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Fri Dec-08-06 02:43 PM
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Heard it from a friend who heard it from my ex... |
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I am shaking with anger and amazement. I didn't believe it was possible that a person could create such a web of lies to protect himself at the expense of everybody else. DAMN I'm glad he dumped me. I must be the worst freaking judge of character. :mad:
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:44 PM
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Look at all the characters here that care about you. So yes you must be the worst judge of character ever.
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:57 PM
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That would mean YOU guys are bad judges of character. But I am fond of so many of you... you can't all be lying mother******s. :evilgrin:
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:59 PM
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made me one of those at least three times no lie.
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:45 PM
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Ease up on yourself. If he hasn't been honest with anyone else, what makes you think you should have seen through him?
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:58 PM
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that I thought I perceptive, lol!
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:00 PM
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16. Oh I bet we've all been had at least once |
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"only man a girl can ever trust is her daddy"
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:02 PM
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I do know I can trust my father. Thanks, Ms. Pie. :hi:
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:46 PM
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3. That post put me in mind of that old REO Speedwagon song... |
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Oh believe it girl. I've seen the same thing; it will make you beyond anger, but truly it reflects more on that person than you.
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:53 PM
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4. I took my title from that song. |
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'Cause that's the way my mind works. The man is an incredibly manipulative jerk, true. I still think I should have recognized something in his loving, tearful eyes. He CRIED when he said he loved me, for gawd's sake. Come to think of it, he was a musician and a fine actor. I was probably just practice, lol.
I don't care beyond being incredulous.
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Fri Dec-08-06 09:30 PM
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You're much better off with a lawyer! :D
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:10 PM
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20. I was thinking the same thing.. |
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:57 PM
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6. I hope it's not that simple. |
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Single-hood is looking very good :)
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:59 PM
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:59 PM
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anything to keep this line moving...
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:09 PM
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19. Seems to apply to both genders sadly... |
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re my experience. Everything crim is saying could be applied to my dalliance with the most manipulative woman I've ever met...
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:34 PM
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:59 PM
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Plus, I've got you! :rofl:
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:38 PM
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:40 PM
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and hand over that papaya.
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:43 PM
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27. You'll have to pry it from my warm, massaging hands first! |
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:50 PM
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(lol)... no, come a little closer... closer... I don't think you can hear me... :evilgrin:
I'm going now to have a shower and I assure you that I will be thinking of that papaya.
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:55 PM
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Fri Dec-08-06 02:58 PM
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10. Alright, where is this bastard? Pitchforks!!!! Who's with me? |
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:01 PM
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17. I think he's in his own private hell. |
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He built it himself, then walled himself in forever. Eventually I will feel badly for him but not quite yet!
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:27 PM
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21. Whatever it is he's saying |
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he's a Dick. I hope people are smart enough to see through him. :hug:
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:38 PM
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this is old stuff that I've just learned about now. It seems the man believed it was very important that I believed his bullshite, so he told a mutual friend some of the same lies he told me, with, I guess, the assumption that the friend would report back to me and back him up. Our mutual friend is very discreet so he did not. Nowadays our mutual friend isn't mutual and dis my friend only because he feels used, too. It's strange stuff. People can behave very, very badly. Me too I guess.
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:42 PM
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26. Anyone CAN behave badly. |
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But the real measure of a person is DO you behave badly? You strike me as someone who almost always refrains from that kind of stuff. :hug:
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:46 PM
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28. Sigh. I don't even want to answer that. |
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I am a good person who did something terrible and my life will never be the same because of it. So yes, I have behaved badly.
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:48 PM
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I hope you can forgive yourself and rebuild. :(
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:51 PM
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But if you notice a self-deprecating tone to my posts, that's why. :(
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Fri Dec-08-06 09:19 PM
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40. A Self Depricating Tone? |
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nahhhhhhhhh
Remember
SCREW GUILT!!!!!
best thing someone told me this week.
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Fri Dec-08-06 04:46 PM
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When the lying reaches epic proportions like that--scary.
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Fri Dec-08-06 09:34 PM
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We'll get him!
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Hey, I know some people...
I'm series111!
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Fri Dec-08-06 03:49 PM
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What's going on sweetie?
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Fri Dec-08-06 04:55 PM
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35. Don't beat yourself up |
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Fri Dec-08-06 04:59 PM
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You are loved by MANY on DU.
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It's a pity vermin like that guy exist. :(
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Fri Dec-08-06 08:51 PM
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what a wuss- hiding behind lies so he can make himself look "better".
I don't know if you are a bad judge of character, you have just had someone stomp all over your heart. There may be something you need to figure out about how that happened, but I think your judgment will be found to be intact.
You deserve much much better in your life and I believe you will find it when the time is right!
:hug: :hug:
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Fri Dec-08-06 09:12 PM
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38. is this an ex-boyfriend or hubby? |
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unfortunately I never heard of any exes making up lies about me. So I still pine for them :cry: but on the plus side, I am either an excellent judge of character, or just out of the loop.
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Fri Dec-08-06 09:17 PM
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39. I hold you in high regard, crim son |
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How's that house sale going?
Am keeping you in my thoughts, all positive vibes. :hug:
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Fri Dec-08-06 09:23 PM
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41. Ah, yes..the back-stabbling... |
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..hugs to you... for having to deal with that crap... :hug: :hug:
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Fri Dec-08-06 09:27 PM
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42. I must be the luckiest SOB on the planet. I have NO contact with my older son's mother |
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partially because he won't have anything to do with her himself. He's been living with us since he was 5, and as far as he's concerned, Mrs R is his mother.
It was an ugly marriage and an even uglier divorce, but I count myself fortunate that after a couple of years I just did not have to deal with her at all anymore. For far too many people, the ugliness drags on for far too many years.
Sorry you have to live with that crap, crim son. Just TRY to let it go, though I know it's not easy.
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