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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 05:26 AM
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Would you be upset in your current S/O did an Ex for shit's and giggles?
Then came back to you with comparison notes...

Or would you all just have a big laugh about it and slough off the whole thing?

Just askin'
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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:14 AM
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1. Yes, I'd be upset.
Seems like a really juvenile thing to do, and suggests the SO is not over the ex.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:24 AM
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2. So true.
My current ex is the same way. I swear I think he only wants to be friends with me to see if he can get it again. I hate him and I don't want to be his friend.
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:37 AM
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3. Hell, right now I am peeved that Mr MB has his first
serious gf as a friend on myspace...

:spank:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:45 AM
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4. That would be crossing a few lines.
I'm probably the easiest going boyfriend ever, but that would be a problem.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 07:50 AM
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5. why would she do that?
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triguy46 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:13 AM
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6. I think I would re-examine and discuss "significant" to make sure...
all parties were on the same page.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:14 AM
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7. To shit and giggle? No wonder the epithet "ex" became apropos...
:rofl:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:31 AM
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8. Yes, I'd be upset
Especially at my age, I'd hope the menfolk would have grown out of the behaviour by now, leastways the men I'd be interested in. But perhaps not.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:33 AM
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9. Only if the comparison didn't end with something like "But you're better."
Or I suppose 'bigger' would work too, but I'd prefer 'Better'. I'm not one of those guys who's obsessed with size. :)
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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:46 AM
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10. As long as we could have a rational discussion
....while reviewing the videotape to ensure objectivity.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:49 AM
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11. hell fucking yes I'd be angry
Damn good thing it'd never happen.
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Zookeeper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 08:53 PM
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12. Whoa! Yes, I would be "rather" upset about that....
unless we had an agreement to have an open relationship.

I've never had a relationship with the policy that sex with Ex'es doesn't count.

:shrug:

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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 09:01 PM
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13. Yes, I would.
Because he's been holding out on me for years. I would definitely be steam-coming-out-of-my-ears PISSED.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-31-07 11:13 PM
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14. I'd be upset, but we have a monogamous relationship though.
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