My daughter is getting married this weekend

[ashling]

We are driving to Missouri on Friday for my daughter's wedding.
I am not going to say "ask me anything", but please say something so
I don't feel so conflicted. I've not had a chance to meet him yet. He is a sgt. in the army.

Oh, I do have one question: do you think it would be out of line for me to tell ...HIM ... that if he breaks her heart I will hunt him down and .....?

Maybe, "If you so much as think of going AWOL on my little girl, you will be begging for a court marshall before I'm through with you."

[BarenakedLady]

1. Congratulations!

I don't think you have to say all that, just give him the look. I'm sure you know the one. He will understand.

Have fun! Eat cake!

:hug:

[ashling]

2. Thanks, but

did I mention he has been married twice and has 2 kids?

[salin]

3. over time - how have you trusted your child's judgement?

A history of poor judgements vs generallty a good track record?

I am being nosey - but how long have they been involved - and why are you just meeting him at the wedding? (Guessing it was a quick courtship based on the scenario... that would make me nervous - esp if your daughter has had a track record of poor decision making.)

Hoping for your, and your daughter's sake that things work out well.

Best of luck.