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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-08-06 11:52 PM
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Please, everyone...if I could ask...
A toast to my grandmother, V. She'd have been 100 years old today, right now (on the east coast, at least).

Her husband, a carpenter and farmer, died younger than he should have (cancer) but she/they raised a fantastic woman, an only child. She's my mom.

My grandmother, as a religious woman, today would likely listen to all the shit that got panned out by the Fundies. To wit, she'd then tell them to shove it "where the sun don't shine" as it wasn't right, nor was it real. My gram would hand you your ass if you didn't have your story up to snuff. Family tradition that I hope I inherit someday.

My gram, V, raised this one hell of a firecracker, my mom. Brought me and my brother up largely by herself (an honors teacher, no less). My mom voted for Reagan. Voted for Bush I. Hell, she (and my dad) brought me up Rethuglican. Things change. Now, she's a retired teacher, pissed as hell and a dem. She's mostly vegetarian, and a gym rat too. She and her bratty-ass kid flvegan seem to be evolving together. No credit taken, thanks.

Kicking a lot of ass and taking names in the name of what's proper is a family value. It might have evolved, but once handed off, one runs with it.

My gram started this shit, and it looks like I'm here to finish it.

Please, for me, my friends...kick it one time. I'd not be here, nor who I am if not for the very strong women in my family.

Happy 100, gram. I love and miss you, and I thank you for getting me to where I am, and for getting us to where we are.

flvegan
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-08-06 11:53 PM
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1. Cheers to your grandma!
:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:11 AM
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14. Thank you, so much.
A great woman. I couldn't do what she did.

Thank you!
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-08-06 11:53 PM
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2. To your grandmother!
And, grandmothers everywhere!

:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:12 AM
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15. Yes, to all the influential and loving women in our families...
thank you!
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-08-06 11:56 PM
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3. She sounds like a fine woman
She's got a legacy to be proud of in your Mom and in you.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:13 AM
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17. I'm hoping that she's leveraging it, now
to get extra favors where she is. It's well deserved.
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deadparrot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-08-06 11:57 PM
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4. What a great tribute.
:toast: to her.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:15 AM
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18. I'd be a pathetic little man
if I didn't give props to grams. Thank you.
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Book Lover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:00 AM
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5. To V !
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:16 AM
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20. Thank you!
I hope that somehow, she...you know, "sees" this thread.
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:02 AM
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6. To your grandma!
:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:17 AM
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21. I cherish this. Thank you!
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:05 AM
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7. At toast to V, and to you, flvegan!
Here's to all the strong people in our lives! :toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:21 AM
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23. To V!
Though in comparison...I ain't nothin. That woman...uh huh...most men today WISH they had what she had. You just can't front on that.

Thank you, though. Yes...to all those that influence us, help us...
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:08 AM
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8. I'm raising a glass of absinthe to V. and you.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:22 AM
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26. Thank you. *bows*
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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:09 AM
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9. To Gran.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:23 AM
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27. Thank you so very much.
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:11 AM
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10. Here's to Gram
:toast:

She done good.

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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:26 AM
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29. I dunno.
She'd not agree with me on many things. However, you set me at a table with her about Iraq and GWB...oh, baby...that'd be something she and I could broadcast!

She'd love that you thought that her kiddo had indeed done good. Thank you.
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:19 AM
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11. Happily!
:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:27 AM
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30. Thank you
so much. I can always count on my friends here.

:hug:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:19 AM
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12. To Gram
Happy 100th.

aA
:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:29 AM
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31. Oh, aA...thank you.
You're always on the front lines, so this is extra special to me.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 12:37 AM
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13. My friends...you great folks...thanks. Really, thanks.
Your responses mean a lot to me. I thank you all. I'd not be the man I am today if not for the women that furthered my bloodline (I hope you get my meaning, there).

Also, THIS is why if one ever chooses to dispel DU, I'm gonna be there. And (insert holy deity here) help you if you besmirch my Lounge brethren and sistren. You want family, then you look no damn further. And do NOT think that just because I'm one 'o them vegan folk that I can't kick some ass. My arms...bill with the Gods.

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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:13 AM
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16. Cheers!
Well done, my friend:)
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:31 AM
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33. Thank you so much, sir.
Proud to say, "my friend."
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:15 AM
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19. Here's to your Grandma!
:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:32 AM
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34. My grams was a no bs type of woman. She'd
love that sig sticker. Hell, she'd have one on her bumper.

Thanks, my dear.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:54 AM
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42. I'm tempted to get one of those stickers myself
I'd love one of the T-shirts but I really have nowhere to wear it. I'm not allowed to wear clothing/buttons with political or religious expressions to my weekday job, I wouldn't want it to get ruined at my weekend job, and there's really nowhere else I go other than to run an errand here and there. It would also be silly to put it on for the measly 1-5 hours I'm home prior to leaving for work each evening then change to go to work.
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Dangerously Amused Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:19 AM
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22. Happy 100th birthday, Grammy V.











And a toast: To a woman well loved and a life well lived; your strong and gracious spirit shines on through our dear brother flvegan and his mom.


:toast:


:hug:



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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:34 AM
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35. I'm
tearing up reading that. Thank you. I pale in the shadow of either of these strong, fine women, though.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:21 AM
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24. cheers and happy birthday, Grandma!
:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:36 AM
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37. Thank you for that.
She'd take one of those beers, too (I haven't divulged that out til now).
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:21 AM
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25. Cheers!!!!
:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:38 AM
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38. Aww, thank you, MrScorpio
we go too far back around here. Thank you, sir, MrS.
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:55 AM
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43. Anytime, Bro
Anytime
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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:23 AM
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28. We're toasting her and you right now as I am typing this! Happy 100th!
She reminds me of my grandmother.

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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:39 AM
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39. A toast from one of my very favorite DUers...
Thank you. She'd be extremely happy with this.
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IChing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:30 AM
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32. sweet....time.......love .......and limited eternity....yeah...kick....n/t
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:41 AM
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40. IChing...nope, won't even say it...
don't need to.

Thank you!
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:36 AM
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36. Here's toasting to all of you flvegan...
...obviously, the acorn doesn't fall far from the tree...:toast:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 01:43 AM
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41. Thanks, but she was a MUCH better woman than I
am a man. A great act to follow, though...
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 02:04 AM
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44. To your grandma...
:toast:...
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 02:07 AM
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45. Thank you. I'm off to bed
and this kick was most thoughtful.
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 08:30 AM
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46. Absolutely!
Here's to your grandmother! :toast: :applause:
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AirmensMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 08:41 AM
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47. A toast to Gram!
:toast: I had a Gram, too, who would have been 105 this month. :bounce:

Your Gram would be proud. :loveya:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 03:29 PM
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48. Nothing like a pistol of a granny to start a positive path that stays open
through several generations.

Wish I'd have been able to meet her.

My glass is raised.

Redstone
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 04:53 PM
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49. Cheers to your Gram, your mom, and to you for honoring them...
:toast:
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 05:19 PM
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50. A toast to your grandmother,
and to the grandson who honors her and the family she brought to you. :toast:

Thank you for sharing this story! :hi:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 05:39 PM
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51. Here is to flvegan's Grandmother!
:toast: In celebration of a long and worthwhile life!
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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 05:50 PM
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52. Cheers and Skål to your Grandma!
She sounds like a fantastic women, not
unlike the women in my family.

There's not one "shrinking violet" in the whole lot.

Happy 100 to her!

I know she's watching.

;-)
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 06:01 PM
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53. A toast to your gram
:toast:

I wish mine were here too. She would have been 80 on August 2. She passed away 5 years ago, and not a day goes by when I don't think of her.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 06:08 PM
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54. Here's to V!


Happy 100th!
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 07:59 PM
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55. Keeping it open for the evening crowd to read. It deserves wide
readership...may of us have had a granny like that.

Redstone
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