Girls/women: what is with grinding your bums into men's fronts?

[HEyHEY]

Women always do this on the dance floor. They get some guy to dance behind them and move his hips along with theirs. It's like they think it's just harmless dancing... When the guy is really thinking "Yeah, I got my wang in this girls behind!"
What gives?

[Starbucks Anarchist]

1. And how come they never do it to me?

:hide: :popcorn:

[HEyHEY]

2. That's the thing... they ALWAYS DO

I'm trying to be faithful here!

[Whoa_Nelly]

5. I never do that!

After all, I am a professional!

[Starbucks Anarchist]

6. Indeed!

:hi:

[idgiehkt]

8. does that mean

you never do it for free?

LOL, sorry, couldn't resist. :hi:

[Whoa_Nelly]

11. Whoa_Nelly Shakes it up and lays it down! Film at 11!

[idgiehkt]

12. You go girl!!!

:rofl:

[WCGreen]

28. You are hot.....

[idgiehkt]

3. does it offend the guy?

In no way do I think these women think it's "harmless dancing". :eyes:

I guess they are thinking "I got my behind up against this guy's wang..." :shrug:

[HEyHEY]

4. What DOES offend the guy is....

When girls do that..... then turn them down when they get asked out or something.

[idgiehkt]

7. oh.

I see.

[some guy]

13. silly

think it through... the girl is trying to get a better estimate of the guy's good bits. If he measures up, she will say "yes" about getting asked out. If he doesn't, she declines. :silly:

How was that so difficult for you? :P

:hi:

[idgiehkt]

19. roflmao

god I'm laughing my ass off.

who knew my butt had that kind of talent, lol. And here I am just sitting on it.

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

15. I've had women do it to me.

:shrug:

As long as they're attractive, it's cool with me.

[yvr girl]

24. totally agree

they want to see if they can get a rise out of the guy.

[Bassic]

35. Well, that's usually not very hard to achieve.

No pun intended.

[begin_within]

9. It's only because their thongs have slipped up too high, and they're adjusting.

[idgiehkt]

10. god, so it's like

they are trying to use him for a toothpick or something...

[Nikia]

14. I think that it is because

Popular culture tells women that it is good to be sexy and get attention from men. It is powerful and prestigous to have men want you.
While some women want to sleep with multiple random strangers, many women don't.
This is why her perceived intentions don't match her actual intentions.

[marzipanni]

21. I agree. Young women might learn that a little subtlety never hurts,

but then to this child of the sexual revolution, the way kids dance now is not just suggestive, it leaves nothing to the imagination. Slow dancing is much sexier, maybe that's why ballroom dancing's popularity is increasing. (huh... I sound like my dad, who would be 104, so was rawther Victorian!)

[ScreamingMeemie]

16. I don't believe I've ever ground my bum anywhere

outside of my own home. :hi:

[HEyHEY]

18. Well you probably know those who have!

[TimeChaser]

17. Ugh, I hate the grind dancing

x(

[crim son]

20. I think it's your wild imagination.

Last weekend some dude became friendly and when I rebuffed his married self, he told me he knew I was interested because I'd been "pressing (my) tits up against (him)." WTF? First, I have minimal tits. Second, I most certainly was not pressing them anywhere near the man, despite his sweet brown eyes, double-pierced ears and charming wit. Wishful thinking HEyHey, that's what it is.

[HEyHEY]

22. Bah!

We're talking obviously direct bum rubbing

[crim son]

23. Well, then, I'd say

They are interested in a physiological response. Possibly nothing more. It's all about feeling empowered (while at the same time making an ass of yourself).

[pitohui]

25. you know exactly what gives

we don't think it's just harmless dancing any more than you do

next question?

[Porcupine]

26. Hey!!! STFU afore they wise up and stop already! n/t

.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

27. Seems pretty damned rude, if you ask me...

not to mention sleazy.

[Vidar]

29. I prefer ballroom & tango, but I certainly haven't complained.

[fizzgig]

30. the real question is

what is with you men grinding your fronts on my bum? i'm just trying to dance, leave me alone

unless you can dance then i'm game :evilgrin:

[WritingIsMyReligion]

31. I dunno, but I think it's dumb as hell.

/sexual puritan nazi

:P

[TheFriendlyAnarchist]

33. You damn sexual puritan nazi!

:P :hide:

[TheFriendlyAnarchist]

32. Lol "Yeah, I got my wang in this girls behind!"

:rofl: while it may be true, just having someone say it is hilarious :rofl:

[xchrom]

34. i hope no girl ever grinds her behind into your front

ever again.

:silly:

[BarenakedLady]

36. It wasn't me!

:evilgrin:

[Divameow77]

37. Because all women are

good for nothing teases :evilgrin:

[NewJeffCT]

38. That's not true

I personally like having a woman grind her bum into my, um, wang. I've found it to be very useful.

[Divameow77]

39. "useful"

:rofl:

[NewJeffCT]

40. Well, I used to have this bad habit

I used to have this bad habit of turning into jello if a woman ever did something like that to me with her bum... (maybe that's really why women do it in the first place?)

but, now that I'm old & tired, I don't have to worry about it anymore.

[dpbrown]

41. I could use a demo...

...whoops. Did I say that out loud?

:rofl:

[supernova]

42. The only way I'd do that

is 1) I knew it would be welcome 2)I'd be very, very, very, very, very drunk.

[NewJeffCT]

43. Trust me on this

Unless the guy has a very possessive and/or jealous wife / girlfriend hanging around, most guys will happily "endure" a woman's bum as described in the original post.