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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:20 AM
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Sis being wheeled into surgery right now--she needs your best, DU
This is the sister who fell off the ladder back in May... 7 months today to be exact. She has not walked since.

They put her leg and ankle back together on the day of the accident, but a massive bone infection prevented any healing in the leg (and doctor refused to acknowledge that there was indeed any infection). For a while there, her options sucked. There was talk of her keeping the limb below the knee but not having anything work down there, or amputating below the knee and having a prosthetic that offered more mobility. (I called those two options "sucks" and "sucks more" and you can pick which one is which depending on what you think the worse scenario is.)

8 weeks ago they found a doctor who is pretty sure he can put everything back together in working order. The VA (she is retired Coast Guard) doesn't want to pay for it, but the hospital has decided that they will value retired servicemen more than our government does. She need not worry about the cost.

6 weeks ago they removed all hardware and started treating the infection.

Today they are putting hardware back in to put all the bones and joints in the proper place. She will wear an external fixator for a while. The next surgery will add bone grafts and artificial materials to create working joints for her.

Whatever good thoughts, vibes, prayers, karma (let me tell you, this sis deserves all the good karma there is) you have to offer will be greatly appreciated.

I'd light a candle, but they frown on that here at work.



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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:25 AM
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1. You've got all mine
:hug:


Please keep us updated.


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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:28 AM
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2. Ouch
She's got my prayers. :hug:
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:36 AM
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3. Best of luck to your sister
she deserves it

:hug:
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Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:42 AM
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4. Hugs and good thoughts for your sister, Miss Millie.
:hug:
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:43 AM
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5. Sending good thoughts to your sister.
I will light some incense and wish her healing and wellness.

My thoughts are with you all. :hug:
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:44 AM
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6. all good healing vibes heading your way!
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:44 AM
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7. healing wishes and prayers for your sister
and all good energies for the surgeon and staff. :grouphug:

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war on errorism Donating Member (37 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:46 AM
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8. positive vibes heading her way...
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:47 AM
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9. Sending her good thoughts
I've been following her story through this whole ordeal. Wishing her all the best. And you too. :hug:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:49 AM
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10. She's in my thoughts
of course :hug:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:53 AM
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11. prayers and best wishes ...
Prayers for the Dr's too .. I hope for a great outcome.

aA
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 10:57 AM
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12. My best vibes and thoughts for your sister, MissMille...
:hug: :pals: I sure hope this works! :D
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 11:00 AM
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13. Sending prayers and good vibes...
:hug:
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 11:12 AM
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14. Good vibes forthcoming!
To you and your sis!

:hug:
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 11:13 AM
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15. Sending good thoughts your way...
:hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 11:37 AM
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16. MissMillie, I will light a candle for you.
It sounds like your sister has been through so much. Poor thing.

Lighting it now.
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 11:41 AM
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17. She has mine.
Along with wishes for a speedy recovery.

You're a good sister to worry so.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 01:20 PM
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18. Sending her lots of good vibes, MissMillie
I wish her success in her surgery, and a speedy recovery. :grouphug:
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 01:22 PM
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19. I hope things go well...:)
Nothing but positive waves from me :hug:
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 01:27 PM
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20. hope things go well for her, MissM
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 01:31 PM
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21. Good Thoughts!
coming your sister's way!


:hug:
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onecent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 02:22 PM
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22. My prayers and best wishes for your sister's speedy recovery.
This is such a scarey time.

Hang in there!
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 02:25 PM
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23. I shall send my best!
Good luck to your sister.
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InternalDialogue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 02:27 PM
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24. All my best thoughts to your sister, MissMillie.
:hug:
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 02:28 PM
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25. eyow and best of luck toher
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 02:50 PM
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26. Lighting a candle for a Sister Vet.
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Brewman_Jax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 02:51 PM
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27. Good thoughts to you
from me and the cat.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 02:58 PM
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28. Vibes.
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Shakespeare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 03:12 PM
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29. Positive thoughts for your sister, and one recommendation:
After she's recovered from her current ordeal, please have her watch VERY closely for any signs of arthritis or related joint problems. My sister developed severe rheumatoid arthritis about six months after having a bone infection; nobody knows what causes RA, but we do know it's an auto-immune disorder, and appears to be triggered by something (such as a bone infection).

Don't want to scare you, and hopefully nothing like that will happen, but it's best caught early if she does develop symptoms.
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 03:15 PM
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30. Sounds traumatic, but much more positive than your first post on it
I remember when you first described the choice. Glad to see something more hopeful was offered. Hope it all goes well for both of you.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 03:21 PM
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31. Update: doctor gives a thumbs-up
Things did not go exactly as the surgeon had planned but what changes he had to make are irrelevant to the prognosis.

He was hoping that one of her ankle bones would be a stabilizer for what work needed to be done in the ankle, but it was just too small. This means that her ankle will be in a fixator as well as her leg.

Again, this doesn't affect her prognosis. Doctor still thinks he can put this all back together and that it will all work at or close to 100% when she heals.

Sis made a smart choice in having spinal anesthesia before being put under. She will awake from surgery numb from the waist down. She will have her morphine pump as the spinal wears off.

Thank you all for all your support. You guys are the best!
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 07:20 PM
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37. Good news
Hope she mends well and doesn't have any complications
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 08:05 PM
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39. Glad to hear that it went reasonably well.
Here's to a good recovery.:toast:
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 08:19 PM
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40. I'll keep your sister in my thoughts as she recovers.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 03:22 PM
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32. {{{VIBES}}}
Wishing all the best to your sister.
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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 03:26 PM
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33. Best wishes and prayers
for a speedy recovery.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

:hug:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 03:32 PM
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34. Good vibes coming right up...


and hugs... :hug: :hug: :hug:
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 05:05 PM
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35. KICK for the update
and to thank everyone again!

:kick:
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 07:10 PM
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36. Ouch!
I'm sending good thoughts her way!
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-06-06 07:22 PM
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38. Best healing wishes and prayers for her.
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