Dear Heterosexuals: Have you ever had sex in Public?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

Including bathrooms, the great outdoors, cars etc?

I would really appreciate your honest feedback.

I know that all my heterosexual friends have had some form of public sex.

[eyepaddle]

1. In a car once.

'twas pretty isolated though!

[La Lioness Priyanka]

2. thanks

:hi:

[eyepaddle]

31. Sure thing,

Hey, her's a question--does a tent count as public or private?

At the risk of providing TMI I've never been "intimate" in a tent, but I know plenty of people who have! Is that public?

:hi:

[SarahB]

3. Isolated car.

Given myself and my history, I'm more bi than strait though.
Plus, I didn't have sex with someone of the same sex and then legislate against their rights to love/fuck/marry whomever they choose. It's hypocrisy that's wrong more than anything.

[Deep13]

4. No, but I saw a couple doing it in a big cemetery.

Good thing my wife brought the telephoto lens.

[RandomKoolzip]

5. Yup.

And it was a beautiful day.

[lost-in-nj]

6. I have

in a car, on a golf course, in my back yard...
oh yeah, the pool....

but not in a restaurant or in a club. Nothing that public.....


lost

[SPKrazy]

88. ...

do tell

:evilgrin:

[Pierre.Suave]

7. in the interests of honesty

I will have to reply YES to this question.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

8. thanks for the honesty you guys. i knew it wasnt just us deviants

[Radical Activist]

142. Hey now!

No orientation has a monopoly on deviancy! :)

[kernelfarmer]

9. A question

Am i to assume that public sex acts are limited only to heterosexual partners? Homosexual partners are not as open to sex in public?

BTW, I answered no. My wife is too much of a prude.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

10. no the reason is addressed only to heteros is because people only discuss

gay men having sex in public, whereas i know for a fact that many other people have sex in public.

sorry your wife is a prude :P

[kernelfarmer]

11. I understand

It hit me right after i posted..........

People only complain about gay men in public. The old double standard.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

12. welcome to du kernelfarmer!

[BarenakedLady]

13. I believe that would be yes

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tip: beaches are sandy. Sand gets everywhere.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

14. ---

:rofl: :yourock:

[montanto]

24. that's what the blanket/jacket, is for!!

[BarenakedLady]

26. Yes but

Sand still gets everywhere

tip #2: sand is irritating. :P

[montanto]

28. oh, i understand its a note of caution, but

you should always COME prepared!!

[montanto]

30. and i have an imagination.

i'm sorry to hear about the irritation. :9

[Inchworm]

50. ttiwwp

:evilgrin:

PS: yes I am a stalker :rofl:

[SPKrazy]

89. thats what water is for...

isn't it?


is it difficult to get the sand out?

do you need special tools to clean it out?

do you need help to get it out?

:evilgrin:

:shrug:

[mike_c]

15. depends on how you define "public..."

Outdoors, yes, many times and in many places. In a car, yes. In a workplace, yes. But in all instances we had pretty reasonable expectations of just as much privacy as we would in our own bedroom. In fact, the only place I've ever been discovered in the act by an uninvolved person was in the bedroom. I mean, knock dammit!

[La Lioness Priyanka]

16. those places are all illegal to have sex in, so yes they count.

[Schema Thing]

17. Yes, often.

but never with a stranger, and really, never with there being any real chance that anyone else would be aware of us.

I guess when I put it like that, it doesn't even sound public. But we were indeed in public spaces; just searched out truly isolated islands in public spaces.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

18. it counts.

[seemunkee]

19. In a National park

Remote area, well off the trails.

[fudge stripe cookays]

37. He he. Me too.

Isn't it a federal offense in a national park? Our was actually on a big rock jutting out over a lake, and we had just finished with a few minutes to spare when some folks came walking up.

:D

[La Lioness Priyanka]

39. think about the children!!

:P

[fudge stripe cookays]

45. Meh. I'm old and boring now.

That was in my nubile horndog days. :D

[Tyler Durden]

60. Hey I always say how cute you are.

Remember, old guys are horny too!

[fudge stripe cookays]

71. .

:blush: Aw.

[Tyler Durden]

74. Atta girl.

The DU'er who makes me think double entendre when I pass the Keebler aisle in Kroger.

[fudge stripe cookays]

80. {{{chortle}}}

:rofl:

[reprehensor]

129. Hey!

"Hey, bird dog get away from my quail
Hey, bird dog you’re on the wrong trail
Bird dog you better leave my lovey-dove alone
Hey, bird dog get away from my chick
Hey, bird dog you better get away quick
Bird dog you better find a chicken little of your own..."

Ha! Just kidding.

Ha.



Ha.


*

[fudge stripe cookays]

130. Honey, it's so nice to see you defending my honor.

Or something.

:eyes:












:loveya:

[LibraLiz1973]

20. Car sex. And I got caught

Talk about humiliating!!
Luckily it was 2 of our friends who found us

We didn't live that one down for years

[MorningGlow]

21. Yes, park and beach

Not as much fun as it sounds--both were highly uncomfortable! And of course I was paranoid about getting caught. Still, I'd do it again--all in the name of research, to find the most comfortable way of doing so, of course! :evilgrin:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

23. ---

:)

[Arkansas Granny]

22. Yes, but we made certain there was no "public" present at the time.

[montanto]

25. yes, many times,

on the beach, in cars, in the forrest, and not because i didn't have anywhere else to go.

[NewJeffCT]

27. A few times in movie theaters

and, once or twice in cars in fairly public places.

pretty close on an airplane before, but not actual intercourse.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

29. tee hee!

[NewJeffCT]

34. it was a while back

before I got married to my ex-wife. Though, some of it occurred with her before we got married.

[Norwood]

32. Question

Do you mean sex as in actual intercourse or just any type of sexual activity in public?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

33. anything that can be considered illegal in public spaces.

[NewJeffCT]

36. Then I guess

I should amend my answer above to say "yes" on a plane as well.

[ironflange]

35. In the woods, sort of

On the beach, sort of.

When we were young and frisky.

[Parche]

38. PEVs UNITE

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :hi:

[lost-in-nj]

43. Ha Ha

you can't turn a sex thread INTO a sex thread!!!!!


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:



pev lost reporting in......

[fudge stripe cookays]

40. Let's see....

State park, car outside a cemetery off of I-35 coming back from Lollapalooza #1, car outside bowling alley, tent camping in the Kananaskis in Canada.

Our Canadian friends laughed like crazy at the last one. reprehensor and I hadn't seen each other for four months, and the "call of the wild" was too tempting. Thus was the origin of: "If the tent is rockin, don't bother knockin."

[Rodanthe]

41. Yes. And I'm convinced that the police watch and wait until after you

are finished before approaching you. They are so polite that way. :blush:

[Inchworm]

42. Yes indeedy

Definately "including bathrooms, the great outdoors, cars etc." :P

:hi:

[Kali]

44. with an SO or an anonymous partner?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

46. what difference does it make? both are illegal, kids could walk in,

etc.

[Kali]

49. seems a little different, but I guess I don't really understand the point of the poll

I suspect most everybody (especially under a certain age) has had some form of public sex - I don't suspect a difference by orientation.

On the anonymous issue - there does seem to be more of a gender difference, and I suspect the trend would show higher with male homosexuals.

Again, I don't really understand the point of your poll. No offense, really. :)

[La Lioness Priyanka]

53. because the entire discussion of public sex involves only gay men

which is utter bs.

[Kali]

56. I'm sure I am stepping in poo here,

but truly - who is cruising for fast, anonymous sex? I bet mostly males and I suspect the numbers would show more homosexual encounters than straight.

As for public sex between "couples" yeah, I agree the idea than only gay men do it is BS.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

58. the thing is both are illegal. whether you do it w,your husband of 50 years

or i do it with a chick i just met.

[Elidor]

99. I didn't know there was a public dialog about bathroom sex

I had assumed long ago that most reasonable people find it disgusting. Of all the people I've ever caught fucking at the local park, both in the bathrooms and out in the woods, they have exclusively been gay men. I'd be just as pissed off about it if it was heteros, but they seem to have other places to go. I'm sure they do it, too, but it doesn't seem to be particularly prevalent. Mocking and criticizing a particular group of gays is not automatically gay-bashing. The fact is, there are a number of gay men who do some really sleazy shit. But if you ever stumble onto a seedy park or an airport restroom where a bunch of straight people are fucking in the bathroom stalls, let me know and I'll revise my thinking on this urgent problem of hetero-hypocrisy. In fact, the day it becomes un-PC to mock people who cruise bathrooms, I'll voluntarily check myself into the funny farm.

[Critters2]

115. As a fag-hag of long standing, I'm afraid I have to concur

and so would my gay male friends (and they are legion). This little bit of unpleasantness is an open secret among gay men. My friends joke about it, but are also appalled and embarassed by it. But none of them deny it happens, nor try to equate it to sex with a partner one knows. There's a distinct difference.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

47. My dear Pri...

Alas, no...

I was kissed on the beach, but that was all....:cry:

I married young, and my husband and I preferred the cozy privacy of our own bed...:blush:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

48. thats perfectly ok peggy. i dont like having sex in non-consenting public either.

however i knew that it wasnt just us homos who have public sex :hi:

[LibraLiz1973]

100. But you would do it in consenting public?

:evilgrin:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

117. yes, i have and i would

[LibraLiz1973]

138. lol

I hope you didn't take that as an insult or a jab

[La Lioness Priyanka]

140. not at all

:hi:

[Amaya]

51. sure

in the park, beach, & car

it wasn't really very public, tho... except for the beach. it was nighttime but a few people did walk by us :D

[billyskank]

52. What?

I've barely had it in private. :(

[Critters2]

114. Ditto that. nt

[Ms_Dem_Meanor]

54. I have done it in a car, at work, and in the stairwells while I was in school. n/t

[SPKrazy]

90. the stairwells in school?

:shrug:


:evilgrin:

[LibraLiz1973]

101. In the stairwells at school? Now that had to have been uncomfortable

[GenDem]

55. Yes, most certainly

Many, many times.

When I was younger we once had sex in a parking lot at the DMV in broad daylight. The tricky part was doing it discreetly -- which we did.

We also still live by a little poem that I learned long ago that goes like this --

Hooray, Hooray
The first of May
Outdoor f&#@ing
Starts today

We live by this credo, and have at least a couple of outdoor romps a year. It does make it easy when we have six acres and no houses behind us.

We also have had plenty of bathroom (not public, though) sex, along with every other room in the house, and a few liaisons in my in-laws bathroom before we were married.

[Sock Puppet]

57. Your own back yard probably doesn't count, does it?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

59. no

[SPKrazy]

61. Well

in a car many times...
on the side of a hill that overlooked a pool at a state park...

can't think of other places, but nothing like out in the middle of where people could easily see, just the above places where we could have been caught...

[Oeditpus Rex]

62. I lost my virginity in my '66 Chevy

Several times. :D

[Jokerman]

63. Are you kidding? I'd been having sex for two years before I did it in a bed!

As horny teenagers, cars, parks, and the great outdoors were the only places we could get together.

I was freshman in college before I had a chance to do it in a bed.

[DemSoccerMom]

64. The elevator in an art museum. n/t

[SPKrazy]

91. love in an elevator...

did you stop the elevator i assume, did the alarm go off?

:shrug:

[Greyskye]

65. oh yeah

cars in various places - including the college parking lot. Balcony, under coats on a chartered work bus at night, after hours at a Ren Faire, over my motorcycle on the top of a hill, park, in the hot pool enclosure at a hot springs (not in the pool - 115 deg. F!). Does my own garage with the garage door wide open and visible from the street count? The washing machine had a wicked spin cycle! :evilgrin:

edit - oh yeah, I forgot about that activity at the midnight movies my first year of college. Thanks Arlene! :thumbsup:

[gmoney]

66. No, but I've had plenty of models naked in public

...which for some reason, is ALSO illegal. Nearly got arrested once for it. :)

[mentalsolstice]

67. Yep, car, beach, boat

However, in reference to the Larry Craig situation, I never solicited strangers for sex in public. Nor was anyone forced to watch or listen.

[ruiner4u]

68. No...

But I did have sex in a Holiday Inn

[Beer Snob-50]

69. in a car with a police officer breaking it up

btw, anyone with one of those 4 hr erections that they warn about in those viagra commericals, this will end it.

[siouxsiecreamcheese]

83. i had that happen too..

not the viagra thing :o , but on a dirt road and all of a sudden I see a flashlight shine in the car and I start hyperventilating. The cop asked me if I was there against my will. It was really funny because I was almost completely clothed and my boyfriend was totally naked..

[Blue_Tires]

70. yes, i have

i've always gotten a turn-on from it

[NV Whino]

72. Yes

On a hillside in full view of Highway 101, although it was a ways a way.
On top of a water tank. Interrupted by a flock of sheep passing by.

And other places too numerous to mention. But never in a car.

[Joe Fields]

73. Yes.

[In_The_Wind]

75. Yes, I have. My favorite is the great outdoors.

:evilgrin:

[Mojambo]

76. In a car several times. In a public restroom once.

But it wasn't gross bathroom sex. It was with my steady.

[Bjornsdotter]

77. Why yes

...yes I have and I will again.

:toast:

[Zavulon]

78. Yep

Bathrooms (especially beach bathrooms), the great outdoors (beaches in particular), cars and - my personal favorite - on top of buildings.

[swag]

79. I guess law offices and stairwells count, right?

[fudge stripe cookays]

81. You...

have been a VERY NAUGHTY BOY! I like that in a man! :D

[siouxsiecreamcheese]

82. movie theatre, cemetary, train...

side of the road, open stairwell, open field, etc.. but all of these were with one person

[catmandu57]

84. Que John Prine In the back of the dirty book store

Parking was a competitive sport back in the day. We still have a favorite parking spot we visit every so often, it's cool because a major interstate hyway passes by not 100 yards away. Several times, several places, and sand does hurt, I've sworn off beaches forever more.

[Cabcere]

85. No...

...or at all, in fact. :hide: I did make out with my boyfriend on the beach once, though...but it was dark and we were pretty much the only people there. :shrug:

[IndianaJones]

86. I don't understand the problem people here have with saying it..

Situations like this are an opportunity to make gay jokes under the guise of "ridiculing the hypocrite".

[crim son]

87. Car. Beach. Forest. Steps of public buildings in Boston, Roofs

of public buildings in Boston. On the dock at the waterfront down here by my favorite hangout. Uh, workplace (I know, that's a sin). Etc. All of this over the span of many, many years. :)

[SPKrazy]

94. many many years...

:D

:rofl:

steps of public buildings of Boston... :evilgrin:

[crim son]

96. Well, there has been an increase in such events in recent weeks.

New man, warm weather... :evilgrin:

A boyfriend in Boston had a mission and I did my part helping to fulfill it!

[ThomCat]

98. Ooooh. You're not going to have any grounds to say anything

when your kids start getting adventerous.

You'll be standing there shaking your head, knowing where they inherited it from. :P

[Sen. Walter Sobchak]

92. why would anyone of any persuasion want to do it in a public bathroom?

This isn't a straight/gay issue, this is a fucking disgusting issue.

It is a fucking bathroom, people piss, shit and puke in there!

[Critters2]

116. Exactly. Bathrooms exist for a reason...

and it ain't sex!!

[Sen. Walter Sobchak]

118. Thank You

reading this website I was starting to wonder if I was the weirdo!

[Critters2]

119. Well, no guarantee I'm not a wierdo.

:)

[slutticus]

93. Is there any other way?

[Javaman]

95. Tennis court, dressing room, antique shop, picnic area, shall I go on?

:rofl:

[Redstone]

97. Of course! Even in our back yard in the middle of the day, among many others.

PS: Our back yard is NOT fenced in.

Redstone

[zabet]

102. Does on a motorcycle in a

graveyard after midnight count? :shrug:
Had a huge audience but, they were dead. :rofl:

[GOPisEvil]

103. Yes I have, but not recently.

[bicentennial_baby]

104. Yeah, once...

My BF and I hadn't seen each other in a month, and there was nowhere else for us to go, so we did it at night in a city park in Pittsburgh.

[Seashell Eyes]

105. not yet.

:)

[conscious evolution]

106. Planes trains automobiles

elevators graveyards boats beaches(sand really sucks)schools drum circle city hall dance floors and a few other places I am forgetting right now.
In a public bathroom? Yuck.Thats just gross.

[Rabrrrrrr]

107. Pfft. I wish.

[MrCoffee]

108. in the back of a moving pick-up

[redqueen]

109. Yup... several times.

Got caught a couple of times, too. Cops just chased us away, though. Deserted road, teenagers... that kinda thing.

[dolo amber]

110. I had sex in a Publix once

:shrug:

[Greyskye]

111. That's a grocery store, isn't it?

Was this during store hours? Back room or in the aisles? Surely not the frozen food section!

TTIWNWP! :evilgrin:

[dolo amber]

112. Produce

:hide:

[Greyskye]

113. gotta love those veggies!

:applause: :thumbsup:

[Nikia]

120. I have had sex outside a couple of times

I even one an award for it in my sorority.

[Dukkha]

121. on a BART train in SF

last run at 12:00

[MrScorpio]

122. A picnic table once

I never looked at barbeques the same way ever since

[Xipe Totec]

123. Other that naked on stage with a prostitute?

no, not really...

[angrycarpenter]

124. in the front yard during a hurricane

isn't rum wonderful

[Wapsie B]

125. Yeah, in a park, in a moving van,

parking lots, roadsides........never a glass elevator......yet....... :evilgrin:

[SmokingJacket]

126. Beach!

You have to be careful not to get the sand in certain places, otherwise... :thumbsup:

[opiate69]

127. Yep.. more times than I can count.. still do occasionally too..

[asthmaticeog]

128. Hell yeah.

I'd be amazed if someone had made it to his or her mid-20s without ever getting it on in the great outdoors, or at least a backseat. :shrug:

[dpbrown]

131. Car, park, swing-set, theater, boss's office, riverbank, cliff-top, at a party, & probably elsewhere

I can't recall everything. I'm getting old.

;)

[Thothmes]

132. Back seat of a Volkswagon

[DarkTirade]

133. I don't consider myself to be 100% hetero...

but the only sex in public I've ever had was hetero sex. :)

[NMDemDist2]

134. i gotta tell this story, it was so funny

BF & I had taken a hike in WVa to the top of the gorge above the New River (it took a pretty good free climb to get up there too, I might add)

we decided to have a little rock action on a beautiful fall day.....

anyway, this small plane flew over high above, then circled back at a MUCH lower altitude.... and then again at a still lower altitude..... but we were done by then, so we just smiled and waved :hi:

:blush:

:rofl:

[Zookeeper]

135. I find the Great Outdoors....

rather, um, *stimulating*, so, "Yes." Forest, beach, mountains, desert...but always VERY private and with an SO.

I don't want to stumble upon anyone (straight or gay) having sex in a park or restroom. (Don't want my kids to, either.) Keeping it private is just common courtesy.

[QMPMom]

136. State Park, City Park, Parent's Pool. All with my hubby.

[NewWaveChick1981]

137. Yes.

:P :evilgrin: But I'm not hetero. Sorry. :rofl:

[Mutley]

139. Yes

A golf course, the Chesapeake Bay, all sorts of woods and forests... eh, yeah.

[MrSlayer]

141. Many times.

I couldn't even name all the places.