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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:50 PM Original message |
If someone asks you if you would |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. it is polite to ask, not to assume. |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
2. They are being courteous |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
16. exactly. |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:06 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. That is |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:29 PM Response to Reply #2 |
27. which is why proper waitstaff |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:31 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Ding Ding Ding |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:18 PM Response to Reply #27 |
37. We always said... |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
3. No.. wrong |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:54 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. What is not understood is that it is a |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
4. it's common courtesy |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:57 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. The assumption is that there will be a tip -- I agree |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:00 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. you mean actually *hand* her tip physically? |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. No -- to receive my change as many times |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:01 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. I ate out a lot in my previous traveling job. I never had to hunt |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:04 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. OK-- I'm ranting because I was given the old |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:07 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. And it probably would ruin mine, too. But that's not a widespread |
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SKKY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
6. I just avoid the uncomfortable situation all together and, if paying in cash, say... |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:59 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Re: my response #3 |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:33 PM Response to Reply #6 |
30. That's how I handle it... |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
7. I guess it would depend on the tone of the server when they said that. |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
15. My whole point is that |
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S n o w b a l l (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:14 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. I agree... |
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AlwaysQuestion (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
18. Give me my change, damn it!! |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 06:52 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. ... |
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AlwaysQuestion (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:07 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Yeah!!! |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:09 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. We are... |
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hijinx87 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
23. you just politely say, "no. and thank you". n/t |
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AlwaysQuestion (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:23 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. But that was not the question |
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hijinx87 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:28 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. no implication of impoliteness intended. |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:25 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. I'm guessing |
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hijinx87 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 07:31 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. no, no, no! |
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AlwaysQuestion (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:04 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Weelllllll, this may require a meeting, but in the meantime, |
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hijinx87 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:06 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. (I suddenly sense that I am in WAAY over my head) |
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AlwaysQuestion (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:10 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. Gee, communications are a bitch, no? |
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hijinx87 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:22 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. sometimes I think that the internet is the worst thing . . . |
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AlwaysQuestion (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:52 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Perhaps, but what an opportunity to................ |
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HCE SuiGeneris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:06 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. No worries... |
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Ms_Dem_Meanor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
34. Well... |
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AlwaysQuestion (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:11 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Good one!!! |
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Ms_Dem_Meanor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-21-06 08:32 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. Think about it. Wouldn't you do the same thing? |
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