I guess I can file this under...

[TOhioLiberal]

...Suspicions: Confirmed.

My son and his GF went this morning with STBE and Hootchie down to Wooster to pick up #2 son. They report that STBE was all touchy-feely with Hootchie on the trip. I know what that means: they're not just roomies. Of course I knew that, I was just fooling myself.

So I'm thinking; I must have some HUGE karmic debt I'm working off. How else can I explain getting sand kicked in my face again and again?

I leave this morass two week from tomorrow.

[lost-in-nj]

1. I had a whole

shitload of confirmations thrown at me
this week.....


gonna file at the end of the month......
the only reason I am waiting is we have a wedding to go to.
Soon to be son inlaws twin brother
I do not want anything to ruin their day
so I will play happy camper for a little while longer
Don't want to but I am tired of being humiliated.....

lost

[TOhioLiberal]

2. you know lost...

...I don't care what the nature of their relationship is, except for one point: STBE and I haven't had a physical relationship for 3 YEARS and i was faithful to him. Now I'm think what was the fucking point?

[SeattleGirl]

3. Oooooh, that is THE worst!

The absolute worst!

I'm in the sexless but faithful camp, and if I found out MrSG had been with a Hootchie of his own, I swear I'd want to rip his fucking head off his neck.

I'm so sorry, honey. :hug: :hug: :hug:

[TOhioLiberal]

4. Thanks SG...

...I'd rip his head off, but I'll let karma catch up with him; and I believe it will. Someday.

[TOhioLiberal]

5. kick...

:kick:

[Zookeeper]

6. Take a deep breath....

and hold on for two more weeks. Soon he will be HER problem!

I hope you will find freedom and happiness in your days ahead.

[TOhioLiberal]

8. Sounds like an idea...

(holding breath):hi:

[Gormy Cuss]

7. Even if it's not a surprise it still stinks.

Remember this when he feigns concern for you or asks you to do anything at his convenience. He's being a cad.

I'm sorry that your suspicions were confirmed, TOL.

[TOhioLiberal]

9. Yep...

...I'll wait until I'm gone to call him on it though. I'm guilting him into contributing to my escape fund.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

10. My dear TOhioLiberal...

Yeah, I suspected it too...

I'm really pissed at him...:nuke:

And have nothing but hugs and hopeful vibes for you, sweetie...:loveya: :hug: :loveya:

Hang on...two weeks will pass quickly!

:pals:

[TOhioLiberal]

11. I knew better than to ask...

...but ask I did. There was a little part of me that thought that they were 'just roomies' :eyes: i guess hope springs eternal.

For a man who hates to be lied to, he's certainly done a lot of it himself. :eyes:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

12. You asked because you wanted to KNOW...

And it is better to know, IMHO...

He's a hypocrite, and not worth your time...

I'm really sorry...:hug:

[TOhioLiberal]

15. I asked...

because I'm a masochist :rofl:

[SPKrazy]

13. No Karmic Debt

just him...


sorry friend...

:hug:

[TOhioLiberal]

14. Sometimes I wonder...

...because it seems like I get a handle on this mess and some new outrage comes along. :shrug:

[SPKrazy]

16. meh, i think

it is just that he's been more into his "roommate" for a while than you were aware of.