More important? Men who value a woman for her looks, or her ability?

[Dangerously Amused]

[miss_american_pie]

1. Starting trouble early today?

:D :hi:

[Dangerously Amused]

3. I just got here. It started without me.

:7


:hi:

[miss_american_pie]

4. Oh sure

I believe that. :D

[Dangerously Amused]

7. Hey, it's a legitimate question. I honestly don't know the answer.

:eyes:

[miss_american_pie]

8. Well

are we talking ability or ability. ;)

[billyskank]

36. I love you guys

:rofl:

:grouphug: :loveya:

[miss_american_pie]

37. We love you more

:loveya:

[Dangerously Amused]

41. YES WE DO!!!

:loveya:

[billyskank]

43. Awwwww

Hugs for you! :hug:

[matcom]

2. is the b*tch wearing capri pants?

it's awfully important

:hide:

[Midlodemocrat]

5. always

[flvegan]

6. Odd question.

What's more important? Are men? Or her ability?

I'll take her ability over men any day.

[Dangerously Amused]

9. It IS an odd question, I must agree.

And oddly worded, too. Sorry about that part.


But some questions shouldn't even have to be asked, you know?



Check your PM.



:hi:

[LeftyMom]

10. Any guy worth having would value you for both. nt

[mduffy31]

11. For me Ability especially at work

I don't care if the woman looks like Jamie Farr in drag or a Barbie Doll, when things go to shit at work if she can hold her own and get the job done I don't care what she looks like.

[Dangerously Amused]

That's a healthy attitude.

:hi:

[liontamer]

12. because men can only want one thing from all women

:eyes:

[Dangerously Amused]

14. Some men give that impression, no?

Almost as if they are obsessed.


I find them creepy.

[jobycom]

16. Yes, but remember

those are the men you are going to see the most, because they will be standing outside your office with a mirror and an offer for drinks after work. Most men will be sitting in their office doing their work and thinking about other things--well, that, and other things. You don't notice the men who aren't being asses, just the ones who are, because THEY won't go away.

Now, please, NO ONE post that stupid-ass rant from the nice guy whining that women always date the mean guy instead of his insipid little ass! He's such a wimp I want to kick his... Oh, forget it.

[Dangerously Amused]

21. That's true. We tend to notice the asses more sometimes

...because they have no qualms about putting their boorish, sexist values on display. And yes, they don't ever stop. The sad part is, I don't think they even realize they're asses.

[RetroLounge]

13. or how about...

their ability to look good?

:spank:

RL

[Dangerously Amused]

15. You!

Back in the hot tub!

[RetroLounge]

19. Yes Mistress DA...

:bows:

RL

[Dangerously Amused]

23. Hee!

:pals:

[jobycom]

17. Depends on what you're using him for. And whether he's rich.

Makes a difference!

[Dangerously Amused]

24. Yep. Women who use men for their money are bad too.

If I was a guy that would piss me right off, no doubt.

[jobycom]

25. Meh.

If one is lying, it's bad. If they both know the sitch, it's okay. I know trophy wives who are quite happy with their lives. They don't want a fawning, sycophant husband, they want the minimum companionship and the comfort he offers. They ask no questions, they don't want any asked of them. It works.

It's a hard life. Whatever works for people makes me happy. Not the life I would choose, but it's not my choice.

[Dangerously Amused]

27. Well stated.

In my use of the word "use," I presumed ulterior motives. But I agree with your example.

[jobycom]

29. Makes sense. I didn't

fully consider your words, my bad.

[Taverner]

18. If there is no physical attraction, the connection will not be made

If there is no emotional attraction, the connection will not be sustained.

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

20. Couldn't have said it any better.

[Dangerously Amused]

26. I don't know.

For me, the deepest and most enduring love I ever experienced was for a guy who wouldn't be considered conventionally "attractive," and who I didn't find particularly physically attractive, either... at least when we first met. But everything else about him was beautiful. I fell in love with the rest of him and he became beautiful to me. I would rather gaze all day at him than at any parade of pretty boys... simply because it was him. So I can't really agree that "if there is no physical attraction, the connection will not be made." It happened for me. On the other hand, I acknowledge that the connection probably would not have been made if I found him physically repulsive.

[LaraMN]

22. Depends upon what you want the man for...

:dilemma:

[Dangerously Amused]

28. Heh.

:7

[Deja Q]

30. And yet my thread was locked.

Hmmm....

[Dangerously Amused]

31. YOU got a thread locked?

No, no! Say it isn't so!


Uh... which thread? I must have missed it.












pssst... It helps to bribe the mods.

[Guava Jelly]

32. to superficial.... I value a woman for her heart first

If she happens to be hot ..well then ...bonus!!

[Dangerously Amused]

34. I KNEW that about you!

:7


:hug:

[Guava Jelly]

38. thanks and you get my 2999th post

:)

[Dangerously Amused]

40. woo hoo!

I are special!


:)

[WCGreen]

33. It depends on what ability you speak of.....

[Dangerously Amused]

35. True. Kind of a rhetorical question, huh?

[WCGreen]

44. Very Kung Fu like.....

[ismnotwasm]

39. Men are about equally important in my eyes

With the exception of my husband, my son and two grandsons (so far) who rate far, far above the rest.

[Maestro]

42. Okay I will be honest.

She has to look like this: ;)

Seriously, looks definitely get me there, but what keeps me is personality and her abilities to be a responsible, sensible, caring human being.

[Pierre.Suave]

45. geez...

thats all...