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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:01 AM
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If you were leaving DU, would you post a thread or just go away?
Edited on Wed Aug-30-06 11:03 AM by ohiosmith
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:03 AM
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1. I'd PM a few buds and that would be it.
The rest of you would never even notice :cry:
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:07 AM
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7. I'd miss your beagle
:D
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:08 AM
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8. ...and I'd miss 'more cowbell'
:)
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:09 AM
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12. And those buds would rush down to Texas, from all over this great land,
and drag your ass back to DU. So don't even *think* about leaving, bub! Your fan club would not just stand by and let this happen! :loveya:

I'm with you - I would never do a big, dramatic "I'm leaving DU" post, but I would tell one or two people by PM, and then just leave. Then I'd sob uncontrollably for weeks because absolutely NO ONE would notice that I'm gone!!!!!:silly:
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:13 PM
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37. .
Thanks, Bunny! :hug:
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:11 AM
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18. I agree Renaldo
:tumbsup:
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:34 AM
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27. you're the tops, underpats
:pat riot:
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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:52 AM
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33. "the rest would never notice"
sadly, that seems to be true.
Almost nobody noticed this thread.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=105&topic_id=5204711
you could add a couple names to your buddy list perhaps.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:54 AM
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34. And so my point is made.
Edited on Wed Aug-30-06 11:55 AM by Richardo


(Thanks, hfojvt :hug:)
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Sugar Smack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:55 AM
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35. I would cry if you left, Richardo!
:cry: :grouphug: :cry: :grouphug: :cry: :grouphug: :cry:
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:04 PM
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36. There there, Sugie.
Edited on Wed Aug-30-06 12:08 PM by Richardo
I'm going anywhere.

Not with the level of wit and repartee I enjoy with a few people around here (not underpants). :pals:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:03 AM
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2. I'd
just go away. I'd probably still have contact with the friends I've made here. But I wouldn't post that I was leaving. Unless it was a reassurance to people that I'd be gone for a while and not to worry etc.

I am more the quiet sort. :shrug:

aA
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LSK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:03 AM
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3. id post the brazilian joke or make a poll
Or make one hell of a sex thread as a big blowout!

:D
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:05 AM
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4. I'd slip out the back
jack...kind of contemplating on that one...
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:06 AM
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5. If I posted a thread about it
I'd do it in the veg group, since that's where most of the people who'd give a shit are.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:09 AM
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10. This one here would give a shit.
:hug:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:11 AM
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15. Don't worry, I'm not going anywhere.
:)

:hug:
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:06 AM
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6. just go away
i've left a few times (for personal reasons, nothing specifically to do with DU) and haven't said a word of it.
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caty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:08 AM
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9. It would depend on why I was leaving.
If I was leaving because I was unable to continue posting or if I just got so PO'd I couldn't stand it here anymore, I would post a sorrowful goodbye.:cry: or a rant goodbye.:mad: If I just lost interest for some reason, I would just fade away into the sunset. :hi:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:09 AM
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11. I did leave once, and I didn't post a thread about it.
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AirmensMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:35 PM
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41. Well, I hope you never leave again!
:loveya: :hug: :* :yourock:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:38 PM
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44. Awwww
:blush: Thank you. :*

:loveya:
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:11 AM
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13. I'd just disappear
Maybe say goodbye to some people.

If I were leaving DU.
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:11 AM
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14. I'd probably post a thread..depends on why and how...
If I were to just continue to post less and less frequently as I get more and more busy and my lifestyle continues exclude personal computer time, then I wouldn't post a goodbye thread.

If I were to make the conscious decision to leave, I would probably post a goodbye to my friends with a little explanation. My close DU friends, I would give a call.

If I were leaving because I was angry about something, I'd probably post 2 threads--a nice goodbye to my friends, and a hideous rule-breaking, bridge-burning thread that would be locked in 2 minutes. I have a mean temper.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:21 AM
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23. :)
I like your style :D
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:44 PM
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57. Hey babe!
Nice to bump into you. Though I should either get to work or go home at this point. ;-) I'm being very naughty!
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:11 AM
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16. I doubt it.
I'd PM my buddy list (which is kind of big) and take off.

I rarely even post threads when I take a break for whatever reason. I only did this once back in March. :shrug:
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:11 AM
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17. first do a thread that i'm thinking about it, then a thread saying i'm
really doing it

then a don't stop me thread

then post in a few other random threads

then a thread about how much du has changed

then linger a while to see if anyone cares

then post a final thread that the horrible people of du aren't going to force me off the board

maybe a few more
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:22 AM
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24. I believe you
:rofl:
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:39 AM
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30. A time-honored and proven model
:thumbsup:
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:40 PM
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45. And I'd post in every one of your threads
encouraging your threats at action, giggling the whole time.
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Momgonepostal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:12 AM
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19. If I were leaving temporarily...
because I was moving or having surgery or losing my ISP, I'd probably post something.

If I just got busy or tired of DU, I'd probably just stop posting.

I'm not sure anyone would notice either way, though. :cry:
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Jokerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:12 AM
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20. Hypothetically? I'd taunt the moderators until I got banned.
Just to see how far I could get.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:13 AM
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21. Now, my dear ohiosmith......
You know I'd have a big old thread on it.......

I just cannot keep my mouth shut.........

But, I am not ever going to do that.......

This place has my heart!

:bounce: :bounce:
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:16 AM
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22. My life is complete. CaliforniaPeggy called me "my dear".
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:25 AM
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25. I'd just go away, but until that time, I'll be in the camp of those that
think it's fine to post a parting message.
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deucemagnet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:31 AM
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26. I'd probably just leave.
I've been here since 2004 under a different screen name, and I have taken extended breaks before. In the end, it's just an internet message board. It's a very well-run message board populated with smart, witty like-minded folds, but just a message board.
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:37 AM
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28. In all honesty, I'd probably post a thread
hoping people would try to talk me into staying. I'm really very needy.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:39 AM
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31. we appreciate your honesty
of course we'd talk you into staying. :)
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hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:38 AM
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29. I'd take over the DU server and post rude pictures of my enemies.
Take that, you RAT BASTARDS! All of you!



No, no, just kidding. :blush:
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mwdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:42 AM
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32. I'd just go away.
I rarely post these days, anyway.
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:20 PM
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38. I'd repeatedly post flamebait; throw fits; and get banned.
:P

Just kidding. Actually, I'd just leave. I'd probably come back eventually, but why cause a huge fuss over it.

Big threads are solicitations for 1) pleas for the person to stay or 2) insults that justify the person's decision to leave.

But, in reality, those threads don't mean much or change anything about DU.
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madinmaryland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:34 PM
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39. This is the best leaving thread I have seen . . . .
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:35 PM
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43. Yes, that was a classic.
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hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:52 PM
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48. I was gonna post that...
But I didn't have it bookmarked.

I always wondered what it was all about, but I was afraid to speculate because Walt has a shotgun.

:hide:

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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:54 PM
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49. There's only one thing to say
Butt head. :rofl:
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:42 PM
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52. I liked Walt Starr,too.
Since 6 of the most fabulous people I've corresponded with on DU have been Tombstoned, I'd follow them there...


I'd torch the DUJHS Cafeteria to the ground:rofl: :spray: :rofl:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:34 PM
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40. I'd just leave.
Not that anyone would notice anyhow.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:42 PM
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47. Are you nuts, my dear Midlo?
Everyone (and I do mean everyone).......would notice......

And a cry would go up to make you stay!

Don't you ever do that, OK?

Sheesh.........:eyes:

:loveya:

:hug:
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MiniMandaRuth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:35 PM
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42. Eh. I'd just say 'by'.
To a few people. Then just up and leave.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:40 PM
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46. I don't know
I guess it would depend.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:02 PM
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50. I'd post a thread and watch it sink.
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:04 PM
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51. I'd fake my own death
It would kind of be like seeing who is at your funeral. That would be cool.
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:43 PM
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53. I'd probably post some REAL nekkid pics to get TSed.
That would ensure I'd never come back. :P I'm not posting any REAL nekkid pics, so I'm staying. :)
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:50 PM
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59. I like your style.
:thumbsup:
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:51 PM
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60. I like yours too!
:hi:
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Anarcho-Socialist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 09:16 PM
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62. Awww...
n/t
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Katina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 02:01 PM
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54. I don't see the point of posting a thread
if you are leaving, just go. If you feel you need to PM some people first, then do that, but to post a whole thread seems somewhat overly dramatic & self-serving to me. Besides, if you then want to come back...you will look kind of silly. JMO.
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Ariana Celeste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:13 PM
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55. There's a couple of people I would PM
That's it though. I don't do theatre. :shrug:
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:14 PM
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56. I do not "do" goodbye posts.
If I leave a message board, I just leave. If I planned on leaving DU permanently, there are a few people I'd notify, but no public post about it.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:45 PM
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58. I would just go away, and nobody would notice anyhow.
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City Lights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:54 PM
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61. Just go away. eom
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TheFriendlyAnarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 09:19 PM
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63. I've left before, and I will again. If I ever do permanently, I'd prolly
make a thread just for show and to boost my confidence. Although, it's not like anyone here knows me anyway, lol :(
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