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Sun Sep-17-06 08:01 PM
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When you love someone........ |
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But you aren't lovers.........
Just what do you call them?
None of the normal words.....seem up to the task, IMHO........
So.....tell me......what do you call that person, whom you love so deeply?
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Edited on Sun Sep-17-06 08:09 PM by bigwillq
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I don't know my dear Peggy....obviously this is romantic love right?? but you haven't done the deed, correct???
I don't know. I've been in this situation a few times and usually this person was a friend so I continued to call them my friend.
I feel friend is a good word because in order for me to love someone, I would have to get to know them enough in order to love.
Of course, my feelings for the Rock, or Vin Diesel or 50 Cent is not love nor are they my friends. That is just LUST. Big difference.
:hi:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:08 PM
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You are NOT getting into the tender mood I intended!
Bad, bad, will! :spank: :spank:
:rofl: :rofl:
No fair altering your answer!
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:08 PM
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6. Did you catch my edit? |
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:11 PM
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And actually, I have been in this situation......
So, I was just wondering ...well, what the proper term would be.......
Friend seems somehow inadequate to me........
I do appreciate your revision, sweetie!
And your original answer made me laugh out loud!
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:15 PM
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11. I really can't think of a word |
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that fits this situation.
One of life's many mysteries. :)
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:07 PM
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2. I agree, Peggy... normal words are not up to the task. |
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But, having not given your question a lot of thought, I'm hoping someone else can help.:hi:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:13 PM
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10. My dear speedoo...... |
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So you're puzzled too....And that's cool!
Perhaps we will both be enriched by this thread, when it's done...:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:08 PM
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It's not perfect either but it conveys the sense of a deep connection more than 'friend'.
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:16 PM
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12. My dear Gormy Cuss........ |
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I can see how soulmate would work......
But somehow that implies one that you would be joined with......
To me, anyhow..........
But you're correct.....it does convey the deep connection more than the word friend.....
Thanks! :hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:08 PM
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Is it a romantic love? Or a friendship love?
Romance: Personally, I would probably refer to him as Love when speaking directly to him. When talking about him? Hmmmm good question. I still may say "my love".
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:21 PM
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13. My dear BarenakedLady......... |
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Well, really a mixture of the two.........
But more friendship than romantic......
I suspect you are correct for the 'romantic love'.......
My love wouldn't work for me.....
BTW...Welcome to DU!
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Sun Sep-17-06 09:36 PM
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30. That is what I call him. |
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I am not joined to him and never will be. But he is my Love.
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Mon Sep-18-06 01:13 AM
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57. My dear crim son......... |
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How well I understand........:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:08 PM
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7. I've had someone special for 43 years. Just JoAnne seems to |
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:12 PM
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9. Hmm. " JoAnne." I'll have to try that one. |
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:23 PM
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I like the way you put this.....Nothing else seemed to give her the dignity.
That's beautiful......Thank you......:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:28 PM
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Edited on Sun Sep-17-06 09:13 PM by In_Transit
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:24 PM
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'object of my affection'...too many syllables?
'crush' if it's unrequited
'suitor' if it is?
hmmm, fun to think about, anyway.
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:29 PM
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17. My dear idgiehkt........ |
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I considered all of these too......
None of them work for me........for different reasons......
It is fun to think about!
I suspect that different words work for different folks.........
Thanks for coming by!
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:38 PM
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18. Dear friend works for me... |
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:44 PM
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19. My dear GoddessOfGuinness........ |
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Yes, that'll work too.....
But I keep wishing there were something else....
Hence this thread!
Thanks, sweetie! :hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:54 PM
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23. Words have too many limitations... |
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The way you say a loved one's name is more effective as having a new label for them...
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:45 PM
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:50 PM
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I suppose that there are cases where this would be appropriate........
But if you're not family, then what?
It isn't encompassing enough, for me, at least........
But I do appreciate your coming by tonight! :hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:58 PM
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27. Not family, in love, not gettin' jiggy, hmm... |
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I am out of ideas. :(
Always glad to stop by, though! :) :hug:
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Mon Sep-18-06 12:44 AM
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55. There's more than one kind of family. |
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There's biological family and family of the spirit. Someone can certainly be one and not the other.
I have no problem calling people "love" and "beloved" and "my love" who I'm not having sex with, and THEY understand what I mean, though others might not.
I'm with you on wishing there was a better word.
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Mon Sep-18-06 12:56 AM
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56. My dear Withywindle........ |
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Indeed, there is more than one sort of family.....
Someone can indeed be beloved and not in a sexual relationship with you...
I wish there were a better word, too......Thanks! :hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:52 PM
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Oh, God, did I just say that out loud? Oh, god, I can't believe I said that out loud!
Oh, the shame!
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:55 PM
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25. Huh? What's Uncle Dave got to do with this? |
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My dear Rabrrrrrr........
Are you pulling my leg?
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Sun Sep-17-06 09:11 PM
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28. Oh... you said when you are NOT lovers. |
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:55 PM
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24. to me, they are my dearest friends... |
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Sun Sep-17-06 08:57 PM
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That sure is plain and simple.....you got it, sweetie!
Thanks!
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Sun Sep-17-06 09:20 PM
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29. Thats a hard question. |
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Because I have such warm feelings for so many here. Some I feel as Family, Some I feel as great friends ,Some I have crushes on..But All those that think of me as a friend I care about extremly. So hell I guess I am still at a loss for words. The word "friend" comes close but in some cases it falls short.
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:40 PM
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39. I know this is a hard question! |
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That's why I'm asking......
'Cause I sure as hell can't figure out the answer.....:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 11:06 PM
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54. HELLO MY SWEET JOANNE !!!1!1!!!1!! |
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77. Hello my sweet angel! |
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Sun Sep-17-06 09:59 PM
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31. But you are so vague & there are so many different ways to feel love |
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English is not a particularly helpful language, since it does not distinguish eros from agape, from maternal or paternal feeling, from brotherly or sisterly love, from platonic friendship ... Perhaps ordinary interactions communicate feeling well, regardless of whatever name is used?One can, after all, get someone a cup of coffee with courtesy or with friendship or ... or ... And all manner of affection is potentially expressible freely and spontaneously without crossing any uncrossable boundaries.
Some months ago I developed an attraction to a very pleasant young woman half my age with whom I get along well but who I am quite sure would be creeped out if I maintained anything other than a decently avuncular attitude towards her. Still, feelings are feelings: they make up an important part of our world, and it is better to live with them properly than to ignore them. So I was friendly with her and ever so slightly inappropriate: one day I complimented the brown-eyed girl on her pretty blue eyes, more than once, with genuine affect -- a complicated mix of warmth, gentle teasing, and distance. That worked well, and we get along nicely ...
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:44 PM
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41. My dear struggle4progress........ |
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Yes, English is a difficult language in these respects.........
And I sure do agree with you re: expression of feelings in appropriate ways.......
How good you can get along nicely with the young lady! I'm sure it brings pleasure to both of you....
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Sun Sep-17-06 11:01 PM
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51. Well, I often prefer to get along nicely with people ... |
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... though from time to time buying a shotgun and going after certain people (who shall remain nameless) does ever-so-briefly cross my mind.
What name do you use for those people who cause fleeting homicidal thoughts?
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:13 PM
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32. I call them by their names... |
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...usually their first names, sometimes by a generally accepted nickname...a couple of very special cases, by a name that I alone know... No--these aren't lovers, though one was once--briefly--and others, may be someday...I don't really care. But each name--each special name--is appropriate to our relationship, and has a history and resonance for me...as my name has for them...and does this make any sense whatsoever...?...:-)...
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:37 PM
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37. See... then you ENJOY saying their names. |
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:47 PM
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42. My dear Arkham House.... |
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Yes indeed, you are making sense........
Actually, I meant what word do you use to describe them to someone else?
I think your way of calling these folks is wonderful......A name appropriate to your relationship.......
How special that is.......:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:14 PM
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33. I call him H. He calls me H. |
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He's my best friend.
But since I moved out here, I am now ECH and he is now WCH.
(Both our surnames begin with the letter H.)
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That's clever......and I understand the other letters too....:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:15 PM
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34. Your love interest? Your platonic paramour? |
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I'm not sure. All I can say, however, is that being in that situation is undoubtedly difficult.
Also it would make a difference if you think that person shares your feelings. Then, I think, a "special friendship" develops. And I think that's an experience that everyone should have at some point.
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:50 PM
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45. My dear Writer........ |
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We have what I would call a "special friendship."
It is a terrific place to be........:hug:
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Dinner? Do you work together?
I'm confused
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:34 PM
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I would call him my best friend.
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." - Anon
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:56 PM
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46. My dear Whoa_Nelly......... |
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Mi corazon.........oh yes.....
That's beautiful........
Thank you.........:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:36 PM
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36. What would I call them? To whom? |
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Others? Or myself?
I'm just curious, as I personally don't feel the need to justify whatever feelings I have to anyone else, or what someone's role in my life is. They'd be able to tell by how I look or act, anyway.
And to myself - well, I'd know how I feel. :-)
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:58 PM
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Yes, I meant to say this in my original thread......
What would I call this person when describing him to someone else?
I'm not trying to justify myself.......
I never need to do that!
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If it was to a good friend...they'd probably already know about my feelings...I'd have most likely talked about the person in question enough.;)
If it was someone I didn't know well...that's when I wouldn't feel the need to explain. I'd probably use "my amour". They don't need to know whether I'm sleeping with someone or not. :hi:
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:38 PM
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Riiiiiiiight!
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:42 PM
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If you love somebody enough You'll follow wherever they go That's how I got to Memphis That's how I got to Memphis
(thanks to Tom T. Hall) I think you call them "love."
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Sun Sep-17-06 11:01 PM
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49. My dear leftofthedial........ |
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Nice lyrics.....thanks!
And love works too........:hug:
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Sun Sep-17-06 10:49 PM
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Petrarch's "Laura," for example.
Nietzche's Cosima for another. Well maybe the others are right about the stalking component here, and Cosima Wagner was a stalking victim. At least Friedrich got his syphillitic ass down to Turin and out of Cosima's face before he really lost it.
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Sun Sep-17-06 11:01 PM
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50. Oh my, swag, that is the story of my life! |
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I don't know how many a story, how many an essay, or a thesis over the last four to five years, didn't incorporate a man who I can safely call my "muse by love."
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Sun Sep-17-06 11:02 PM
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52. My dear swag......... |
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Muse...
Indeed, that is one I hadn't thought of........
And it is an excellent term......
Thank you.
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Mon Sep-18-06 01:29 AM
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58. My closest friends and I, |
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among ourselves, have used the term "friends for life." It's worked for us, in some cases for as long as 20 years. In conversations with third parties, though, "friend" is more than enough descriptor of those I love and by whom I'm loved. :shrug:
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Mon Sep-18-06 01:36 AM
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That is an excellent term!
It indicates the longevity of your friendship........
But the simple word friend seems inadequate to me.......
Nonetheless, I always appreciate your input.......:hug:
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60. When I'm described as a friend |
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by someone I love and respect, I consider it a high honor. I realize, though, that others' mileage may vary. :hug:
By the way, :yourock:
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Mon Sep-18-06 01:45 AM
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You make me smile.........Such a good friend you are......
You know how much I love and respect you, don't you.......
And BTW, and back atcha.......:yourock: too!
:loveya: :hug:
And I also suspect you know what this thread is all about, too.....;)
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For one person, the word came ready-made: brother. The word "brother" has so many good meanings besides "male sibling" and yes, he's my male sibling and everything else good that brother means.
For others, "friend" is a lovely word.
I'm assuming we're not speaking of unrequited love; for that I defer to Noel Coward: "Unrequited love's a bore."
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Mon Sep-18-06 10:43 AM
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Thanks for your input!
Brother is indeed a terrific word........and it has many meanings.....
A lot of folks here like the word friend.......and it will certainly work.
But for me, it sounds a little removed and not as warm as something I would prefer......
And no, this is not unrequited love.....
:hi:
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Mon Sep-18-06 06:03 AM
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I have one and she is my soul mate, but due to circumstances it is platonic.... at least for now....
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Mon Sep-18-06 10:45 AM
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71. My dear never cry wolf....... |
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Soul buddy, or soul mate....these are lovely!
Here's hoping your circumstances will change.......
So that not only your souls can be joined.........:hug:
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...is CaliforniaPeggy :loveya:
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Mon Sep-18-06 10:46 AM
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72. My dear Anarcho-Socialist........... |
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Thank you sweetie........:hug: :loveya:
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Mon Sep-18-06 07:11 AM
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65. i tend to use to generic words |
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to describe a friend, buddy, what have you.
kindred spirit is another such generic word, but one that has a specific meaning to me. persons whom i have a deep emotional (inexplicable) connection with. i have encountered kindred spirits here on DU. call it fate, destiny, kismet...imho, we were meant to 'know' one another.
regardless of labels, it is unconditional love.
hi, dearest Peggy. :hi: thank you for the thought provoking question. :hug:
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soul sister. :loveya: :hug:
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:loveya: soooo much!
off to skool now...talk to you soon :)
and thank you for your sweet message this weekend...Sniffa appreciated it very, very much :hug:
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Mon Sep-18-06 10:51 AM
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Wow, you have come very close to what I'm looking for.......
I feel a thrill of recognition as I read your post....
Kindred spirit is something I have felt many times here.......
I so agree with the feeling of kismet.......we were meant to know one another!
And the love is certainly unconditional.........all true love is...
And I thank you for your thought-provoking answer! :hug:
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emotional lovers?
my ex gf had lots of them.
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Mon Sep-18-06 10:53 AM
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75. My dear datasuspect....... |
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Emotional lover is certainly a good phrase.........
That explains the non-sexual aspect very well, I think......
Thanks......:hug:
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Mon Sep-18-06 10:47 AM
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73. I call those that I love .. who aren't 'lovers' |
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a GIFT.
treated with a thankful heart and warm embrace.
aA :hug:
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A gift!
This is a word I have used myself.......
And it is so perfect!
The thankful heart and warm embrace work too......
I always give thanks for this person's presence in my life......:hug:
Thank you so much.........
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Mon Sep-18-06 01:33 PM
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"Good friend" its pretty broad...but its one I use in the same circumstances
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Mon Sep-18-06 02:42 PM
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79. My dear petersond......... |
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Good friend...
It works too.........
Thanks!
:hi:
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:46 PM
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88. That is what I use too |
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I do like brother and sister also but sometimes people get confused and think we really share the same parent(s).
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:23 PM
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At least in my case, my best friend is a woman, and she's my adopted sister, one of the few family members you ACTUALLY can choose.
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:28 PM
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82. My dear Solon......... |
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That certainly works for your specific case.....
And very appropriate it is too!
Sounds as though she lucked out by getting adopted into your family.....:hug:
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Mon Sep-18-06 07:31 PM
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a Lesbian who comes from a Mormon family. Let's just say her parents would prefer otherwise.
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:24 PM
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Not "My Woman," or "My Girl."
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:31 PM
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83. My dear ContraBass Black..... |
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My Lady.....
That's beautiful......but it's only for people in love with ladies...
How about for those of us in love with men?
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:hi:
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Mon Sep-18-06 06:40 PM
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90. As it turned out, I wasn't in love with a lady either. |
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If my grandchildren ask me for a story about my youthful indiscretion, I'll tell them about her if I remember.
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:33 PM
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84. Peggy, I was divorced 15 years ago |
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A few other women in my life, but they recognized my love for my ex. It took me 12 years to get over it. Now we are friends.
We have 2 children, 20 and 18 and that kept us connected. She remarried and has an 8-yr old son who calls me "Uncle"
Things are fine now, but it's true 'Love Hurts'
I don't know how this relates to your story. But when ya Love, Ya Love
Mike
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:39 PM
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85. My dear qwertyMike........ |
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I hear you about love hurting.......it sure can!
I know about love.......I've been fortunate to have loved and been loved by a couple of terrific guys...
It has been quite an experience, and one that has majorly molded my life...
Would NOT have missed any of it for the world!
Thanks for coming by today........:hug:
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:45 PM
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Explain the situation more please Mik
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Mon Sep-18-06 05:51 PM
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89. Check your PM, if you would......... N/T |
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