Would you be more upset if you caught your SO cheating with someone of the opposite sex, same sex

[ohiosmith]

or it wouldn't matter cheating is cheating?

I think I could better deal with mine cheating with another woman.

[LaraMN]

1. I'd be shocked about the latter,

but it wouldn't ultimately matter. He'd end up in the same position, either way: divorced.

[flvegan]

2. If she was cheating with another woman...

could I watch? Join in?

[Midlodemocrat]

3. That didn't take long.

:rofl:

[ohiosmith]

4. Why don't you ask her and get back to us?

:hi:

[flvegan]

8. I have.

She just gives me that "look" and I hadn't even made the video camera suggestion yet.

sheesh

[ohiosmith]

10. Bummer dude.

[LeftyMom]

15. Down boy.

No. Not that it would happen, but no.

[ohiosmith]

18. Don't you know better than to come between a man and his fantasies?

[LeftyMom]

19. How can I be in between if I'm the star attraction in said fantasy?

:shrug:

[ohiosmith]

22. my bad

[Burma Jones]

21. Giggity Giggity

[mainegreen]

5. The same.

Badly. Very badly.

[MissMillie]

6. cheating is cheating

I'd be more worried about whether or not there were any emotions involved with my SO and the "other" person.



emotional infidelity is harder to fogive than "just a fling"


then again, I would hope I wouldn't ever be w/ someone who could have "just a fling"

[bicentennial_baby]

7. It's all the same to me...

Cheating is cheating, and it's something I don't tolerate, under any circumstances.

[Zavulon]

9. Either would mean the instant end of the relationship.

There are plenty of people who don't cheat; I won't waste a second on someone who has or does.

[jpgray]

11. Well, the trust thing would be my only concern

But to be honest cheating (though it hasn't happened to me and I haven't done it) doesn't matter much to me.

[Parche]

12. The More The Maryer

I think it would be fun........have a party :bounce::hi:
:crazy:

[ohiosmith]

14. Who says you're invited?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

13. if lisa cheated on me with a boy i would be too shocked to react.

:rofl:

[Connonym]

16. either would probably be a deal breaker but same sex more so and here's why

I'm too insecure to be involved with someone who is bi because I will always worry that there's something that they need sexually that they can't get from me. I wouldn't be able to completely sexually satisfy a bi partner and I'd have a hard time dealing with the thought that they wanted something I could never give them.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

20. atleast you are honest about this. most people who wont date bisexuals

invent the funniest little rationalizations.

[Mr. Blonde]

17. Probably another dude

If they were with another woman I would just rationalize that after me no other guy would do. :)

And no one better step all over my rationalizations.

[KitchenWitch]

23. I am in the "cheating is cheating" camp