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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:14 PM
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I asked for space, so she moved to Seattle
without even saying goodbye. Should I have taken it personally?

:shrug:

RL
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:20 PM
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1. Bwahahahahaha ! ! ! ! !
:rofl:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:30 PM
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6. ...
:9

Silly me...

RL
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:22 PM
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2. Damn, I wish mine would.
That'd be enough space for me. :P
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:30 PM
Response to Reply #2
5. ...
:rofl:

I hear ya!

RL
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:23 PM
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3. What about the kiddos?
I hope they're with you. :(
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:29 PM
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4. Oh, not THAT she... Someone more special...
I should be so lucky that the STBE left and left the kids with me. I would :bounce: for joy.

The kids are here with me right now. My 9 yr old is teaching my 6 yr old how to play Super Mario on the game cube. It's cute as hell!

The STBE isn't worth worrying over anymore. I've shed my last tear over her, written my last poem about it, lost my last night's sleep over it, and let it control me for the last time. I should have filed 2 years ago...

RL
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:32 PM
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7. I'm sorry about the other situation too.
:hug:

I saw your post and got worried about you. All I could think of was, "Damn, this guy's had enough heartbreak." I not glad things didn't work to your liking, but I am glad it wasn't what I thought it was. :pals:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:35 PM
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9. Well, I've stopped trying to judge if things are to my liking
or good or bad. I am a piss-poor judge of that.

and since every new beginning needs an ending first, I believe that only good things will be in store for me.

I have hope, that fatal, dangerous thing...

RL
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:39 PM
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13. If I am ever in Wisconsin
Edited on Tue Jul-10-07 07:40 PM by lost-in-nj
I will come say HI
actually my kid was there twice.... to the Pierce firetruck factory...
we bought one from you ....:P

btw i am bad.....and dangerous....

:silly:
might have to go buy me some cheese


:hi:

lost
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 10:18 PM
Response to Reply #13
17. Sounds good...
and cheese rules...

:crazy:

RL
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:34 PM
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8. I can say "hi" next time I'm there.
I head that way quite frequently, although I head east soon after landing. :)
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:37 PM
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10. Might not be a good idea
:rofl:

RL
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:38 PM
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11. That's why "hi" is in quotation marks.
:D
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:40 PM
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14. Just wave toward downtown. It's safer...
:D

RL
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:43 PM
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15. Will do.
If you don't see me after this Labor Day, though, call the cops. :D
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:39 PM
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12. don't know what it's about
but here are some hugs> :hug: :hug: :hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 07:44 PM
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16. Thanks
:hug:

Grieving is a weird process...

RL
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 10:20 PM
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18. be careful what you ask for --
:hug:

you get what you need, dude.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 10:42 PM
Response to Reply #18
19. Got that right...
:hug:

RL
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 10:43 PM
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20. Ouch
:(
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 11:03 PM
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21. An older wound, but it opens up occasionally
thanks...

RL
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yewberry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 11:09 PM
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22. I'm in Seattle. Want me to do something awful?
Seattle-style, I mean.

I could leave a strongly-worded note or instruct her barista to use whole milk instead of 2%. Maybe mix some garbage in with her recycling?

Yeah, that'd show her.

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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 07:33 AM
Response to Reply #22
25. You are evil...
proceed...

:hi:

RL
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Writer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-10-07 11:10 PM
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23. I'm not sure what this is, but I'm sorry to hear about it.
:hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 07:33 AM
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26. It's old and mostly gone, but crops up occasionally
so I let it out and it goes away again...

:hug:

RL
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:00 AM
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24. Why on earth would anyone move to Seattle,
when Oostburg is just down the road?? :loveya:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 07:34 AM
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27. Now that's what I said!
But Oostburg is too special to share with anyone but you...

:loveya:

RL
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 07:38 AM
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28. At this stage, NO. You shouldn't take it personally.
:hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 07:53 AM
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29. ...
:hug:

RL
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 08:07 AM
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30. Sometimes not only
do humans suck, but life sucks too.

Looks like you could use a few extra >>>>>>> :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 08:10 AM
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31. Can always use a few extra hugs...
:hug:

RL
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 08:10 AM
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32. no you should take it personally, but it probably hurts regardless
:hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 08:13 AM
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33. I did hurt, a lot, for a while...
Now it just comes up now and again. A song, a scent, some reminder. It gnaws a bit, then goes away.

Sometimes I think it's gone for good... sometimes...

But if I keep it to myself, it gnaws a lot longer and gets worse...

:hug:

RL
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somewhere_out_there Donating Member (48 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:21 AM
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34. Sounds to me like you should stop messing with more than one at a
time....seems like your track record sucks....but whatever, dude.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:50 AM
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37. Seems to me you have no clue
But nice to see my stalker is back. Say hi to J...

RL

Oh, and you should read the whole thread before commenting on things you obviously know NOTHING about...
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somewhere_out_there Donating Member (48 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:29 AM
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36. seems like a good read on the situation!!
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:51 AM
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38. How would you know?
Edited on Wed Jul-11-07 11:52 AM by RetroLounge
Does your crystal ball work all the way from Pittsburgh?

:shrug:

RL
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:53 AM
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39. As long as they are buying books
:hi:

RL

p.s. HMB?
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HughBeaumont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:58 AM
Response to Reply #39
42. High maintenance Bitc . . . er . . . Bulgarians.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:59 AM
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44. You say "High Maintenance" like it's a bad thing...
:D

RL
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HughBeaumont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:27 PM
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50. Because for ME, it always was.
Especially Fiance #2.

Holy. SHIT.

Nearly swore off of pale pseud0-goth brunettes for LIFE. It was that bad.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:29 PM
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51. "Nearly swore off of pale pseudo-goth brunettes for LIFE"
Holy Shit Dude! That IS bad...

:D

RL
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HughBeaumont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 02:40 PM
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52. You know how I NEED THEM!!!
I love my glasses-wearing, tat-speckled, bar-in-every-orifice, pale-skinned SuicideGirl types.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 06:59 PM
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53. Oh, Man, you know it...
:thumbsup:

RL
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:55 AM
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40. Sorry dude
That sucks.

:hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:59 AM
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43. Read upthread
It's an OLD wound, but something prompted something in my mind about it last night, and I just posted this thread as a way to get it off my mind.

thanks for the hug, anyhow. :hug:

I see my thread brought out my stalker again :rofl: - Maybe it's her, sleepless in Seattle?

RL
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:03 PM
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46. So I see...
Sorry about that.

:hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:04 PM
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47. Hugs are alway a good thing, regardless...
thanks

:hug:

:hi:

RL
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 11:57 AM
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41. Seattle
Coffee craving???????????? :hi:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:00 PM
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45. Could have been...
:D

:hi:

RL
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:06 PM
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48. No you shouldn't take it personally
but, personally or not, when something sucks, it sucks. I know the feeling all too well.

I'm sorry you're feeling blue.

:hug::hug:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-11-07 12:10 PM
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49. Thanks
It was a momentary thing. Not blue today.

:hug:

:loveya:

RL

p.s. Go CUBS!
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