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but the ones that, through fate, cross my path I certainly CAN do something about! It's pure apathy to SAY 'oh, what a sad thing', turn away and let them die while rationalizing that 'the next person will do something' when, of course, they WON'T -- they'll repeat the exact same cop-out. THAT is reality. And I can, in a (semi) small way, try to improve this reality.
What you call detachment I call apathy, unconcern and perhaps even laziness.
You obviously did not note that in my post I mentioned each of these cats are neutered, except the kittens & their mom, of course (yet!) (the mom was abandoned here pregnant)-- even though I do not plan on keeping them if at all possible? With 10 adult-young adult cats in a house, just ONE litter would be a blessing , not to mention a MIRACLE. (I may be a Cat Lady, but not a CRAZY Cat Lady!) No, no... to bemoan the number of unwanted animals in this world and to do NOTHING about it would be the height of hypocrisy!
If I didn't take these abandoned cats in and have them neutered, do you realize the vast number MORE unwanted (and now feral) cats and kittens would be in this area alone?
Rest assured, neither I nor my family are not in any kind of jeopardy. Whatsoever. We are not knee-deep in cat feces. I have 2 very large litter boxes going & each are scooped at least 2x a day. (We also have 2 of those automatically self-scooping boxes, but they don't work very well -- a heads up to other cat parents that it may not be worth the expenditure). When the kittens become mobile, another will go up --but they cannot stay, hence this thread. ...and if some of the young adults can find homes too, that's freaking awesome! And if I can't ensure their well-being in the future, sobeit, but that still doesn't mean I won't try.
Oh and BTW, my freezer contains ice, freezer-burnt chicken breasts and sundry other items; but nope, no frozen cats.
What do helping these creatures harm me? After the neutering (of which I've found a vet who, since I've rescued so many and he respects my efforts, performs the surgeries at a deeply discounted fee) all they cost me are kitty kibble and litter, and of course the effort to scoop the litter. The small expense and 20 minutes scooping-time a day is easily affordable, we're not suffering in the least because of them... Really now, it is MY decision to DO something to try to help these creatures. This is based in my bedrock personal feelings of responsibility, compassion and doing what I think is right. If it doesn't bother my husband, why should it bother you?
Kindly don't go stereotyping me into some Crazy Cat Lady of the Third Kind. The fact that the count is now up to 15 may put me in the category of the First Kind, admittedly (that huge litter was quite a shock!) but I'm trying to DO something about that; as this thread is witness to.
Additionally, I reserve the right to name them whatever fits them, indeed whatever I damn well wish to -- "pretty" as these names may be.
Above all, is it not MY decision in MY household (in MY world) to do what I can and desire to do for the unfortunates that show up needing succor; not yours?
Perhaps I'll tell you how should live your life according to MY terms, eh? Somehow I don't get the feeling you'd welcome that :)
Look, I realize your post meant well -- but unless I live under your roof, kindly don't presume to tell me that I should adopt your attitudes nor how to live my life under your philosophy. ...and even then...
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