn't mean you have to have a boatload of

partners. You can be selective and still enjoy sex.

whispers... you can actually be MARRIED and enjoy sex.

ok, I'm done. I'll joust with you more after dinner.

[HEyHEY]

25. Okay, I'll revise

Why is it so bad for women to wanna enjoy sex with a bunch of different guys?

[miss_american_pie]

29. Why is it bad?

You mean as a societal standard? Because men have always tried to own women? Because men wanted to insure they were raising their own children?

Doesn't matter to me what other women do, but I have no interest in sleeping with a bunch of strangers.

[HEyHEY]

32. How is a guy who "Loves em and leaves em" trying to own women?

[miss_american_pie]

34. No, I meant the religious/cultural double-standard

against women behaving that way when it's been perfectly fine for men to do so was a way for men to control women.

[HEyHEY]

35. Ah, then we're on the same side

Carry on!

[Nikia]

30. What does one get by having sex w/ a bunch of different guys?

Maybe, there is something that I don't understand about that.
As I mentioned above, women are the ones that get pregnant, several STDs are transmitted easier from men to women and more devestating physically for a woman, a stranger that she picks up at a bar is more likely to be violent, and there is the double standard (A man who has had sex with many women is a desirable SO but A woman who has had sex with many men is only good for sex, not a relationship).
What would I have gotten from having many partners while in college instead of settling down with my husband my sophomore year? It wasn't quality sex.

[HEyHEY]

33. Prestige!

[Nikia]

39. Women get a bad "prestige", Should sex be about that anyway?

I have suspected that some men who are promiscous do it because they are having some real or imaginary contest with other men in which having sex with the most women is the goal.
Doesn't that make sex kind of hollow? Isn't that like just making money instead of enjoying it so you can have the achievement of making the most money?

[Nikia]

26. I agree

My husband actually convinced his promiscous fraternity brother that there might be something to monagamy. My husband pointed out that he was having more and consistantly good sex than his studly friend. His friend did settle down with a long time friend a short time after.

[YellowRubberDuckie]

15. I was a bit of a slut before I met the man who would become my husband.

Now, I'm just looking for a dude who doesn't care about sex, but wants to massage my back and feet and wait on me hand and foot. If you know anyone like that, please let me know. :evilgrin:
Duckie

[skygazer]

17. I live with him

I'll trade him for someone who's interested in sex. :evilgrin:

[YellowRubberDuckie]

19. My husband would volunteer...

He's got stamina you wouldn't believe, and I just find it annoying. I've been thinking of renting him out. LOL
Duckie

[skygazer]

24. Hmmmmm.....

Mine cooks, cleans and gives a mean massage. He lives to cater to my (almost) every need. I'm sure he would be happy to cater to yours.

Oh, I'm bad..... :blush:

[YellowRubberDuckie]

31. Mine does all those things too...

But it's so hard to get him to give me a massage. I just want my back rubbed and my feet massaged every day. Oh, and my husband's freak, so if you like kink, he'd be all over it. :evilgrin:
Duckie

[dolo amber]

20. I'm a reformed bar slut, if that counts

:7

Still would be if it wasn't for that whole "falling in love" business... :eyes:

[HEyHEY]

23. Well, as long as when I visit you still have bar-slut friends

I'll be happy.

[Iniquitous Bunny]

27. I came out of a long term relationship a year and a half ago.

I was exhausted and just wanted to get laid. I got laid. I had another quasi-hookup. Then I had to go sleep with this really incredible man who actually treated me well that I was massively compatible with, and I fell in love again.

Now in happy monogamy-land again. :D

There have been a few times in my life where I did just want sex. Sex comes to me easily. I never lied to anyone and we enjoyed ourselves. No apologies. No regrets.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

38. Check your PM.....n/t

[ismnotwasm]

40. Say what?

Do you mean fucking and all the rest, or USING men for money, emotions-whatever- breaking hearts and damaging lives just for the hell of it?

There's women who don't need to engage in any sexual activity to get what they "want" out of a man. And it's not very difficult, you pick the emotionally vulnerable ones, keep dangling the carrot--the hope of a relationship/sex and use the stupid motherfucker up. Then go get another one. Like I said, sex doesn't have to be involved at all. And you have your stud and guaranteed orgasm on the side. It's not very nice behavior, it's extremely cruel, psychologically it's probably a kind of backlash at being objectified. It's still mean as hell.

Now as far as a women's sexual choices I be as happy as anybody when the day comes women can make those choices not out of rebellion or damage but out of healthy sexuallity, without being called a slut, whore, or a c*** or passed over to the next man because the guys know they'll get some.

[GirlinContempt]

41. What do you think, asshole?

[HEyHEY]

42. Ruh roh one of them questions with no good answer

You must be a lively one!

[GirlinContempt]

43. I'm waiting here, you ass.

Come on.

[HEyHEY]

44. I think you're a horndog!

[Name removed]

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[HEyHEY]

46. .....gulp

I think I'll be making a trip to the prairies some time soon

[GirlinContempt]

47. Like those wide open

spaces?

[BikeWriter]

48. IBTL!

[unsavedtrash]

49. I don't believe in monogamy (for myself). Does that count? n/t

[Skittles]

50. well, I never wanted to be married

I have never felt the need to own a guy

[Pithlet]

51. Locking.

This is inappropriate.