There are good reasons why I shouldn't do a google search

[crim son]

on my ex. Can one of you tell me what it is? I know he appears, because I used to do it regularly. Lately, I've been holding tough.

Or: should I go to bed? Strong possiblity.

[KitchenWitch]

1. One good reason

Do not feed the troll in your head that allows him to live in your brain rent free, by being obsessed over him!

:hi:

[crim son]

3. He really only dwells there on weekends.

Every now and then, on Wednesday nights. But you're right and that's why I haven't done the search. Sigh. Thank you, KitchenWitch. Any attention I give to him will be of no consequence to him and hard on me. :hi:

[SPKrazy]

2. Meh, Google or Not To Google

it's up to you!

[crim son]

4. Of course.

If you were female, you'd tell me to think of him stark naked, inside a barrel stuck with nails, rolled down Main Street by the Royal Guard.

(no, that's not my thought; it's one of the Grimm Bros quaint notions)

[SPKrazy]

5. Are You Talking About

STBE or another Ex?

:shrug:

[crim son]

10. STBE is the husband.

The other ex is the man who helped design the divorce. I'm no saint, but I wouldn't have been with the ex if I weren't prepared to stay with him. For him I was a diversion.

[SPKrazy]

13. I Gotcha!

I'm a little slow on the uptake

no, don't do the google

he ain't worth it!

seriously

:hug:

[crim son]

14. I haven't.

I haven't for over two months. I still cry a few times a week, which means I'm not quite over it. Maybe I'm hoping I'll find an obituary!

[SPKrazy]

16. There You Go!

an obit

hang in there kiddo!

:P

[Robeson]

6. He ain't worth it....

...and I don't even know him.

[crim son]

7. Dupe, delete.

Darn these creaking limbs.

[crim son]

8. He really isn't.

You don't even have to know him. He breaks hearts for fun, or because he need to. I guess I don't need to know what he's up to, do I?

[SPKrazy]

9. I'm Seeing Double

and no you don't have to

sounds like you need to go to bed sweetie!

pleasant dreams

:hug:

[crim son]

11. It's the laptop.

I don't use a mouse and if my finger touches the wrong thing, I get two posts. It used to be much worse but I'm getting used to going mouse-free. :) Bedtime soon, though.

[SPKrazy]

12. I'm Happier On A Laptop

I mean computer

well,

never mind

:rofl: :rofl:

[crim son]

15. I know what you mean! n/t

[SPKrazy]

17. Yup!

a good laptop is hard to find!

[KitchenWitch]

18. ...

:spank::spank:

[crim son]

19. Yes, he never quits.

Remarkable, huh? :P

[SPKrazy]

21. Energizer Bunny?

batteries

oh never mind

:P

[crim son]

23. You make my point, SPK.

Don't we need to go to our respective beds soon?

[SPKrazy]

26. Respective Beds?

I'd get in trouble for what I'm thinking

oh well I'm already in trouble

apparently Matthew was upset because of the tension that is my fault

so, what the hey?

:evilgrin:

[crim son]

29. It's because I know you so well (lol) that I used the word

"respective". :)

[KitchenWitch]

30. But will you respect each other in the morning?

:evilgrin:

[crim son]

32. Absolutely!

His bed is in Arkansas, see :) Mine's in Maine. Yours is in... California? Is that right?

[KitchenWitch]

34. Yep - we got the mainland covered!

:rofl:

[crim son]

35. That's just me... deflecting the sexual tension. What there is of it.

Man, I'm going to bed. 'night, KitchenWitch! :hi:

[KitchenWitch]

38. Sweet and naughty dreams!

:evilgrin:

[SPKrazy]

41. I Think You Can Count On That!

she's thinking of James Marsters

:shrug:


oh well

hey KW!

:evilgrin:

[SPKrazy]

36. Oh I Would

can't speak for the other respective person here

:evilgrin:

[SPKrazy]

31. Thanks!

Glad someone is looking out for me tonight!

;)

[crim son]

33. Of course.

You are my friend!

[SPKrazy]

37. Yes That Is True

and I value that!

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

20. ---

please don't stop KW

that's better than I've had in years!

[KitchenWitch]

22. LOL

:spank::spank:

[SPKrazy]

24. You're So Good To Me KW

;-)

[KitchenWitch]

25. aw shucks!

I hope you have not had to drive around in the snow too much! THAT is one thing I do not miss about Minnesota winters.

[SPKrazy]

27. Drove About 4 blocks

to the gym ROFL

It was snowing to beat the band

it still is

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[KitchenWitch]

28. YIKES

At least you are in an area where folks are accustomed to stuff falling from the sky! Here in SoCal, when it rains, people are at a complete loss with what to do.

[AngusMacBangus]

39. Do it

[crim son]

40. Nope.

I thought about it and there are too many really good reasons not to. I appreciate your evil intervention, however :)

On edit: I see you have few posts. Welcome to DU! I hope you like it here :hug:

[AngusMacBangus]

42. Thanks

Ive lurked here awhile and figured Id jump on in......Evil intentions are my specialty!!!!