Du'ers in relationships in which you dont live with your partners...

[La Lioness Priyanka]

how much time do you spend with them? 2-3 nights a week? 6 nights? you dont stay over...

what is your usual frequency of seeing your partner?

if you are doing the long distance thing: how often do you see your SO?

[AngryAmish]

1. 3-4 days a week

It depends. She has to go out after work for work a lot. Those days I just go to the corner bar with my buddies and goof off. I don't want to hang around her house without her there.

[Divameow77]

2. My boyfriend and I

see each other maybe twice during the week and usually spend the weekends together, until about Sunday afternoon. I have 2 boys that are with their dad every other weekend so that's nice "grown-up" time. We will be moving to Orlando together in February, then I guess we'll be together every day :-)

[SlavesandBulldozers]

12. cool more people for the Orlando meetup wuhoo!

last time it was poorly attended. putting it lightly.

[JVS]

3. You have offended the honor of the lounge by implying that we are a...

bunch of fornicating cohabitors!

[Gormy Cuss]

4. No, I'd say she offended the honor of the lounge by implying that

some of us aren't fornicating cohabitors.}(

[La Lioness Priyanka]

5. i spend 6 nights a week with her...

We would spend all 7 together if it werent for the cats/dog...

[Omphaloskepsis]

6. 1 to 3 nights per week.

She is in Portland and I live in Eugene. About 120 miles. I don't drive, so I take the bus about one time per week to visit. I do pay part of the rent for our shithole in Portland. I have two places of residence.

[Samurai_Writer]

7. Weekends only for the most part

My boyfriend lives 50 miles and 1 1/2 hours away from me. So one of us usually comes over to the other's house on Friday night and stays until Sunday. Once in a while I might go over there during the week and spend the night, then drive in to work the next day (which totally sucks, by the way). I'm thinking of getting a job in Denver and moving closer to him, so I can see him more often.

[kwassa]

8. We technically weren't living together ....

(old relationship) but being together 6 nights a week really qualifies.

it does leave each a respite if it is necessary, having separate places.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

11. its also a sense of security to have your own place...

i am very hesitant about moving in with someone i am dating.

[Rabrrrrrr]

9. about 2 weeks a year.

Sad.

But, that's the way it is, and how it will be probably for a couple more years.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

13. your partner is in japan, right?

which country will you end up in?

[Rabrrrrrr]

14. Hopefully I end up in Japan!

If not there, then second choice is back to Hawaii, third choice back to NYC.

[Kat45]

10. Unfortunately, only twice a week.

He's a chef, who works over 50 hours a week, including all weekends. I only get to see him on his two days off, weekdays of course. Once I finally get a job, it will be even more difficult.

[idgiehkt]

15. with my ex and I it was around 2 or 3 nights a week

sometimes more...we lived about 5 miles from each other and never really lived together the whole time we dated, about 3 and a half years. It was hard on our pets, though, and I regret that part, but we couldn't live together because one of the things I have to have is a substance free house and she couldn't/wouldn't ever make that sacrifice.

I haven't lived with a lover in ten years. At this point I don't know if I could.

[Guava Jelly]

16. I would look at quality over quantity

I live with my girlfriend.
Yet we spend very little time together.
Yes we are both at home right now..She is on the phone yaking to friends.
And I am here answering this post.
So whats better?