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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:08 PM Original message |
Should I tell off my angry alcoholic college "friends"? If so, how? |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
1. Some confrontations are not worth having |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'd just avoid them until one of them asks why... |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
3. You sound self-righteous in the post. |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:36 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. You sound insulting in your post. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:48 PM Response to Reply #9 |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:16 PM Response to Reply #12 |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. Where, exactly, did I blame you for their behavior? |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 05:59 PM Response to Reply #18 |
25. Suggesting I haven't tried to help them, when in reality it's all I've done so far. |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
4. Only say something if they ask. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:20 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. janesez is teh r0xx0r!!11! |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:27 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. No, YOU are! |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
5. I know that feling. |
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WilliamPitt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
8. How about |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:41 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Thanks Will, that's a good idea, but I tried that already... |
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SlavesandBulldozers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:59 PM Response to Reply #11 |
23. "and continue with their destructive lifestyles." |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 06:05 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Nope, I'm trying not to join in self-destruction. |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 08:29 PM Response to Reply #26 |
34. Tell them that you are a recovering alcoholic and that you feel that |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 10:40 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. That would be lying - I've never been an alcoholic. |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:41 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. No, I am not saying you ARE one, just use it as an excuse. |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 07:27 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. My father was an alcoholic - that's probably where defensiveness comes from. |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 08:57 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. It's good that you see that and don't want to go down the same |
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WilliamPitt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:04 PM Response to Reply #11 |
41. You're only responsible for yourself |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
10. I wouldn't say anything...just walk away. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:20 PM Response to Reply #10 |
43. This is the best advice, IMO |
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CabalPowered (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
13. Develop a liver problem ASAP |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
14. So ... you're angry about the excessive drinking of college students... |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:43 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. BLASPHEMY! All drunks are evil! |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 06:06 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. Are you suggesting I said anything remotely close to that? |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 08:28 PM Response to Reply #27 |
33. No |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
15. I've found that telling people off usually isn't very satisfiying... |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
17. There are non-drunk idiots as Ass-U? Wow. Things have changed since I went there. |
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Porcupine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
19. Schedule yourself elsewhere. Then be busy. |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
21. If leaving the friendships is about your needs, keep it that way. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
22. I wouldn't confront |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
24. No need to tell them off, just find other friends |
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ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
28. It;'s not worth the anxiety and ill feelings |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
29. First of all..don't make judgements. No one can determine whether or not |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
30. Just stop talking to them. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 08:17 PM Response to Original message |
31. how old are you? |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 08:26 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. 23, and close to graduation |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 08:32 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. then be chill |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-13-06 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
37. Just walk away. The fuck you care what they think? |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
38. Tell 'em the truth.... |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
39. Telling them off won't do anything. |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
42. Telling them off will just make you look like an asshole. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
46. #1, Cut. #2, Push. #3, Don't cave. |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
47. You know what .....you will eventually drift away from them |
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