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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 01:56 PM
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Gentlemen, How Tall is Too Tall?
Just curious what amount of height difference (female taller) my fellow male (and female, if you've been in this situation) DUers are comfortable with and/or have had work out well for you?

I'm talking to a woman online and long distance, who is 6'. I'm 5'9".

I know the stereotype is that it is the woman who really, really wants the taller man. And I think that would be her preference, but she is quite sure that she will be fine with my height (though she's never dated anyone 3" shorter than herself). I guess on the one hand, I'm still a bit concerned that when we meet, it will be a bigger rather than smaller hurdle for her to overcome, and, well, vice versa where I'm concerned.

My ex was 5'9", and physically it was not ideal... but I'm not so sure that that wasn't because she was subconciously sabatoging our physical relationship. All my other relationships have been with women who were at least a couple inches shorter.
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:01 PM
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1. Surely I'm not the only person this fucking shallow?
We can work in the "boob pocket" angle too, if that helps?
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akwapez Donating Member (342 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:05 PM
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2. No I'm plenty shallow but
I'm 6'3" so Ive never dated a woman taller than me. Sorry I couldn't help
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:13 PM
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5. Could you find a 6'6" woman and get back with me?
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akwapez Donating Member (342 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:31 PM
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12. sure...you got a friend in the WNBA to introduce me to?
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:09 PM
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3. I love taller women
but I like shorter women also.
I am not picky on dimensions :)
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:16 PM
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7. I tend to be the same way, but this is definitely a first
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:17 PM
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8. I say go for it
:)
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:25 PM
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10. well, the ticket is non-refundable
So the question is whether or not I will have a nice vacation with a friend, or a life changing journey :)
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:28 PM
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11. I'll root for life changing
as long as its in a good way
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querelle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:10 PM
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4. One Of My Friends
Edited on Sat Aug-12-06 03:11 PM by querelle
is 6' even but she thinks it's un-feminine for a woman to be that tall so she tells eveyone that she's 5'12". By the way, she really has a thing for guys shorter than her. Her current boyfriend is 5'7". They make a really cute couple!

Q
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:14 PM
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6. lol, I like her sense of humor!
That is hopeful, thanks.
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:20 PM
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9. My current GF is 5'10". Same height as I am.
And I have no problem with that. She never wears heels so we are at the same level.
I find tall women very sexy!
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-12-06 03:31 PM
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13. 8'6" would be a bit too tall.
But otherwise it don't see it as an issue.
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