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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:10 PM Original message |
I'm on the verge of tears :( |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
1. I'm sorry |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'm not one for giving advice but my hugs are always there for you |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
3. are there other things in her life that are causing her a lot of stress? |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Most definitely, that IS a factor. |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:22 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. here's a big hug |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:50 PM Response to Reply #11 |
43. I disagree...he needs to change who he is. |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-14-06 01:56 PM Response to Reply #43 |
62. Sorry buddy, but I'll take progmom's advice over yours any day. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
4. Aww, I was just thinking about you |
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MissHoneychurch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
5. I feel with you |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
6. I won't give advice because I'm terrible at relationships |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
7. I'm really sorry. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
9. would she go for counseling...so that she can learn to |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:23 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. I've thought those things myself. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:34 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. it is not good to continue letting this relationship affect your |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
10. I hate that sort of thing. bummer |
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catmandu57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
12. Aw fuck ET |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
14. True mates don't "get pissed" or attack each other. |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
29. "good relationships are RIGHT from the start. You don't MAKE them right" |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 03:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
37. Agreed. It takes at least 10 years of marriage before the fights over |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:31 PM Response to Original message |
15. It's very very hard to make vegan-omni relationships work |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:38 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Maybe you're right. I don't know. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:54 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Oh geez. |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:59 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. Well, in all fairness, |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
16. ET, I'm afraid I don't have any advice. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
17. Sounds Like Control Issues |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 01:08 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. bingo |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 09:02 AM Response to Reply #23 |
49. ET Gotta Stand Up |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 12:39 PM Response to Original message |
20. Sounds like it might be a communication problem |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
24. sounds like she doesn't respect you. |
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SlavesandBulldozers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
25. let it end. n/t |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
26. Let her go, ET. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
27. Back off, way off. That's the only thing that might work now. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
28. If my wife suddenly decided to go radical vegan, I'd go with that. |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:17 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. I agree with you. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:37 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Well, then, let it rest for a bit. Don't ask for explanations. |
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Throd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
31. Leave while your dignity is intact |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
33. I'm sorry. You have every reason to be sad. |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
34. Is she willing to try to make it work? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
35. I'm so sorry, ET. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
36. I am so sorry your relationship is souring.. BUT |
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ChickMagic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
38. I don't know what to say. |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
39. have the talk |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
40. As a master seducter, my advice is.... |
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zonkers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 10:05 AM Response to Reply #40 |
51. Dead on. Nice of you to take t he time to share this. Hope it is |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 03:21 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. The last thing most people with relationship probs need it pity.... |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 03:39 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. Oh, bah. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 03:21 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. The last thing most people with relationship probs need it pity.... |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
41. A pro-life vegan is going to be a tough one. |
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L A Woman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
42. Similar situation here....don't give up yet |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
44. Fight--don't quit. |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
45. C'mere. |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
46. I been in a pretty tuff relationship myself |
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grannylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
47. I have hugs a-plenty, not sure if my advice is any good, but for what it's |
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sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
48. Yes |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
50. Oh, man, ET Awful. |
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JackDragna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
55. If it ends, it ends. |
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musiclawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
56. Sounds like she's borderline |
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hotforteacher (296 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 06:14 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. Hells yeah. BPD That's just what I was thinking... |
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musiclawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-14-06 12:15 AM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Dude, you are spot on... |
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hotforteacher (296 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-14-06 07:15 AM Response to Reply #60 |
61. I am not proud |
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musiclawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-14-06 02:50 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. Likewise |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
57. i know where you've been |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-13-06 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
58. That's terrible... |
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