Wcross
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Mon Jul-17-06 10:18 AM
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Why do they call strippers "Exotic dancers"? |
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The dance on a stage naked. Whats exotic about that? Why not just call them exhibitionists? Or flashers? Or Nekid dancers? Seems to me they are anything but "exotic".
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Mon Jul-17-06 10:20 AM
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1. The nakedness isn't the exotic part, you goofball! |
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The dancing is the exotic part. Where else can you see that kind of rhythmic gyration or brass pole clasped in an inverted thigh-embrace?
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Mon Jul-17-06 10:57 AM
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2. Why? Because "Naked women rolling around on a filthy bar room |
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floor, desperately trying to get you to shove dollar bills into their buttcrack" just doesn't have the same cache to it.
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Mon Jul-17-06 12:47 PM
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3. The same reason they call janitors "maintenance engineers" |
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Put a better spin on the job title.
I had to laugh when they called the bar Eminem got arrested in last week a "nightclub". The sign probably calls it a "gentleman's club", but we all call Cheetah's a titty bar.
There are no gentleman in a "gentleman's club" except when the police are raiding it.
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Mon Jul-17-06 12:58 PM
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4. Because they don't strip anymore |
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They come on stage nekkid.
Or so I'm told.
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:40 PM
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5. Because nobody knows what ecdysiast means |
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let alone how to spell it.
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:42 PM
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6. This exotic dancer says you don't have a clue |
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what you're talking about. Thanks for the stereotype and the demeaning of my chosen profession of 12 years. You have no idea.
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:48 PM
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10. Why does your profile say you are a stripper? |
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:53 PM
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For easy reference,although I do prefer exotic dancer, stripper means someone that strips out of his/her clothes. This can be done in a very artistic fashion. Just as in any profession, there are competent people and dumbasses. There is so much more to this business than that, it would take me all week to explain, and many all year to understand. I don't really have time to enlighten such judgemental people, so I'm not going to bother, seeing as how you all have already made up your minds. One thing you should know,though...it really is a mindfuck, not a literal one. If you can recognize that, then you are at a good starting point.
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:57 PM
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12. my ex-girlfriend years ago was a stripper/dancer/etc., |
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after she lost her job in the medical profession...6 months later she was busted driving with a bag of cocaine...
I also have know of somebody, wouldn't say friend, who frequents a bar I go to. He is a walking menu of STD's...
Of course, this is in the Dallas metroplex, very shady part of town where these places are able to operate. I find the whole experience demeaning to women myself.
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:03 PM
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AND I MEAN NEVER touched coke in the 12 years I've been dancing. It's only demeaning if you want it to be, or if you are too stupid to understand what's going on. It's actually quite the reverse...we are taking advantage of the customer.
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Mon Jul-17-06 06:51 PM
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28. Lots of judgmental stereotypes and myths in that post, Snooper n/t |
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Mon Jul-17-06 07:49 PM
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33. And I regularly entertain with three Farsi women who are belly dancers |
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and take almost ALL of it off and dance very erotically...all three are engineers in their day jobs
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Mon Jul-17-06 07:52 PM
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35. The profession is not demeaning to women. Perpetuating stereotypes IS. |
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:07 PM
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14. People can be idiots. |
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I understand your profession and I have nothing against it.
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:26 PM
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16. People can be idiots. |
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Big idiots. I see people bringing down the dancers, but never the people who WATCH them.
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:30 PM
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That looked like a dupe post, but upon closer inspection they had two different authors! :o :crazy:
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:31 PM
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18. I read Hakura's after I posted. |
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Dammit. Oh well, it got the point across.
ZOMBIE!!! Where have you been?
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Mon Jul-17-06 05:13 PM
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23. For the past few hours... |
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in the living room waiting for my dad to get the hell off my computer. x(
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Mon Jul-17-06 07:09 PM
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That always gets my dad to do stuff.
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:52 PM
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21. Haha. I checked back in the thread and I was like... |
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"damnit, I hate it when I dupe post. Hey, I didn't dupe post?"
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Mon Jul-17-06 05:42 PM
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:hi: I haven't seen you around too much lately.
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Mon Jul-17-06 06:59 PM
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29. I haven't seen you much, either! |
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I miss you!!! Show up more, jeeze!!!
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Mon Jul-17-06 07:42 PM
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31. Well, this past weekend |
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I was in Cincinati for an anime con :3 I just finished uploading the pictures http://s4.photobucket.com/albums/y118/alexiel3wings/Ikasucon%2006/Other than that, work's been eating my life :-/
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:42 PM
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7. So that those who pay to watch them can feel less sleazy. n/t |
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:47 PM
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8. the same reason they call secretaries |
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Mon Jul-17-06 01:47 PM
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9. Because "erotic dancers" would be too obvious |
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"Exotic" sounds enough like "erotic" to be a good code-word for it, I guess.
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:12 PM
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15. Sounds more sophisticated? |
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:50 PM
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19. What they do is an art form.... |
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Mon Jul-17-06 05:36 PM
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26. Yup, the art of the "lap dance"....Bwaaaaaa |
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:51 PM
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20. Because the guy printing the posters ran out of the letter R |
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Mon Jul-17-06 02:54 PM
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that those afraid of sexuality place on such things
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Mon Jul-17-06 05:25 PM
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strip clubs whatever you care to call them. I have taken dates to strip clubs, never had a bad time. People get the stereotype that its a full out or g but its not, the bouncers say so. The closet you get to touching one of these ladies is tipping her. I like a woman that has the intestinal fortitude to not give a rats arse about what people think of her.
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Mon Jul-17-06 05:25 PM
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We never use the "exotic dancer" euphimism (sp?). We just refer to them as "peeler joints". I only ever went to one. This dancer (peeler) started to shake his wang in my face (did i happen to mention that i was gay?) I left immediately. He was hustling me for a table dance and a date. No thanks! Was my boyfriend ever pissed off!
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Mon Jul-17-06 07:48 PM
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32. Goes back to the days of "Little Egypt", Carmen Miranda and the like |
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Not all these women were simply strippers and several were of foreign descent. Exotic dancers also embodies belly dancers who are both erotic and exotic. Even in newer strip clubs, the best dancers are usually a bit acrobatic with their routines and don't just strip.
That's why.
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Mon Jul-17-06 07:49 PM
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