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taterguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 05:20 AM
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Would you be upset if your spouse/SO hung out naked in a hot tub with one of their exes?
No particular reason for asking, just curious
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 05:54 AM
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1. instant ass-kickings required
yes INDEED
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 06:13 AM
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2. Yes, very.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 06:40 AM
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3. yes
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EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:09 AM
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4. Yeah, I expect I probably would be
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:12 AM
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5. yes. i also think she would be VERY unhappy if i did that
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:12 AM
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6. yes. i also think she would be VERY unhappy if i did that
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:16 AM
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7. I'm afraid I'd have to push someone's head under the water
Edited on Fri Aug-31-07 07:17 AM by QMPMom
until they ceased to be. And it wouldn't necessarily be the ex.

Hell yes, I'd be furious. But, that is coming from someone whose husband's ex-fiance called on Christmas morning a few years ago - after they had been split for 30 years. I was not impressed and I let them both know it. (He was stunned as he hadn't even thought about her in years. She got our phone number from one of his best friends.)
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:43 AM
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8. Probably not.
Naked is no big deal. They've certainly seen each other naked before. If it's not a date, and I trust that they're not having sex then I wouldn't care.

I'd want to know if it's a hot-tub party and who else will be there. If it's just the two of them then it would require a talk. But if I trust that they're not having sex...

:shrug:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:54 AM
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9. Would depend on a few factors.
Most namely, are there other people in the tub? If it's a group friendly thing without obvious sexual overtones, I wouldn't complain. If it's just a one on one, then yeah, I think I might be a wee bit upset.
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soleft Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:04 AM
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10. Um
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:10 AM
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11. No, but I'd hope I'd have my camera with me at the time.
:hide:

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