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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:04 AM
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My co-worker just told me he had a full blood workup for STDs
and not to get Plan B insurance because it doesn't cover very much... I wasn't sure how to respond.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:06 AM
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1. Just say, "Okay, man. Thanks for the tip."
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:08 AM
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2. Yeah, thats probably better than
"your sex life sounds a lot more interesting than mine". Or "I probably won't be needing that anyway".
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:11 AM
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3. lol
I know the feeling.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:14 AM
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4. If I needed a full blood workup for STDs I'd be scared to death
and I'd be worried about more than the bill!
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:15 AM
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5. Another reason not to cheat.
:(

I hope the tests come back as all negatives.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 02:04 PM
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14. yes because ofcourse you have to cheat in order to get an STD,
:eyes:
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lady raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 04:41 PM
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16. I've had the full workup twice...
Both times due to cheating on the other person's part. Not fun.

Luckily, everything came out great.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:33 AM
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6. perhaps he didn't trust his partner
or perhaps he was embarking on a new relationship

or who the heck knows

maybe he was totally worried about his sex life and contacts

:shrug:

lots of possibilities, but it is odd that he told you that I think... unless he is going to give you the results and then ask you out :evilgrin:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:36 AM
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7. I had a guy bust out his lab results once
It's an odd but certainly practical way of making one's intentions known.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:39 AM
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8. I actually thought he was telling me he was gay.
If someone was going to ask me out that would be a really bad approach!
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 10:59 AM
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9. yeah it wouldn't be my approach
but hell who knows

:shrug:
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 11:28 AM
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10. Unless you want to meet someone with the same diseases
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 11:37 AM
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11. If I were dating again
And found myself in a new relationship that seemed like it might last a while, I would require that for both of us if we were considering not using condomns.
So many of our single friends get rid of the condomns without the STD tests, but I feel that it is a bad idea.
As another poster suggested just say "Thanks for the advice."
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 11:44 AM
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12. Bingo
Exactly what I have required in the two relationships I've had after being divorced.

Of course, I didn't broadcast it to my co-workers. :eyes:
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 02:01 PM
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13. how about "TMI" and a smile? EOM
,
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krispos42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-26-07 03:44 PM
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15. Been there, done that...
especially when I found out my ex got HIV. Claims it was from a needle stick from a job she claimed to used to have.

I probably should have had one as soon as I found about her cheating, but, hell, I'm just stupid sometimes.

And I am quite happy to say I am clean as a whistle! :woohoo:
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