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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:04 AM Original message |
My sister says I can't be "mean" to my cousin -- what do you think? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
1. Be direct |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:24 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. From what I'm hearing, the new wife is the one who has been in charge |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
2. dont play passive aggressive |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:27 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. I was originally kind of wanting to do the "ignore forever" thing |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:57 AM Response to Reply #6 |
14. this is just so wrong. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:21 AM Response to Original message |
3. I'm a bit confrontational. |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:32 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. I'm kind of hypersensitive on the topic of being excluded lately. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:17 PM Response to Reply #8 |
45. I think I understand your feelings...... |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:21 AM Response to Original message |
4. He made choices. The message is clear. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:32 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. He's inviting 100 people |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:36 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. I'm clueless. And remember, HIS SIDE only gets 100 people -- |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:01 AM Response to Reply #7 |
15. As I said, weddings bring out the worst behavior. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 08:57 PM Response to Reply #15 |
44. I have one grandma, |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:50 AM Response to Reply #4 |
11. Yes, he is an insensitive dolt. Every time I want to be "extra hurt" |
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oldcoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:43 AM Response to Reply #11 |
21. Could you get together with the sister and the orphan niece? |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:56 AM Response to Reply #21 |
24. I am *confident* he is going to look bad -- he already does. |
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zonkers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
10. I was not invited to the wedding of a buddy whom I did everything for... |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:54 AM Response to Reply #10 |
13. These are the things we remember, even when we don't want to. |
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zonkers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 01:54 PM Response to Reply #13 |
28. Actually, Ida, one should be thankful people reveal their true selves |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
12. Speaking personally, I don't see why you care. |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:03 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Obviously we come from different families! |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:15 AM Response to Reply #16 |
19. It's only an insult if you choose to be insulted. |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:52 AM Response to Reply #19 |
23. I'm kind of confused about missing out on the "gift/payback" thing. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 12:28 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Just like I said: |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 02:01 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. but, but |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 02:10 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. LOL! Yes, if this is because of his future wife, IdaBriggs need do nothing |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 02:25 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. It really doesn't sound to me like something a male would do |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 02:35 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Hey man, I agree |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 02:37 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. not a man |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 02:39 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. So am I. |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 03:07 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. LOL! I think you have it right there! |
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pagerbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 12:27 PM Response to Reply #12 |
26. The inconsistency is what hurts more than the exclusion |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-10-06 06:34 AM Response to Reply #26 |
46. If we aren't "told" about the wedding via either an invitation or a |
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mad-mommy (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
17. seems odd... |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:42 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. We've never had a political discussion, so I'm not sure. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
18. People are entitled to invite whomever they choose |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:45 AM Response to Reply #18 |
22. I said it upthread -- my husband is near dancing with joy! |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 11:56 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Like attracts like... |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
32. I'd leave it alone and remember the day when you get invited to |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 03:11 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. Thanks, MrsGrumpy. And as I told my mother, it could be worse. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 03:34 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Awww. How horrid. One time we were invited, kind of last minute, |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
38. Several of my cousins failed to invite me to their wedding |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
40. This is why I'm not having a wedding reception |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
41. Since your cousin is local, drop in on him somewhere |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
42. The question that comes to mind is... |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-09-06 05:40 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Because my feelings are/were hurt, and I was feeling passive/ |
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