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Hey DU...it's been a few weeks since I've posted...been busy getting ready for school to start up.
Anyway, here's the situation:
My wife works at a bank, and about 2 months ago, opened a business account for a customer who was the manager for a local business. A week or so later, she politely waved hello to him at a local eatery...and he rolls his eyes, and blows her off...no big deal. Later that week, some employees, including the branch manager are discussing how rude this guy is after he blew up at another employee...and he happens to be dating the assistant manager. My wife adds the aforementioned story to the mix.
Here we are, 2 months later, and he comes in, and requests to the manager that he'd like to speak with my wife. He proceeds to go off on her about how he doesn't have to acknowledge her in public if he doesn't want to, and starts acting rather aggressive. At the end of his rant, he leans forward and says, "If you ever pull that kind of shit again, I'm going to...", and the branch manager comes back in the office, noticing the problem. Keep in mind, "tough guy" here is picking on my wife, who is 8 months pregnant...and needless to say, she was extremely upset.
My first reaction is to beat the shit out of him. However, I am a rational man, and I realize if I go to his work and confront him, although noble in my intentions, I will be effectively doing the same thing he did: confonting him on a non-business related issue at his work. So now, my wife is genuinely afraid that he's going to come back in, and start this kind of shit again, or make false complaints against her (again). Naturally, I want to pop this little man's bubble, and I think most of you would want the same retribution. But...again...I'm a rational man. I told her to file an HR complaint against the customer, in which case they'll document it, and probably close the business accounts...which will piss off the owner of that business. I also recommended she ask the DA about filing a protective order against him. Being a small town, she's afraid he'll see her and resume his rant, and possibly get violent. Obviously, his "little-man" syndrome would prevent him from confronting her when I'm around, but we work in different towns. To make matters more interesting, he attends company functions, and I've met him...and I'll probably run into him again.
I'm at a loss...I want to protect my family, but I don't want to be stupid about it.
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