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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:51 AM Original message |
Please help! I need opinions! I am so mad I could punch a hole in my wall! |
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evlbstrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
1. Oh, shit. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
2. Tough choice. I'll just say this. Bullies depend on the fear of their victims |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:58 AM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Bullies also seem to seek out kids who have some kind of limitation |
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txindy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:11 PM Response to Reply #8 |
102. They also seek out the ones of whom they're jealous, too. |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:02 AM Response to Reply #2 |
11. I gave him my permission to throw a punch. However, |
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angry_chuck (346 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:10 AM Response to Reply #11 |
20. the guy who |
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lcordero2 (832 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:19 AM Response to Reply #11 |
27. I was in his shoes before |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:35 AM Response to Reply #27 |
143. I haven't seen this kid in a while, but he is 6' and plays on our |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:21 AM Response to Reply #11 |
31. OK. My 2 cents: |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 04:11 AM Response to Reply #31 |
62. Doesn't work that way anymore. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 08:21 PM Response to Reply #62 |
136. Frankly, I think Zero Tolerance is a good thing. |
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TheMadMonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 03:21 AM Response to Reply #11 |
58. Teach your kid to "stop punch" |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:38 PM Response to Reply #58 |
125. LOL! |
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Cruzan (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 03:43 AM Response to Reply #11 |
59. Another vote for having your son beat up the other kid |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 04:05 AM Response to Reply #11 |
61. Even if he loses the fight, the bullying may end. |
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Frank Cannon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 07:03 AM Response to Reply #61 |
65. Yep. Bullies look for the easiest targets. |
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JacksonWest (561 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:54 PM Response to Reply #61 |
112. I agree. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 09:07 AM Response to Reply #11 |
69. Frankly, I included that option thinking it was obviously the wrong choice. |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:45 AM Response to Reply #69 |
144. I don't think the parents would do anything. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 10:31 AM Response to Reply #11 |
75. The school needs to end it. |
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donsu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:23 PM Response to Reply #75 |
105. agree - if the principal won't do anything tell them you will go to |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:55 PM Response to Reply #11 |
113. Tell your kid top use a bat |
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gully (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
3. Pay another kid $5 bucks to kick the bullies ass. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:56 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. I remember that movie! nt |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 10:58 AM Response to Reply #4 |
79. My Bodyguard.... a classic n/t |
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FogerRox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:00 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I got beat up and picked on untill one day in 4th grade |
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gully (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:29 AM Response to Reply #9 |
42. That works. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
5. I'd ask friends if there's anyone at the district office that they know. |
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DesEtoiles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
6. Be at the bully's house when he gets home, talking to his mom |
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gully (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
7. In all seriousness. My friend had a situation like this and he called the |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:02 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. Some sort of "anonymous tip" - even if faux - does seem promising.... |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:04 AM Response to Reply #7 |
14. This is what my gut is telling me to do, but my son was |
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magellan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:25 AM Response to Reply #14 |
36. Please don't go to the principal |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:00 PM Response to Reply #36 |
99. Disagree BIGTIME |
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magellan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:07 AM Response to Reply #99 |
140. Where were you when I was a little girl? |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:22 PM Response to Reply #36 |
122. That's precisely what worked for my SO. |
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gully (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:27 AM Response to Reply #14 |
39. Well, your son needn't know. |
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txindy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:26 PM Response to Reply #14 |
107. I can understand that, although I do like the suggestion about the principal. |
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Porcupine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:19 AM Response to Reply #7 |
28. I have done this with both my daughters and the problem's stopped. |
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dalaigh lllama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:20 AM Response to Reply #7 |
29. Good advice |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
10. That happened to my brother when we were kids. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:03 AM Response to Original message |
13. I think you should report it to the school, and I'll tell you why. |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:11 AM Response to Reply #13 |
21. I have heard from a friend who knows a police officer in our town |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:14 AM Response to Reply #21 |
24. Holy cow! Then I think you should definitely say something. |
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EnviroBat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:39 PM Response to Reply #13 |
94. It's a shame it's not legal to kick the crap out of a kid. |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:52 AM Response to Reply #94 |
146. This crap is making me want to do stupid things like |
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flying_monkeys (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:05 AM Response to Original message |
15. Call the school. |
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flying_monkeys (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:11 AM Response to Reply #15 |
22. In fact, send me the info |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:26 AM Response to Reply #15 |
37. That only works if you think the school will do something |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:08 AM Response to Original message |
16. oh my, that's a tough one |
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pk_du (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:08 AM Response to Original message |
17. I'd try both the Parents and the Principal...either in paralllel or |
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angry_chuck (346 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
18. the administration path seems |
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Tatiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
19. #1) Speak to the playground supervisor personally. |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:11 AM Response to Original message |
23. Take your child with you and report it together. |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:18 AM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Make a police complaint for assault. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:49 AM Response to Reply #26 |
47. we have had a middle schooler in trouble for assault in our small town. |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 09:54 AM Response to Reply #26 |
72. *REGARDLESS* of whether the school does anything, press charges. |
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NanceGreggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
25. Just a suggestion that worked for me ... |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:22 AM Response to Reply #25 |
32. That works too. |
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NanceGreggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:29 AM Response to Reply #32 |
41. It's not an across-the-board truism ... |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:08 AM Response to Reply #25 |
52. Read my post #21 - This kid has pulled a knife on his mother! |
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NanceGreggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:48 AM Response to Reply #52 |
56. Gee, that seems like a vital piece of information ... |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:42 PM Response to Reply #52 |
95. Assault is a crime |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:59 PM Response to Reply #52 |
131. borlis you should absolutely NOT approach this bully on your own |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 08:12 AM Response to Reply #25 |
67. You're right. I had to do the same thing to a former friend of my daughter's |
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femmocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:31 PM Response to Reply #25 |
124. Do not confront the child. Please see my post below regarding parents |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:20 AM Response to Original message |
30. Get together with other parents |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:23 AM Response to Original message |
33. Let me ask you THIS: |
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AJ9000 (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:23 AM Response to Original message |
34. May I ask what state this is in? |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:59 AM Response to Reply #34 |
49. Illinois. A highly rated school district in a middle-upper middle |
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AJ9000 (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:05 AM Response to Reply #49 |
51. You could do that in prep to threaten or actually sue the parents. But you'd |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:24 AM Response to Original message |
35. "Popular" doesn't mean "liked" in middle school |
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midnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
38. Hi borlis, such a tough issue with the stuff that we are powerless |
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mikehiggins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
40. self deleted for silliness |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
43. Bullies suck... |
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in_cog_ni_to (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:31 AM Response to Original message |
44. Go to the principal and he/she can handle this discreetly so as not to |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:38 AM Response to Original message |
45. From today's Dear Abby |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:00 AM Response to Reply #45 |
80. Dear Abby's advice was cute in the 50's and 60's |
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CAcyclist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:57 PM Response to Reply #80 |
130. Dear Abby |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:47 PM Response to Reply #45 |
96. dear 11 and frustrated, |
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lumpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:41 AM Response to Original message |
46. If your son's father is available, perhaps he |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:00 AM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Mr borlis just got home and doesn't think we should do anything. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:26 AM Response to Reply #50 |
54. Respectfully, hon...you have got to be fucking kidding me. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 04:24 AM Response to Reply #50 |
63. I'm curious to know why not. |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:06 PM Response to Reply #50 |
100. With all due respect--it may be why your son is being a target |
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AJ9000 (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:53 AM Response to Original message |
48. I just saw this thread about bullying also on DU |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:12 AM Response to Original message |
53. I did think of one thing I am going to do. |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:50 PM Response to Reply #53 |
97. F- - - that SH-_! |
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Trajan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:45 AM Response to Original message |
55. You son has been assaulted and battered .... |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 03:11 AM Response to Original message |
57. This won't be a popular opinion but... |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 04:03 AM Response to Original message |
60. Take your son... |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
64. Have your child take some self defense classes |
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meisje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
66. One word "Shiv" |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
68. Tough one... |
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symbolman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 09:27 AM Response to Original message |
70. I know this will sound inappropriate |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
71. I believe the correct answer is to file a criminal complaint. |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 09:59 AM Response to Original message |
73. Your kid should walk up to the bully and hit him as hard as he can |
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yellowdogmi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:54 PM Response to Reply #73 |
98. I say go for the nuts. |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:10 PM Response to Reply #98 |
101. Too girly. A short, straight shot to the nose would end the whole thing. |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
74. I can share from my own experience..... |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 10:39 AM Response to Reply #74 |
77. Yep. |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:46 AM Response to Reply #77 |
88. Not only that..... |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
76. You know your kid better than any of us. |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
78. Mr Borlis is right IMHO |
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Sabriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
81. borlis, you need to document, document, document |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
82. Tell the freeper parent to have his kid leave you alone. |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
83. weLL.. |
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Hawkeye-X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:20 PM Response to Reply #83 |
89. hey sniffa! |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:35 PM Response to Reply #89 |
92. hiya |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
84. We had a similar situation when my son was in 8th grade. |
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meldroc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
85. Speaking as the formerly bullied, I recommend two strategies. |
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Nikki Stone1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
86. If this bully pulled a knife on his mother, then he is no ordinary bully |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:42 AM Response to Original message |
87. Some promises are made to be broken. ("don't tell I want to kill |
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Beelzebud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
90. Pay an older kid to beat the shit out of the bully. :D |
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cmd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
91. Equip him with a gym whistle |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
93. What wouuld you do if it happened to you? |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
103. How about something completely different: Contact the parents |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
104. I'd go to the principal, if I felt I could trust the principal to be |
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ellie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
106. Is your son an only child? |
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City Lights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:15 PM Response to Reply #106 |
121. No, he's the oldest of three boys. |
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benEzra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
108. I wasn't bullied badly in school, but I had a cousin (bigger than me) |
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Ksec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
109. You can step in and help or |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
110. Several choices |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:54 PM Response to Original message |
111. Don't talk to the principal |
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AJ9000 (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 01:57 PM Response to Original message |
114. Here is a response from a friend of mine who is very wise in these matters. |
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Nay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
115. My sympathies, Borlis. My son was in a similar situation and |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
116. The bully has a knife, has threatened his mother--I think you know you have to do something. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
117. You want my advice? |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
118. A good resource from Peter Yarrow... please look into this... |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
119. My son went through the same thing in sixth grade. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
120. Fucking mace the bully. It's a legal defense against battery. |
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femmocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
123. Advice from a MS teacher.... |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:43 PM Response to Reply #123 |
126. Agree. If the son does not have a viable plan then parents responsibility |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:47 PM Response to Original message |
127. Put your son in martial arts, preferably not that Tae Kwon Do shit. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:49 PM Response to Original message |
128. this is sexual assault, file criminal charges |
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AJ9000 (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 07:45 PM Response to Reply #128 |
133. You bring up some very interesting points Pit. One of the best posts here. |
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achtung_circus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
129. I won't comment on the advisability or otherwise |
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SlavesandBulldozers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
132. i don't recommend your son fight him. notice that this kid is not fighting your son either. |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
134. Borlis, I'm sorry you are dealing with this... I have a different take on what to do |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
135. Bullying is absolutely UNACCEPTABLE. |
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City Lights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
137. Don't punch a wall! Throw a fork! |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:58 AM Response to Reply #137 |
147. I do have superior fork throwing skills! |
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AJ9000 (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
138. More input from a friend/father: |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-14-06 11:24 PM Response to Original message |
139. You may not like this, but you asked. Your son has to beat the bully so badly |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:29 AM Response to Reply #139 |
141. The bully is the biggest kid in 8th grade,at least 6' |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:48 AM Response to Reply #141 |
145. Put your kid in the martial arts, seriously. |
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AJ9000 (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 01:49 AM Response to Reply #141 |
148. OK, your son is out-matched physically. Fighting the bully is out |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-15-06 12:31 AM Response to Original message |
142. 8th grade is fucked up. |
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