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rhiannon55 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:06 PM
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My niece went missing three years ago today
and her mother (my sister) has a broken heart. :cry:

Here are some links:

http://www.geocities.com/findangieyarnell/AngiesNew.pdf

http://www.truckingboards.com/trucking/upload/missing-adults/1441-missing-woman-michelle-angela-yarnell-mo-10-25-03-a.html

http://www.theyaremissed.org/ncma/gallery/ncmaprofile_all.php?A200401058S

Angie disappeared under very suspicious circumstances, but because she was an adult, and was not a rich blond cheerleader, my sister has had a hard time getting publicity. But she isn't giving up. Somebody knows something. If only that somebody would come forward.

What I've learned from this is that ambiguous loss is the worst kind of loss because there is never a chance for closure, and the not knowing eats you alive.

I'm posting this on the third anniversary of Angie's disappearance to honor her and my dear sister, and to honor everyone with missing loved ones.

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:08 PM
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1. Wow, that's really sad.
I'm sorry to hear of this grim anniversary. I wish you and your sister's family peace and comfort. As a mother myself, I can only imagine how horrible this must be for your sister. :hug:
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:10 PM
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2. Oh God, rhiannon, I can't begin to imagine...
My thoughts go with you, your sister and all of Angie's loved ones...that you some day find her, or closure. I'll be praying that she's returned to you. :hug: :cry:
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:11 PM
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3. I am so sorry.
I looked at the pictures and information, but I don't recognize her. However, I will forward this information on to others.
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:14 PM
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4. Every parents nightmare
Your sister must go through Hell everyday not knowing. :hug:
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:16 PM
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5. I'm sorry
I hope your sister can find peace. :hug:
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ps1074 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:16 PM
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6. I am very sorry
I can't imagine the pain. :hug:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:18 PM
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7. I can't even begin to imagine what this is like.
I'm so sorry for Angie and her family.
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:19 PM
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8. Wow...
:hug: I took a look at her pictures and description, and I don't know her. But I can certainly pass on the information and ask other people. :) That's got to be horrible for your sister, you, and your family and friends. :hug: I'm really sorry.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:20 PM
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9. How tragic for all!
:hug:

Has anyone contacted the Doe Network to get her file up? There are a lot of sleuths there that give personal time to make connections regarding missing persons.
http://www.doenetwork.org/

Hoping someday all the efforts to find Angie do bring her back hime. :grouphug:
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rhiannon55 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:51 AM
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26. Yes, she's listed there
My sister has posted info in a lot of places. Finding Angie is almost all she thinks about these days. Thanks so much for your concern.
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:25 PM
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10. Prayers for you and your family.
This must be a horrible date for you. May there be peace. :hug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:37 PM
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11. so sorry that you have to honor another anniversary with the
ambiguity of not knowing. Prayers that you and your family find peace and comfort and that Angie is somewhere trying to get back to you all.

Did not recognize her but, will forward this on to everyone on my e-mail list.

you have my deepest sympathy,

wildhorses
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 01:40 PM
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12. I'm very sorry for what your family is going through.
:(
I can't imagine...

I wish your sister some peace :hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 02:32 PM
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13. It is painful just to read your post.
I am so very sorry. Ambiguous loss is indeed the worst, and loss of a child... I can't even imagine.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 02:38 PM
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14. I'm so sorry...
My prayers go out to you and your family... and to all those with missing loved ones.

Bless you for posting this. :pals:
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 05:24 PM
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15. I am so sorry.
:hug:
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rhiannon55 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 11:46 PM
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16. Thanks to everyone
Thanks for all your love and concern. And thanks for forwarding this information anywhere you think it might do some good.

My sister Marianne thanks you, too. You guys are the best!

:hug: :grouphug: :hug:

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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 11:53 PM
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17. Did they ever try to contact America's Most Wanted?
Edited on Wed Oct-25-06 11:57 PM by KC2
Just an idea (though, probably a long shot). I'll pray and hope they turn up some info on her soon. You are right about it being the worst...the not knowing...John Walsh talks about it all the time.

Hugs for you and your family...:hug: :grouphug: :hug:
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rhiannon55 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:37 AM
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24. Marianne has been trying to get John Walsh's attention
for a long time, but hasn't been successful. She WAS on the Montel Williams show about a year ago, but nothing came of it.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 04:58 AM
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28. Well, hell. Why not DU it??
Screw it, we'll make it a Lounge Project. Put up the email and everyone in the lounge can flood America's Most Wanted /John Walsh with emails.
Yes/No?
Crazy?
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 08:44 AM
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30. Sounds good...let me know what date and I'll help kick it...ok?
:hi:
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 11:56 PM
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18. Sending all my hopes
and hugs... :hug::hug::hug:

I hope you learn something soon. She has such a sweet face... :cry:
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mad-mommy Donating Member (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-25-06 11:59 PM
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19. sorry....
It is kind and thoughtful of you to honor her, your sister, and people in the same situation.
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:12 AM
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20. This is so very sad.
In your words, she's not a rich, blond, cheerleader, but I think she's super cute. I'm not a religious person, so I'll just think a positive thought for her. :grouphug:
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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:21 AM
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21. I'm very sorry.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:28 AM
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22. I wish I knew what to say
I'm sure you all must be very devastated :hug:
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Zorra Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:35 AM
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23. Just found out today that my missing brother died 4 1/2 years ago.
Still don't have any details. I've been a total mess all day.

Gotta get some sleep.
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rhiannon55 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:41 AM
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25. Oh, I am so sorry
damn damn damn :cry: :hug:
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 12:19 PM
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32. I'm so sorry, Zorra
That's terrible. :hug:
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 01:09 AM
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27. There aren't any words....Just let your sister know that people care....
Your heart must break daily. I can't imagine the pain.
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1gobluedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 08:40 AM
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29. I am so very sorry
My best childhood friend has been missing and presumed dead for sixteen years. I understand the agony your sister is living. Not a day goes by that I don't think of Paige and what could have happened to her. It'll be seventeen years in May and the feeling never goes away completely.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 10:17 AM
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31. I'm so sorry
How incredibly sad.

:hug:
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mariannesong Donating Member (1 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 06:52 PM
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33. My missing daughter
Hi,I am Rhiannon's sister,Angie's mother. I am so grateful for all the interest and compassion that you have given to our tragic situation. Yesterday did mark the 3rd year since she went missing. It was a hard,awful day until all you lovely people brightened my spirits.Thank you. Marianne
www.Geocities.Com/FindAngieYarnell
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 06:59 PM
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34. Welcome to DU.
I'm so sorry for what you and your family have been through...and continue to go through.
I pray for the day when she is returned to you. :hug: :grouphug:
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rhiannon55 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 08:24 PM
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36. Hi mariannesong
my bestest bestest sister/friend. Welcome to DU. Isn't this a great place? I've been posting here for several months and have discovered a lovely community of smart funny caring people. And there are so many of them (of us!) all over the country and abroad. You can show Angie's picture to a lot of people this way and increase the odds of finding her. And, you can make some cool new friends and help take our country back from those evil people. I'm so glad you're here.

:loveya: Rhiannon

P.S. Your post made me cry. You are the strongest person I know. :hug:
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Downtown Hound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 07:42 PM
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35. Oh man, how awful
I'm so sorry. Here's to hoping that there is closure to this one day.
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pinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 09:47 PM
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37. Kick. Hope you get some answers rhiannon55. Not knowing must be
hard for you all.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 10:31 PM
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38. Ow! I'm so sorry.
I hope someday this has a happier ending ...
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-26-06 11:45 PM
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39. How awful not to know
May you get the answers you're looking for soon.

:hug:
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judaspriestess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-27-06 12:37 AM
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40. You mentioned Montel
did he put you in contact with Sylvia Browne?
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