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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:45 AM Original message |
A question from Tuesday's child: How do you make yourself fall out of love |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
1. Can I ask a question? Why aren't you with this person? nt |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:54 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. I'll never be thin enough, wild enough or younger than I am. |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:20 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. Hold on, I'm confused |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:06 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Obviously - so am I. |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:10 PM Response to Reply #14 |
43. Wow. |
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MnFats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 07:03 PM Response to Reply #14 |
86. if i may be so bold...as an aside.. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 03:33 AM Response to Reply #86 |
99. I'd rather not be just going through the motions. |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
2. Given my extremely limited experience |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:15 PM Response to Reply #2 |
15. I've tried that. |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:04 AM Response to Reply #15 |
56. I think you should do that |
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acmavm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
3. Eventually (after a long long time) it just becomes a bittersweet |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:54 PM Response to Reply #3 |
21. It had become a sweet memory until I looked him up. Damn cyber space! |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:45 AM Response to Reply #21 |
52. Well shit, |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:08 AM Response to Reply #52 |
58. BUMMER |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
4. I don't know that you can. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:06 PM Response to Reply #4 |
22. I've managed to fall out of love a few guys ... |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
5. I'm not sure that you can |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:24 PM Response to Reply #5 |
23. Some of the best friends in my life were my former lovers. |
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insane_cratic_gal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
6. You don't |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:27 PM Response to Reply #6 |
24. You've made plenty of sense. |
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speedoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
8. Deep down, you already know this Joani, I'm sure. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:33 PM Response to Reply #8 |
25. Thanks for your kind words and the hug. |
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speedoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:25 PM Response to Reply #25 |
45. Joani, I know exactly what you're talking about. |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
9. I have no idea |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:40 PM Response to Reply #9 |
27. I've managed to get over others but there is something about him. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
10. I wish I knew the secret |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:59 PM Response to Reply #10 |
29. I wish I could understand why it's so difficult for some of us. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:28 PM Response to Reply #29 |
37. Thanks! |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
11. Time. Will Power. And Patience. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:06 PM Response to Reply #11 |
32. So I need to become superwoman? |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
13. I managed it once...it sucked as badly as the pain |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 07:54 AM Response to Reply #13 |
54. A new sugarmuffin would help a great deal. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
16. .... |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:10 PM Response to Reply #16 |
34. Let's not break any hearts tonight! Girl's Night Out! |
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Stardust (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:21 AM Response to Reply #34 |
50. I LUV her!!! |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:32 AM Response to Reply #50 |
61. Wildhorses is a wonderful friend. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 11:11 AM Response to Reply #61 |
65. that jacuzzi was the shit-- |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 11:09 AM Response to Reply #50 |
64. who me?? |
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Stardust (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 03:15 PM Response to Reply #64 |
66. Actually, I was referring to the dancing girl -- but you're cool, too! |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 06:23 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. now that makes more sense--I was dazed and confused but |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
17. Don't try to ditch the love... |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. I do enjoy being with him. The time we're together is good for both of us. |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
18. intensive brain surgery |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:46 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. That may be my only option. |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 09:00 PM Response to Reply #20 |
48. or you could move to nevada |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:02 AM Response to Reply #48 |
55. I'll move there if the law is passed! |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
26. never say "no" to love... |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:50 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. I'm not the one saying "no". |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:01 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. hm, well, this one is different from before yes, and you may be right... |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 02:22 AM Response to Reply #31 |
73. This chick is takin' it on the road as soon as the trike is shipped! |
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Mrs.Matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:09 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Joani |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:15 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. Oh! Mrs.Matcom! |
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Mrs.Matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:27 PM Response to Reply #35 |
46. Ah, no! |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:15 AM Response to Reply #46 |
59. I was shocked to see so many DUers here giving me support. |
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Mrs.Matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 07:38 PM Response to Reply #59 |
68. You are more |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:00 PM Response to Original message |
30. A cliff and a faulty parachute? |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:25 AM Response to Reply #30 |
60. I'll have lots of distractions this winter. |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
36. You don't. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:59 AM Response to Reply #36 |
62. I fully understand what you're saying. |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
38. I don't think you can. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 05:57 PM Response to Reply #38 |
80. Thanks, reyd reid reed. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
39. I don't know. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:05 PM Response to Reply #39 |
81. Time has a way of making the old pains of loss fade. |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
40. Find someone else, quickly. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:13 PM Response to Reply #40 |
82. Find someone else, quickly & have a fling to wipe out all old memories! |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
41. reorient your thinking |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:14 PM Response to Reply #41 |
83. oy |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
42. Trust Me. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:18 PM Response to Reply #42 |
84. It already has. |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
44. I started a thread simliar to this a few weeks ago - here is that one: |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:00 AM Response to Reply #44 |
87. I think I was traveling back then. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
47. I don't know how to do it, Joani. But find a way |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:04 AM Response to Reply #47 |
88. Transitioning into a friendship isn't always easy. |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
49. Everyone's different, but |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:11 AM Response to Reply #49 |
90. Have I told you how much I love your awesome red toy? |
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sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
51. Well when one has been rejected as many times as I have |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:14 AM Response to Reply #51 |
91. I got tired of that. |
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DarkmoonIkonoklast (829 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 03:50 AM Response to Original message |
53. Love truly is a bitch on steroids... especially when it goes bad. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:17 AM Response to Reply #53 |
92. I wasn't aware of your disappointment or your pain, DarkmoonIkonoklast. |
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Chemical Bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:08 AM Response to Original message |
57. Love yourself. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 02:05 AM Response to Reply #57 |
72. I do! I do! |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
63. Why would I want to fall out of love - why would I want to stop loving? |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 01:42 AM Response to Reply #63 |
71. Ah (((((((((merh))))))))) |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 07:49 PM Response to Reply #71 |
79. distance is all you can try |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
69. Here's my advice to you, after reading this thread |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 01:29 AM Response to Reply #69 |
70. mr. weaver |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 09:53 AM Response to Reply #70 |
78. He's sending you mixed signals, and thereby toying with your emotions. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:45 AM Response to Reply #78 |
94. That's exactly what he's been doing and I been buying into it. |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 03:25 AM Response to Original message |
74. Joan, this sounds way too complicated for a DU thread, |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:57 AM Response to Reply #74 |
95. It was. |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 03:41 AM Response to Original message |
75. How do you fall out of love |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 03:03 AM Response to Reply #75 |
96. Going back isn't as easy as going forward. |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 05:10 AM Response to Original message |
76. self-delete posted 2x |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 05:10 AM Response to Original message |
77. Oy, this could be my mother talking... |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 03:14 AM Response to Reply #77 |
97. Oh No! |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
85. Get married. |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 03:16 AM Response to Reply #85 |
98. NFW |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:11 AM Response to Original message |
89. Still working on it myself, so hang on a minute . . . |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-21-06 02:39 AM Response to Reply #89 |
93. It's going to be okay. |
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