HEyHEY
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Wed Jul-19-06 05:52 PM
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God, I wish I was more of a flirt on short notice |
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Edited on Wed Jul-19-06 05:56 PM by HEyHEY
I was at the produce store and saw a gorgeous Mediterranean looking woman (I AM A SUCKER FOR THIS LOOK.) So, she sees me checking her out and I quickly look away, and as I'm doing that, she smiles, then walks past me. Now, I am not some poor slob who thinks "Oh, jeez that girl at the grocery store could have been the one." - That'd be sad. I just wish I was more instinctively flirty because I think it'd be much more fun on a daily basis. Hey, flirting IS fun... so when your first instinct is to bug out... you miss out on alot of fun. Stupid shyness. I can be a great flirt if there's a waitress involved or something - and it's fun. But when I have no time to adjust, I suck. Flirting really is an art-form. I shall work harder to master it.
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Wed Jul-19-06 05:53 PM
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1. I hear you. The only time I can flirt is when I don't want to. |
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People tell me I'm pretty good at it. Of course, when I want to, I stumble and bumble and make an ass of myself OR I just don't even bother.
Pain in the ass.
:shrug:
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HEyHEY
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Wed Jul-19-06 05:57 PM
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4. I get told I'm flirting all the time when I'm just being friendly |
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My female friends are always saying "You're flirting with that waitress." And I had no idea I was.
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Rabrrrrrr
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Wed Jul-19-06 06:03 PM
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It sucks. I wish i could study the me that can do it, so that the other me that wants to do it can learn.
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NewWaveChick1981
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Wed Jul-19-06 05:55 PM
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2. I'm more of a nonverbal flirt in person. |
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Eye contact goes a long way. So does a nice smile. :) When you get the opportunity again (and you will!), you might try that. :D
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Wed Jul-19-06 05:57 PM
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...drop your trousers and scream, "MEEEAAAARRRRRGHH!!!"
You'd be surprised the number of dates I got that way. Actually, I'll bet the number wouldn't surprise you at all. :D
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NewWaveChick1981
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Wed Jul-19-06 05:58 PM
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5. You might get a date with a cop that way... |
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Wed Jul-19-06 06:06 PM
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7. I can't flirt worth a damn |
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I always just end up being friends with the person I like...dammit.
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Wed Jul-19-06 06:24 PM
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8. We have a book about flirting |
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want I should buy it for you?
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Wed Jul-19-06 06:39 PM
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9. With women- best all time flirt tool to use guys---is a slow, sweet, smile |
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Followed by a wink for the frisky looking fillies!
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