Where the hell is everybody? It's quiet in here... or is it just me?

[crim son]

It's probably me. I'm having a drink because my STBE husband and I just had another freaking "amicable" discussion about the divorce. Why is he so amicable? Because he's jumping for joy, that's why!

Who else is up? Anybody?

[CaliforniaPeggy]

1. My dear crim son!

I'm definitely up, sweetie!

It's only 9:30pm here........early for me!

Good to see you tonight......:loveya: :hug:

[crim son]

2. Hiya Peggy!

I've been so busy, but I need my DU fix for the night. How have you been? All ready for the holidays?

[CaliforniaPeggy]

10. Ready for the holidays? Are you kidding me? LOL!

Actually, I'm in pretty good shape........

I decided not to put a tree up this year, and that's a big load off....

We will be celebrating the holiday away ........

I need to wrap presents, but that's about it till Christmas actually gets here.......

I get to talk to our mutual friend tomorrow, and I'm looking forward to that......;)

Life is good these days, sweetie!:loveya: :hug:

[crim son]

13. I'm glad you're in good spirits!

Me too, though there is no good reason for it. I have a bunch of present to wrap and still some to buy. But it hasn't snowed and that makes me happy! :loveya: :pals: :hug:

[Ptah]

3. I don't know.

I've been waiting here for a while now.

:shrug:

[crim son]

7. I guess people are busy because it's the holidays.

How are you, Ptah?

[Ptah]

15. Busy, the holidays, you know.

Mostly good, how are you?

[crim son]

18. Like you, very busy.

I have to get the house cleaned by tomorrow at 2:15 p.m. but all I've done thus far is dust the piano and bake a couple batches of cookies.

Happy Holidays, Ptah :hug:

[Ptah]

20. Thank you, kira - crim son

[crim son]

22. Oh Ptah!

You remember! :hug: Lovely tree :hug:

[Ptah]

23. Tree - 2006 starring my kids first ornaments

:hug:

[crim son]

27. Aw, cute. I can tell your tree hasn't fallen down!

When ours did this year, we hadn't put the kids' ornaments on it yet, and I will not put them on until I'm in my own house. '83 and '84, huh? They've grown up. Wow.

[RevolutionaryActs]

4. I am.

But I'm thinking of just crawling into bed, because I had a crappy day at work. x( Although posting on DU again was quite fun. :bounce:

[crim son]

6. You sleep tight.

I'm going to stay up for a while, because I need to. Glad to see you! :hug:

[RevolutionaryActs]

9. I think you should play with James on YouTube

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_type=search_videos&search_query=James%20Marsters&search_sort=video_date_uploaded&search_category=0


;) :rofl:


Goodnight! See you tomorrow. :hug:

[crim son]

11. Thank you, I think I will.

(with dignity and a racing heart, clicks to youtube) Goodnight, Rev :hug:

[SeattleGirl]

5. Having a cat fight in GD, I think.

:shrug:

[crim son]

8. I don't dare go in there.

What's the question of the day? Gay/Lesbian issues? Or Obama for President?

[SeattleGirl]

24. Cats and ferrets.

:eyes:

[crim son]

28. Oh my.

I think I have to check. I have been fortified with one and a half drinks. Gulp!

[SeattleGirl]

29. Drink the second half of the second one before you go.

:scared:

[crim son]

31. Chugging it now.

I've never been in there and not had my intelligence/integrity/understanding insulted. It takes fortitude. How is the weather, BTW, SeattleGirl?

[Robeson]

12. I'm here....

...:hi:

[crim son]

14. Hi Robeson!

I guess all the cool people are showing up late! :hi:

[JackBeck]

16. I'm still here. Barely. Peggy's got the time zone on her side.

I wish I could give you some words of wisdom on your situation, but I can't.

I grew up with divorce all around me (not my parents...but maybe they should have) so I can relate how difficult the situation must be for you right now.

Do your best to make sure you stay the adult in the whole situation. Not only will you look better, but you can walk away feeling better.

[crim son]

19. Thank you.

I went through some horrendous times this past spring/summer but I have come out of it and am being careful. You are so right; it matters.

It's 12:48 here. Time for bed soon. :hi:

[SPKrazy]

17. Jumping For Joy!

that's progress, right?

;)

[crim son]

21. He goes back and forth.

Long talk tonight about how we are like brother and sister, etc. He seems to think we are both too odd to find somebody else. He might be right and that's okay.

It sounds like you are finding the rhythm of this situation, yourself. What will amaze you is how the feelings evolve. Go with it.

[SPKrazy]

26. It's A Ride!

going with the flow

finding a path with heart as a friend told me today.

:pals:

Edit:

too odd to find somebody else?

that's odd

:rofl:

there's always James

[Starbucks Anarchist]

25. About to go to sleep.

But a big :hug: for you.

[crim son]

30. I'm so sad I missed you!

Sleep well, SA :hug: