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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:29 PM Original message |
Poll question: Married DU Women. Did you take his name? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
1. While I have no problem with people who choose to keep their own |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:33 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. I respect that 100%. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:39 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. That and my "real" last name isn't Grumpy. Heehee. |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
2. the obligatory comment by a lesbian :-) |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:36 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Wow, I almost never leave out the non-hetero perspective. |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:45 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. No worries. |
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afraid_of_the_dark (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:44 PM Response to Reply #2 |
11. By you taking her last name |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:21 PM Original message |
Yeah - "Venation" |
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soleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
3. well - for us artistic types, it's particularly hard |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:39 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. How about as a mom? |
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soleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:46 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. I feel okay, I'll have to ask sonofsoleft how he feels |
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afraid_of_the_dark (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
5. I was looking forward to changing my name... |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:38 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Cool. |
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Blue_Chill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
10. DU male has a question |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:49 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. I can't think of a single example... |
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Blue_Chill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:05 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. I think some sort of name sharing/taking is cool |
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afraid_of_the_dark (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:52 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. I've known men who have gotten really angry at their fiancees |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
12. I took his name |
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glarius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
14. This could result in a REALLY LONG name! |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:53 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Good point. |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
16. Hyphenated |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:53 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. I forgot to make hyphenated an option. |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
18. Voted other, took his name because it was easier to pronounce than mine |
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scarlet_owl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
22. I took his name because I already had a hyphenated name |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
23. names |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:02 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Hi Scout. |
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afraid_of_the_dark (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. I can understand your frustration |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
27. I took his |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:15 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. :snort: |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
28. For purely selfish reasons, I took his name. |
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sybylla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
30. Other - gladly took his name, now wish I hadn't |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:46 PM Response to Reply #30 |
43. Actually this is done in Spanish for both male and female. |
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Alenne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
31. I took his name and regret doing it |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
32. Yup, happy to do so... |
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flamingyouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
33. I kept my name |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
34. I kept my name |
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EdWesKer (24 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
35. This is a straw 'man'! |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:20 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. Not quite. |
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RhodaGrits (688 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:42 PM Response to Reply #35 |
42. Yes - father's name or husband's name |
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EdWesKer (24 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
36. This is a straw 'man'! |
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Snow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
37. Re the subjegation thing, and other cross-cultural issues... |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:21 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. Very interesting. Thanks. (nt) |
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OKNancy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
38. I voted other...kept my name professionally |
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areschild (952 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
41. The first time I got married |
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populistmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-04 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
44. I took his name |
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