What would you do if your SO found the porn on your computer?

[triguy46]

Oops. Does it make sense to anyone that it has nothing to do with the SO? Or is that the point, that the SO is excluded?

[plcdude]

1. Hope she

enjoys it.

[redqueen]

2. probably that the SO is excluded, yes

people who are intimate with each other have an expectation of how much is shared or kept private... some like to share EVERYTHING and some don't... it's up to the people involved to communicate and make sure they're on the same page.

when that doesn't happen, feelings get hurt. it's sad.

[Withywindle]

3. Launch into a very detailed explanation of who these characters are and how they relate...

...to each other in the original works, plus lengthy explanation of the satire and symbolism....

OK, I like super-dorky porn. His eyes would glaze over. The kind he likes requires much less research and backstory. :evilgrin:

That's why we have different kinds of smut that we like. We have different tastes. Both of us are grown-up and secure enough not to need to thought-police each other's fantasy lives or take these things personally. Yeesh.

[triguy46]

7. I think it is interesting to see the decor, books on shelves, etc.

Whose house are they in?

[Withywindle]

9. Ah, the porn I like best is fictional

Stories do it for me much more than pictures or films. I'm fairly gender-typical that way.

My SO likes pictures, especially amateur stuff - and yeah, you can learn a lot from the surroundings.

I don't make the mistake of thinking that my porn is "erotica" and hence more classy or something, BTW. Diff'rent strokes, literally.

[DS1]

4. ask for a bigger harddrive

:P

[triguy46]

5. Now that is a penetrating insight into this enormous problem.

[DS1]

8. it's filling the void of analysis in here

[Withywindle]

10. That ol' floppy doesn't cut it any more...

it's all about the RAM.

[BarenakedLady]

6. I learned last year

that I virtually have no privacy, especially on the computer. There is nothing left to hide on here.

I'm beyond caring anyway. :shrug:

[Commie Pinko Dirtbag]

11. Two words: encrypted filesystem. -nt

[hunter]

20. Why would I encrypt porn?

Knowing me, I'd forget the password.

[jeff30997]

24. LOL!

Damn I love your sig pic !!!

[LostinVA]

12. I'd ask her if she enjoyed it

[Shakespeare]

17. That is the correct answer.

:P

Stupid smilie typos. :eyes:

[LostinVA]

27. Exactly

Right now, Haruka's annoyed that she needs to wait until the wedding to get Porno Jim's movie, "Hookin' Up." It took forever to ship, so The "Ex" is going to bring it to the wedding.

[Elidor]

13. Blame the dog

And deny, deny, deny

[Nikia]

14. He probably put it there

I don't save porn on my computer.

[YellowRubberDuckie]

15. End up in bed....

My husband loves porn. :shrug:

[SeattleGirl]

16. Probably faint. n/t

[triguy46]

18. I think this is the most accurate response for me.

[SeattleGirl]

21. I don't think it would ever occur to him that I like porn.

That's why I say he would probably faint.

[philosophie_en_rose]

19. Laugh.

:bounce:

[jeff30997]

22. Hehehe...

Super duper question ! I've been asking myself the same question(almost!).

If I had a SO (Witch I unfortunately don't...)I think I would Upload the stuff to

a safe server and wait until...until what ?

The truth is:

If I had a great SO I would dump that crap if she asked me to do so.Waaah!My Collection!!!

[no name no slogan]

23. I don't have either one

However, I do have lots of pr0n.

[Blue-Jay]

25. I'd shrug and laugh.

[LaraMN]

26. Tell him to get his OWN porn, on his OWN computer,

and stop hogging mine.

:P

[ghostsofgiants]

28. Wonder when the hell I started having an SO.

[triguy46]

29. "That is NOT my beautiful wife, that is NOT my beautiful house...."

:hi:

[davsand]

30. Hey--no need to be embarrassed! Look ALL you want, hon!

He's still in bed with ME. If I reap the benefits of his online activities I am FINE with porn. Hell, I'll even help him find more if it leads to fun in the sack with him!


Why is it a biggie?


:shrug:


Laura

[La Lioness Priyanka]

31. my so found a lot of gay male porn on my computer. she was confused.

it belonged to my brother.

[Starbucks Anarchist]

32. Sure, "brother."

:P

[La Lioness Priyanka]

33. dude what use do i have on 9 inch uncut ummm stufff?

[In_The_Wind]

34. Laugh.