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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:27 PM
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We got custody!!!!!
Some of you may remember my thread last week
(sorry, forgot to save the link) about my irresponsible
stepdaughter and 1 YO "Katie".

Well, today the Family Court judge issued an order granting
LTwife and me custody of Katie until such time as "Mary" can
prove to the Court's satisfaction she's fit to raise a child.
(BTW-female judge). Although I'm 1000 miles away, I'm celebrating
tonight-no booze, though.

:woohoo:


:party:
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:29 PM
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1. Congratulations!!!
Edited on Mon Aug-28-06 07:30 PM by greatauntoftriplets
That's great news. "Katie" will be much better off with you. I have friends who have raised their now 16-year-old grandson for the last 13 years.

Edited for stupid typo that made the meaning of my response weird.
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:29 PM
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2. Congrats!
:woohoo:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:29 PM
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3. That's wonderful news!
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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:30 PM
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4. Wonderful!
:woohoo: :D :hug:
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:45 PM
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11. Thanks, lel!
"Mary" could learn much from you about growing up.
Just promise you'll, uh, exercise more "control" than
she, OK? :hug:
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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:03 PM
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17. Aww
:hug: I shall try. :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:30 PM
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5. Great news, my dear liberaltrucker!
I saw you called earlier.......was it to tell me this?

I could not be more pleased, sweetie!

Congrats to ALL of you!


:bounce: :bounce:
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:41 PM
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10. Yep!
:bounce:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:31 PM
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6. I remember.....
Congratulations!
I hope this works out for everyone especially little Katie.
Hopefully "Mary" will use this as a stepping stone.
I am so happy for you.


:hug:




lost
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:31 PM
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7. I do remember that thread,
but did not respond. The courts have chosen wisely. I can only pray that your daughter turns her life around and becomes a responsible, good mother. But those kids are so fortunate to have you and LFwife to give them a sane and stable home. I'm sending good vibes to all of you.
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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:33 PM
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8. Congratulations!

I'm so happy you got custody of Katie.
This is wonderful news.

:woohoo:
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:40 PM
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9. Thanks much, my friends!
Sorry for the delayed reply. Net connection problems tonite.

:yourock:
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:46 PM
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12. Little Katie is lucky you are there
I don't recall the thread, but it doesn't matter. I am glad for you.
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:53 PM
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13. TYVM
Long time no see

:hi:
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:54 PM
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14. hi there :)
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SoyCat Donating Member (660 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 07:56 PM
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15. I don't even know you but I couldn't be happier! We desperately need such
luck in our family. We've got two awful situations that aren't getting any better.
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:22 PM
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21. Sorry to hear
Welcome to DU! :hi:

You've found a very supportive virtual family,
as you can see.
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SoyCat Donating Member (660 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:39 PM
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33. Thank you for the welcome!
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asthmaticeog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:02 PM
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16. That's excellent news!
Since this is a dry celebration, I'll refrain from using the "toast" smiley. :bounce:
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:25 PM
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22. Much appreciated!
:rofl:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:05 PM
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18. Great News!
Katie is in good hands...

:hug:

RL
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:11 PM
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19. I'm happy for you, but happier for "Katie."
Edited on Mon Aug-28-06 08:12 PM by Gormy Cuss
I hope that "Mary" does get her act together for herself and for those girls because even if the LTs end up raising both girls they will be better off with a bio mom who can be a good influence by showing that screwing up doesn't mean you give up.

Break out a big sparkling water or something, LT!
:party:
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:15 PM
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20. Congratulations!!
I remember the thread and I'm so happy for you all!!!!

:woohoo::woohoo::woohoo:

:toast:

YIPPEEEEEE!!!!
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brook Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 08:38 PM
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23. Good news!
We have a same situation in our family. I know how difficult all the aspects are - but the most important thing is the love, safety and stability that Katie will now have. It not only helps her now but will give her the ability in later life to deal/understand the hows, whys and why-nots.Love to you all!
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:06 PM
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24. Thanks, she and her big sister(3) will be well cared for
Edited on Mon Aug-28-06 09:10 PM by liberaltrucker
And thanks to all our DU friends. Sometimes, I wonder
how we stayed sane without y'all! Peace and love to you
all. Sorry I couldn't reply to all of you. Net connection
problems tonight.

:patriot:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:07 PM
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25. Little Katie is a lucky girl
to have such caring grandparents. Congratulations!:bounce: :toast: :bounce:
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WritingIsMyReligion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:08 PM
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26. WOW!
And so many of us thought you wouldn't get your grandchild back!

That's great news! I bet Lady lt is estatic; and hell, so are you!

Congrats!

:toast:

:woohoo:
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:15 PM
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30. Family Court in Alabama doesn't mess around
when it comes to a child's best interest, biology be damned.
And, yes, we're VERY pleased!

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tuvor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:08 PM
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27. Congratulations, LT.
And good luck!
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:11 PM
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28. LT!!!! OMG!!! That's so wonderful!
Am so glad to hear your news! So happy for Katie!! So happy for you and LTwife! Katie deserves to have a stable and nuturing home! :hug:


Yippee!! :bounce:
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:12 PM
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29. love you man
:hug:

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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:18 PM
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31. Back atcha
:hug:
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haf216 Donating Member (911 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:21 PM
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32. That is great news!
I will keep y'all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:41 PM
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34. Good on you! No, good for the baby!
My thanks to that judge for thinking of the kid.

Redstone
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huskerlaw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-28-06 09:43 PM
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35. Congrats, LT!
:hug:

:toast:
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 01:10 AM
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36. Damned iffy Net connection!
I'll post pics as soon as lawyer says OK.

Nite, DU!!!

:grouphug:

:loveya:
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 01:12 AM
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37. That's so great, LT!!!
IT's nice that Katie will have a good home to be in. And I sincerely hope that Mary can get things straightened out for herself, so she can get Katie back.

Hugs to ALL of you!! :hug:
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 01:12 AM
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38. Congratulations...:)
:toast: :hi:
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 01:21 AM
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39. That was quicker than you were expecting, IIRC. Good for you.
I come from a family of misfits, foster kids, and unfit parents (not mine, but other relatives), so your story was on my mind. Glad to hear it's working out. Hurray for Katie! And best wishes for "Mary." My sister is a Mary.
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 01:36 AM
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40. That is wonderful news!
I'm glad you & MrsLT were granted custody. I'm especially happy that Katie is back with big sister Maddie. They need to be together. :party:

I hope Mary gets her life in order so she can be an active part of your family. Best wishes to you all. :)
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 02:02 AM
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41. I'm glad you're happy
And, I hope it works out to be the best..for everyone! :hi:
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Random_Australian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 02:08 AM
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42. Best wishes - I hope everything turns out ok.
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Porcupine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 02:14 AM
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43. Bittersweet victory it should be. Far better that "mary" got her
stuff together and stepped up for the kid. I had a POS parent and it never stops hurting.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 02:27 AM
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44. I do remember, and it's nice to see justice done....
...maybe justice is the wrong word. It's nice to see right vs. wrong, work out correctly. You've done good, dude...:thumbsup: :toast:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 08:16 AM
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45. That's great news!
Katie is in good hands.

I feel the court made the right decision. :hi: :hug:
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Ohio Joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 08:26 AM
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46. Congrats
I missed the post last week but I'm glad this worked out for you :party:
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 08:28 AM
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47. tha's great !
Little Katie is lucky to have two people in her life who care for her so very much.

Congrats! and Best Wishes to Y'All :woohoo:
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Tikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-29-06 08:35 AM
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48. Good News......Katie is going to shine...
with you and the Mrs. lovingly looking over and after her.


The Tikkis


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