Party in this thread! Ask me anything! I'm staying up all night again!

[ZombieNixon]

Because I damn well feel like it! :D :bounce: I will hit the sack no earlier than 5 AM CST! Or after I post in the Morning Crew thread, whichever comes later!

Ask me anything. Or don't. Whatever you feel like...because it's a long weeked!

:party: :headbang: :bounce:

[American Tragedy]

1. Glad I'm not the only one.

Though I can't say I damn well feel like it. More like insomnia and excessive contemplation.

[ZombieNixon]

2. Excessive contemplation comes with the territory.

:shrug:

I don't have insomnia, but I tend to get whimsical in the wee hours of the morn.

[American Tragedy]

3. Likewise, but there is a more immediate cause for my reverie.

*sigh* One of my friends has been trying to seduce me, rather more actively as of late, and even though part of me really wants to succumb, I'm afraid it will irreparably damage our friendship. I've been avoiding the issue, and him, for a couple of days, but I'm gonna have to confront it sooner or later.

Sorry, I don't mean to put a damper on your whimsy with serious stuff. :)

[ZombieNixon]

4. Argh, I know exactly how that is.

It happened to me fairly recently (beginning two and a half months ago). I'm sorry to say that almost a month ago it ended in disaster. She and I had been close friends for eight years and now it's highly unlikely we'll ever speak again. :(

[lildreamer316]

8. Hey,btw.

Unsolicited advice: If you were truly friends; it WILL come back around again. Believe that.....and be very patient. True friends are hard to come by. It will be ok. Eight years? there has to be something solid underneath all the bs. Trust in that.

[ZombieNixon]

12. I'd like to think so, but I'm not sure I want anything to come back around

I mean, she did tell me an enormous lie, which is the one thing I have zero tolerance for. You're probably right about there being something solid, but at this point she's just totally unnecessary stress I don't want to have to deal with. :shrug:

[lildreamer316]

18. Eh;

You gotta let her learn her lesson.

I have a very good friend; a marine, a guy. We were very close. It took us 2 years to take it to a different level. That was a mistake. He lied to me and did not treat me well. I do love him on a certain level= He has not spoken to me in 4 years; he is trying to be something he's not with a conservative wife and etc.
I know he'll come back around again. Underneath all the bs; he is a deep and caring person; who needs the stimulation of people who are not conservative and limited. He is so much more than he is being at the moment.
He's been in my thoughts lateley. I could forgive him; because I value his friendship more than the lies.

[ZombieNixon]

20. Meh...I'm just going to live life as if she doesn't exist.

If she wants me in her life, so be it, but it's up to her to show me she really learned anything if she does. I flat out told her I wasn't about to be her rebound lay again. Part of the problem was that she couldn't let go of the past, anyway. :shrug:

Feh, not my problem at this point.

[lildreamer316]

22. Goood attitude.

Keep it that way. I'm just sayin'....if she was really a friend; that will come back again. I know what you are really mourning is the loss of the friendship; most of all.

[ZombieNixon]

25. Exactly.

We were only together for a month and a half, but we were friends (apparently) since sixth grade.

[American Tragedy]

17. That is exactly what I'm afraid of

and that's why I've been pushing away from his advances, though it's just become more difficult to do so, now that the sexual tension and flirting has finally been openly acknowledged.

[ZombieNixon]

24. Well, good luck to you.

I can't really much more than that...and take things slowly. God, take things slowly. x(

[Ouabache]

26. Well you could take it to a 'friends with benefits' type of place

as an alternative, but sounds like you might not be comfortable with that either, and if the other person is thinking sex=romance, it is probably not the place to go without a solid understanding that is where you are going.

[lildreamer316]

5. Have a drink on me.

wait; I'm almost outta vodka. Shit.
Wine?

[ZombieNixon]

6. Hmm...what kind of wine?

:D

[lildreamer316]

10. Well;

the expensive stuff I'm saving for my girl wine and cheese night;so it's Principato Rosso or Barefoot Merlot.

[ZombieNixon]

14. I'll take 'em both.

:D

[lildreamer316]

19. Glutton.

..for punishment.....

[ZombieNixon]

21. Hey, wine is wine.

As a college student, I don't have much room to discriminate. :D

[lildreamer316]

23. Oh; I remember those days..

..or do I? WHY do I remember those days? I shouldn't! Sheesh.

[TimeChaser]

7. Feh, I routinely stay up until 5 am

... therefore the question is "How do I fix my sleep schedule?" x(

[ZombieNixon]

9. 1. Stay awake for 48 hours straight drinking nothing but highly-

caffeinated drinks.

You will crash hard at about 8 PM the following evening and be forced to get one good night's sleep. Guaranteed. :D

[TimeChaser]

11. ... Sounds good

I'll do this next weekend durring an anime con. I rarely sleep at conventions anyways :D

[ZombieNixon]

13. No more than 48 hours, though.

After that things start getting a little...erm...hazy...:crazy:

[IChing]

15. Ok, my fiend, just one question or friend

How long will it take to my friends and brothers and sisters in arm to
meet on this long weekend?


I wish you well, my friend.

hopefully it will not be a "Lost weekend."

So the question is?

Why your handle ZombieNixon?


The IChing asks....LOL

[ZombieNixon]

16. Long story...click here to know more:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=105&topic_id=4096392#4096927

:D