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MsKandice01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 08:55 PM
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Absolute WORST combination...
PMS, combined with my third day of quitting smoking, combined with my son's piece of shit biological father who just sauntered into town out of the blue and is asking to spend some time with his son, combined with my husband who acts like he's in complete and total control of me AND my son who gives me absolutely no say in the matter equals one angry bitch. Yeah, that would be me.

I need a drink. Shit, I'm not supposed to be drinking either. Fuck!
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 08:57 PM
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1. Sweetie...
:hug:

Breathe, regroup, re-compose, deal. :hug:
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MsKandice01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 09:07 PM
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4. That's my problem right there..."deal"
I've never learned to do that. I'm an expert at running away and ignoring though. Dealing with my problems is another animal entirely. I could probably find a way to deal with this but that would require confrontation. Eek!!
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 09:09 PM
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5. That's a lesson I've had to learn over the years...
It's tough, but worth it. Once you can become confrontational about your needs, wants, and issues, things become much easier. :hug:
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 08:58 PM
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2. We all need an outlet
A 12 pack of beer and a pack of smokes....naw, don't go down that path. But if ya do, I won't judge ya :)

Sounds like a shitty situation. Wish I had some good advice for you :( Been in similar places myself in life, and no matter how you slice it, it sucks.
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MsKandice01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 09:16 PM
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6. Yep, exactly...
Either way it goes, someone is unhappy. That's what's bothering me about this whole thing. I hate being the cause of someone else's grief.

But hey, in about 5 minutes, it's going to be 4:20 somewhere and I was just brought some supplies. My night is looking up now.
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My Good Babushka Donating Member (966 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-24-07 08:13 AM
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12. I don't think you should advertise
that you're an illegal drug user.
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TheFriendlyAnarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-24-07 08:45 AM
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14. Meh, so many people here have before, I don't think its really going to be an issue
now advertising to be a grower might be a whole different thing.
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MsKandice01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-24-07 10:47 AM
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15. LOL...
It's obvious you haven't been around here long. LOL.

Besides, I live in California. My husband has a prescription and I'm listed as his "caregiver" so it's not illegal for either of us to possess it.
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 09:03 PM
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3. gah!!!
Do what I did when I quit drinking: take up model airplane building in small, enclosed spaces.

(oh wait, was I not supposed to do that?)

:hug:

It'll all be better very very soon
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MsKandice01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 09:17 PM
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7. LOL!
I've got a little bit of "herbal essence" right now though. It'll have to do.
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 09:40 PM
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8. ....
:rofl:

now THAT's a totally organic experience!
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-23-07 10:09 PM
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9. you want I should commit multiple ass-kickings, MsKandice?
just say the word my sweet
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-24-07 12:44 AM
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10. PMS is a legal defense of temporary insanity.
Just saying :hi:

Hope it's better tomorrow.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-24-07 08:00 AM
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11. It sounds like a bit of attitude is entirely appropriate.
Do what you think is right, and don't take shit from anyone. :hug:
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-24-07 08:39 AM
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13. Might I suggest an extra long, really hot bubble bath
I like to use the J&J Baby Wash in Lavendar scent. The scent is soothing to smell and since it's a baby wash it's not harsh on your naughty-bits.

I always have a couple of bottles stashed away in the closet, but you only need about 2-3 capfuls for a great bath!
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