Tom Yossarian Joad
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:10 PM
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Strangest DittoHead Ever... She Married a Gay Man... |
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And still insists she has no liberal leanings...
Okay, long story short: I had an affair (long term) with a dittohead and then she married a gay man. I'm straight. (No comments on my prowess:) )
I know the guy and love him. He's a great guy but leans right.
I fell in love with the girl for reasons I won't get into. And have now been told sex is still okay????
I said congratulations... Let's all pool our resources and buy a villa in SA and it went over great....
She still loves Rush, is an MBA from Samford... But is so fucking liberal in her actions that I am left confused.
Dear Abby, WTF should I do?
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:11 PM
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1. That's not necessarily liberal. Maybe she was trying to "cure" him |
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of his gayness.
And, BTW, hes probably still very gay.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:14 PM
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7. Yes, he is.. And she isn't trying to "cure him." They have been close for |
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:17 PM
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9. Sounds like she's more selfish than liberal |
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its not like she thinks its ok to be gay.
Quite the contrary, it seems.
She wanted him, so she went after him.
Nothing especially liberal about that.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:19 PM
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13. A rational part of me says that... |
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There's the comfort factor and an economic factor involved here...
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:34 PM
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19. No, but to be wanted is one helluva nice feeling. TO be loved and sought. |
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Maybe that's why he married her?
This is all conjecture, which makes it even more bizarre when I can say I can empathize with all that! :)
And it isn't liberal.
It's not hippie either.
It's human.
Go after what you want. Carpe diem.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:36 PM
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21. I think you are very, very right. n/t |
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:12 PM
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3. Tom, I want you to read your post over... |
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Anywhere between 5 to 10 times, before it really sinks in what you have described. Then, ask yourself one simple question:
Do I really need to go there?
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:16 PM
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8. I know....! But goddammit, I love the both of them in different ways |
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and have seen this coming for a time....
Jesus, this has been an odd voyage.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:23 PM
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take it from me:
Way. Too. Fiddly.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:25 PM
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16. LOL... I know... I just had a pair of socks knocked off me. n/t |
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:13 PM
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if not, watch out she's setting you up for a three way
and the mods will be setting this up for the Lounge any minute
:pals:
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:14 PM
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6. That's not liberal, it's dysfunctional |
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I say bag the whole thing.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:19 PM
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10. Sounds like you've got a great sitcom pilot |
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:22 PM
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14. LOL, Fuck you, Swamp Rat! |
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:19 PM
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12. Hmmm.. I got nothing man... |
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:31 PM
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18. As long as he doesn't cheat, who cares who he marries? |
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I know a gay guy who married... and things got worse for him after divorcing.
I won't go into the details, but I saw the pain he, his wife, and his children went through. I wish he never divorced and kept thinking of his family. His divorce proved he loved them the most.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:35 PM
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20. Hi, HT... This shouldn't be the case... The logic (RePug) I heard was for |
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"financial" reasons. It seems to me at the moment, that they are just using each other's freindship for very selfish purposes.
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Wed Aug-23-06 09:38 PM
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22. Now I think you are very, very right. |
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