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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:16 PM Original message |
Opinions Needed: Age Differences In Relationships |
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liontamer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
1. It will probably end badly |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
2. I don't think that's a huge problem |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:22 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Ten years, really? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:28 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. I've only dated three people near my own age |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:53 PM Response to Reply #11 |
57. I like girls like you |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
3. You're both of age. Mr. BAL is my JUNIOR by 12 years. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
5. FWIW, I'm worried that YOU are worried about it. |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:24 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Good Point |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:25 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. See my edited post above, MR. BAL initiated ours when he was 19. nt |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 11:02 PM Response to Reply #7 |
59. Dude, you're tripping |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:36 AM Response to Reply #59 |
74. LOL. Thanks for calling me out |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
6. That doesn't seem to be a big age difference. |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:26 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Really? |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:29 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. Not at all. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
10. It's 4 years. That's not really a "gap" |
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Fountain79 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
12. The problem with this age difference... |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:36 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. I've considered this |
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Baselinereality (213 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
14. If You Have Chemistry, Follow Your Heart... |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:37 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. Ok you win best post of the thread so far |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:41 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. Welcome to DU! |
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Baselinereality (213 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:55 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. Well Thank You Both Very Much... |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
17. You're kidding, right? |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:40 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Age difference at this point in our lives |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:44 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. If you've matured, |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
21. It's not so much age as "life stage". |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:49 PM Response to Original message |
22. man, go for it |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:56 PM Response to Reply #22 |
58. That's a good answer |
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New Earth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
23. nothing wrong with that at all |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
25. It's probably not a problem. |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
26. My wife is 10 years younger than me. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
27. 5 years is not an age difference |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
28. When I was 20, I had a relationship with a guy who was 25. |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:19 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. I think you sum up the best approach to take |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
30. How funny! When I met my wife. I was 19 almost 20 and she was 24. |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:25 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Funny coincidence! |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:42 PM Response to Reply #30 |
53. wow. you are lucky that she gave you a chance! |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 05:36 AM Response to Reply #53 |
66. Heh heh. Yeah I was honest. I was the one that was freaked about the |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:23 PM Response to Original message |
31. Frankly, it's nutty to me that you even mentioned age |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
33. When I was 19 I was dating a 31 year old. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
34. I don't see.... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
35. Just as same age couples have issues, so do different ages couples. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:44 PM Response to Original message |
36. I met Mr. Gray when I was 18 & he was 25 |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
37. I echo that life direction |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
38. Do you want to date her, or marry her? |
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(1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
39. 24 and 19 is not age difference n/t |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
40. At your/her age, the five years |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #40 |
54. Wadda ya mean, |
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SnohoDem (915 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
41. At your ages |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
42. The woman I am digging on right now is 13 years younger |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:20 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Cool! |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
43. LMAO! |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:20 PM Response to Original message |
44. We can always find differences or reasons to not pursue a relationship. |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
46. Is it Cheerleader or So-and-So? |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:37 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Neither |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:40 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Well, at least I knew it wasn't The Ugly One. |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:29 PM Response to Original message |
47. My sister married a man eight years older than she |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
48. Go for it! |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
49. My Mom and Dad have a similar age difference... |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
52. lol! That's nothing! Plus, women are more mature than men |
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tuvor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
55. You ain't got nothin' on Bogie and Bacall. |
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deucemagnet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-26-06 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
56. There's actually a formula for that. |
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Momgonepostal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
60. My husband and I are 10 years apart |
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grannylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
61. That's not much of a difference...and the older you get, the less it |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 01:57 AM Response to Original message |
62. "That's what I love about these high school girls, man." |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 01:59 AM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Were you watching "Dazed & Confused" on E! too? |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 02:59 AM Response to Reply #63 |
65. I can'watch it on cable |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 02:32 AM Response to Original message |
64. You're so fucked, man |
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tjwmason (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 05:47 AM Response to Original message |
67. The difference is nothing. |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 06:34 AM Response to Original message |
68. I hope you explore every avenue |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 07:56 AM Response to Original message |
69. That's not that big of an age difference. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
70. only one way to find out. nm |
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Samurai_Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
71. 4 years difference is nothing! |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
72. I'm tapping in |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
73. My own experience |
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StrongBad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:50 AM Response to Reply #73 |
78. Your story was very insightful |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 09:03 AM Response to Reply #78 |
80. You're welcome! |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
75. My brother is 24 and his girlfriend is 17. |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
76. Not a huge deal. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
77. Five years is NOTHING once you're out of your teens |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 08:58 AM Response to Original message |
79. My Wife is 11 years younger than me |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 09:07 AM Response to Original message |
81. I don't think it's a very big gap, and I also think that |
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Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
82. 4 1/2 years ain't nothing |
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patcox2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
83. No problemo. |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
84. When you're 1,000,024 she'll only be 1,000,019 |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-27-06 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
85. That age difference doesn't sound like it should |
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