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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 08:56 PM
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So, is it creepy
for someone not yet 30 to be attracted to someone who was born in the 1930s?
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 08:58 PM
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1. No, it is not!
It is unusual but not creepy.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 08:59 PM
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3. Thank you, KitchenWitch.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 08:58 PM
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2. .
:wtf:

Be attracted to me. I'm 34 and haven't done the things the near-octogenerian has! :D
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:00 PM
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5. Well, yeah, you haven't been
an incredibly successful author, poet, and musician with an amazing voice, and firm yet loving grasp of language that makes women drop to their knees in praise.

But you're alright too :D
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:02 PM
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10. I know.
Having nothing attractive or anything successful is seen as a turn-off...

Nice of you to think I'm "alright" anyway. Just don't expect me to believe it. :D I know what I am.

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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:03 PM
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I didn't say you have NOTHING
Just that you don't have that
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:05 PM
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16. Dude
You do know everyone here thinks you're awesome, don't you?
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:02 PM
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11. I have!!
Well, no, not really. But I'm almost adequate at all those things!
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 08:59 PM
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4. creepy no
Edited on Fri Jul-21-06 09:00 PM by NewJeffCT
A little different - yes. but, to each his or her own.

how about somebody not yet 30 attracted to a guy almost 40?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:00 PM
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6. I find
men in their late 30s and 40s attractive.
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:02 PM
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9. hmm
I'm in my late 30s for the next 4 months or so. ;-)

I'm male, too.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:03 PM
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13. And married.
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:05 PM
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18. I know
I'm being a lounge flirt tonight.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:06 PM
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20. Okay
Married dude :P

So anyway, whats up with work? Need more mediocre assistance?
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:14 PM
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34. work sucks
if you're in school at all, stay in school as long as you can!

And, the assistance was for something else outside of work.

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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:15 PM
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36. I resent the implication that I'm a prostitute
oh, wait, nevermind.
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:18 PM
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42. huh?
The assistance was for a real estate related research project I've been trying to work on for a few months now, but i'm having trouble finding time to complete, or even get to the next phase.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:19 PM
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43. I was joking
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:20 PM
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45. I know
but, I missed the joke. unless you were talking about 'mediocre assistance' that way?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:21 PM
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46. Nevermind
:D So whats up
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:24 PM
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50. I'm slow in my old age
My wife has been on the phone with a friend for at least an hour... complaining about something.

I'm probably headed to bed soon.

what's up with you & why did you ask the question in your original post?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:28 PM
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53. Nothing is up with me
I'm staying in tonight, partly due to lack of funds, partly due to a crisis I must resolve early early tomorrow morning. I just asked the question cause I was curious.
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:37 PM
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62. well, good luck with your crisis
at least you can take comfort in the fact that a lot of DUers want you as one of their 3 hot tub companions! ;-)

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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:37 PM
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63. alllll two of them
:D
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:01 PM
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7. Not for the guy born in the 1930s!
:bounce: :woohoo:

And not for anyone else who matters, either.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:02 PM
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8. Oh man
*swoon*
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:03 PM
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14. yeah...
woohoo smilie makes me swoon, too...
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:06 PM
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19. I was thinking more like this
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:07 PM
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21. That's
who I thought you meant, for some reason. I must have seen that in another thread.

He makes me swoon, and I'm pretty darn straight.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:08 PM
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22. That VOICE
those WORDS
that FACE
mmmmmph
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:12 PM
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28. Hey
I know. It hits me somewhere in the spine and just resonates. Though, you know, I was drawn more to the female parts of the video... (deep throat cough).

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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:11 PM
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27. Wait, you read my posts?
Weird. haha i posted it in another thread
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:14 PM
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33. Well, maybe
I remember another thread where someone was talking about him. Didn't remember who it was. So I thought of him when I read your description, then when you told HT about the voice and lyrics, I guessed I was right.

And I was. See, I do pay attention to you! :rofl:

Or maybe it was male intuition.
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:15 PM
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37. I knew it was lenny....
First we take Berlin....
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-22-06 08:13 AM
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64. How could it not be?
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tinfoil tiaras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:03 PM
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12. No
I think some of the R.E.M. members are hot and they're old enough to be my dad! Creepy, I know, but still.....:)

Good luck! :)
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:04 PM
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15. haha
there is NO WAY I don't even KNOW this person, but thanks :)
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WritingIsMyReligion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:05 PM
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17. Nope.
We all like older people sometimes. Probably because sometimes agemates can be such fools.

:evilgrin:
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:09 PM
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23. oh lordy lordy
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:09 PM
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24. Weirdo.
:P
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:10 PM
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26. You're just jealous
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:12 PM
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29. When did you change your name to Anna Nicole, anyway?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:13 PM
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30. When did you change your name to.... Dumbo the Jealousy Monster, anyway?
HUH? HUH DUMBO? YOU JEALOUS? HUH?
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:14 PM
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35. Are you saying I have big ears?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:15 PM
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38. Exactly.
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:18 PM
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41. Fair enough.
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:10 PM
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25. nope...
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:13 PM
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32. cool
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:13 PM
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31. Well if it is then I'm guilty of it and I'm under 30
Edited on Fri Jul-21-06 09:13 PM by socialdemocrat1981
I've always been attracted to much older females and that includes one or two who were born in the 1930s

So no, I do not think it creepy. Each person has their own tastes and preferences
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:16 PM
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39. Cool
:)
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:22 PM
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47. I've always
been attracted to women about eleven years older than me. I thought that would go away when I hit my mid thirties, since older women then would be close to fifty. But it hasn't left me. I'm 41, and often drawn to women in their fifties. I think it's a maturity thing. Women my age sometimes strike me as immature. (I'm gonna pay for that one, aren't I?) :hide:

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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:17 PM
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40. You mean the guy we were just talking about?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:20 PM
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44. Yes. Yes I do.
Given the opportunity I would, in fact, hit it. Big deal wanna fight about it?
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:23 PM
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48. I understand completely.
I would hold his hand.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:26 PM
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52. I would tuck him in.
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:32 PM
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56. I think he would appreciate that.
I would bring him a drink of water at 3 a.m.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:34 PM
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58. I would read him stories and stroke his hair until he fell asleep with
his head in my lap.
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outofbounds Donating Member (578 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:24 PM
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49. No way,
This isn't the 1800's when you had to be married at 14 so you could have 8 kids before you died at 41. So what if someone thinks it is "wrong", what difference should that make at all? You live for you, world be damned.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:28 PM
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54. Whatever year it is,
the man is luscious.
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txwhitedove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:26 PM
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51. Heck no, not creepy, especially since you're attracted to HIM....
Have always loved that voice and he's still an attractive man.

:thumbsup:
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:29 PM
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55. I can't believe he's dating Anjani Thomas
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txwhitedove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:36 PM
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60. Had to look her up. She's in his video, right?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:36 PM
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61. Yep, she sure is.
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Dangerously Amused Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:33 PM
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57. Dude, I'm in love with a guy born in 1912...



...and he's DEAD!









So, uh... no, not creepy at all in my book!


:7


:hi:


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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-21-06 09:34 PM
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59. Ok, fair enough
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